October 5, 2016

Memorial Service

Friends of John Francis Brinster are invited to join his family in celebration of his life on Saturday, October 8 at 11 a.m. at Stonebridge in Skillman, NJ. A reception will follow the service. Memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association at: www.alz.org/join_the_cause_donate.asp.

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obit-kalkanis-10-5-16Agnes Rose Kalkanis

Agnes Rose Kalkanis (nee Smith) passed away on Tuesday, September 27, 2016, at Compassionate Care Hospice in Hamilton, NJ.

Born on September 11, 1924, Agnes grew up in Metuchen, NJ, and honorably served our country as a United States Navy WAVE, Seaman First Class, from 1944 to 1946. She raised her family in Edison, NJ, before spending many wonderful years as a resident of Point Pleasant Beach, NJ. She and her husband Ted took delight in the beauty of the Manasquan Inlet and enjoyed their family at joyous events at their home. She loved everything Irish, the New York Yankees, traveling to Vermont, cooking, and making the holidays a special time. Her independent spirit and giving nature remains an inspiration to those who were close to her.

Daughter of the late Julia and John Smith, she is survived by her beloved and devoted husband of 61 years, Ted Kalkanis; son Thomas Busby and his wife Claire, daughter Judy Gilbert and her husband Michael; granddaughters Meaghan Heim and her husband Allan, Lauren Duggan and her husband Sean, Juliann Gilbert, and Sarah Gilbert; great-granddaughter Alexis Heim; great-grandson Heath Duggan; and Agnes’ brothers Al Smith, and Jack Smith and wife Esther.

In lieu of flowers, the family invites you to make a donation in her memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN, 38105 (www.stjude.org).

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obit-irvinRichard E. Irvin

Richard E. Irvin, 80, of Robbinsville, NJ passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, October 1, 2016, surrounded by his loving family. Richard enjoyed trips to Atlantic City, Long Beach Island for clams and seafood dinners, and playing the New Jersey lottery. He loved spending time with his family and especially his grandchildren and great grandson. Holidays with the family were some of his favorite times. Richard retired in 2004 after 51 years as a sheet and metal worker with Simmons Sheet and Metal and Wilbur Sheet and Metal. He is survived by his devoted and caring wife Marie of 61 years, his daughters Joan M. Irvin and her partner John McGovern, Diane E. Murga and son-in-law David Murga, Darlene J. DiFalco and son-in-law Louis DiFalco, and his son Richard D. Irvin. He was a loving Pop Pop to his 6 grandchildren, Brian Wozniak, Anthony Romano, Matthew DiFalco, Gina Romano, Jennifer DiFalco and Max Irvin and great grandson Jace Edelen. Services will be private and at the convenience of the family. The family would like to thank Compassionate Care Hospice, especially his nurse John and caretaker Leslie.

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obit-bryant-10-5-16Donald Bryant

Donald Reid Bryant, 94, died at his long-time Pennington home Saturday, October 1. A member of the class of 1944 at Princeton University, he graduated early to serve in World War II as a forward observer. He received the Purple Heart for wounds he received during the Battle of the Bulge. After the War he attended Law School at the University of Pennsylvania. Over his many years of law practice, he had law offices in Trenton and Princeton, and served for a time as Magistrate in Pennington. He had been a member of the Nassau Club for over 65 years, where he could often be found enjoying backgammon and bridge, although he also played duplicate bridge in many other venues as well.

He was predeceased in 2010 by his wife of 65 years, Elizabeth Gilbert Bryant, and in 2011 by his second daughter, Christina Bryant Padin. He is survived by his other children: Lisa Bryant (previously Fowler); D. Reid Bryant and his wife Francine; Sara Bryant Trausch and her husband A. Nicholas; Joan Bryant Blankenship and her husband Raymond, son-in-law Edward R. Padin, of New Rochelle, NY, and his sister, Patricia Bryant Urban of Seattle. He is also survived by fourteen grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren. His family was his greatest pride and source of joy, especially each new baby.

A celebration of his life will be held at the Wilson Apple Funeral Home in Pennington from 11 to noon on Saturday, October 15. Please make donations, in lieu of flowers, to Holy Redeemer Hospice Care, P. O. Box 441, Trenton, N.J. 08603, or to the Pennington First Aid Squad, 110 Broemel Place, Pennington, N.J. 08534.

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Norman R. Schechter

Norman R. Schechter, 89, of Kendall Park died Saturday, October 1, 2016 at home in Kendall Park Surrounded by his loving family. Born in New York, NY, he was raised in Brooklyn and resided in Princeton from 1948 – 1960, Montgomery from 1960 until 2007 later moving to Kendall Park. Norman was a United States Army World War II Veteran. He retired in 1992 with over 12 years of service as a Supervisor with Educational Testing Services, Princeton and was previously employed for over 27 years as Director and Vice President of Pharmaceutical Production with the Princeton Laboratories. Norman was the past treasurer of the Princeton Chapter of Deborah Heart and Lung and on the board of Montgomery Township Development Commitee. He was an avid Yankee Fan and stamp collector. He enjoyed reading and crossword puzzles and was a gifted embroiderer.

Son of the late Jacob and Sophie Schechter, brother of the late Morris Sheridan and Ruth Kleinberg, he is survived by his wife of 60 years Jeanne Schechter, 2 daughters Susan Schechter and Laurel Schechter.

A Graveside service will be held at 11:30 a.m. on Wednesday, October 5, 2016 at the Beth Israel Cemetery, Woodbridge.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Kehilat Shalom, 253 Belle Mead-Griggstown Road Belle Mead NJ 08502 or Smile Train.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Star of David Memorial Chapel of Princeton.

September 14, 2016

obit-brinster-9-14-16John Francis Brinster

John Francis Brinster, 95, died peacefully at home at Stonebridge on Friday September 9, 2016. He was born and raised in Butler, New Jersey, the son of Lorenz and Margaret Brinster. John was president of his class when he graduated from Butler High School in 1939. He was awarded a full scholarship to Drew University to study chemistry. After a summer job in the Princeton University physics lab, the University made him a similar offer. He went on to graduate magna cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa from Princeton with the class of 1943, an honor that he was most proud of.

John grew up in rural New Jersey. As a youngster he built amateur chemistry and electronic labs in his basement and was an active ham radio operator with “friends” all over the world. While in high school he was editor of the school newspaper and played both basketball and football.

After college graduation, John stayed on at Princeton doing research and teaching at the graduate level. The War Manpower Commission required him to remain at Princeton to participate in war developments where he created the first multichannel radio telemetry devices for obtaining data from distant moving vehicles. When the American army captured the German V-2 missile, he was appointed a member of the National V-2 Panel to develop similar technology. He was in charge of five missiles to be fired at White Sands Proving Grounds working with Wernher von Braun. John worked with physicists such as Wheeler, Pauli, Feynman, and Wigner, and also enjoyed associations with Einstein and Oppenheimer at the Institute for Advanced Study. His 1946 analytical report that was requested by the government was the first to recommend data transmission and manipulation in the form of binary code well before the availability of solid-state devices. Later, John became an entrepreneur and with the help of local investors, he started Applied Science Corporation, known as ASCOP and then General Devices. They were small high tech companies in data acquisition, telemetry, and thermo-electricity. General Devices developed and built the telemetry system used in John Glenn’s capsule to communicate from space to earth.

John’s passion for business led him to take over Allied Boats in the late 60’s, the marine division of a small company owned by his brother Larry. From this, he created Marine Drive Systems where John designed and created stern drives (marine propulsion) for various motor boating applications ranging from pleasure boats to large commercial ferries. This enabled John and Doris, his wife of nearly 71 years, to travel world wide marketing the Marine Drive products. Marine Drive Systems successfully competed with industry giants such as Volvo-Penta, MerCruiser, and Chris Craft. John sold the company in the early 90’s and retired.

During his professional years, John, a scientist and creator at heart, received patents for more than 16 inventions. Once retired, John became extremely interested in, and somewhat of an authority on neuroscience and the human mind. As a Princeton alumnus, John worked to emphasize the study of neuroscience at the University by participating in the national “Decade of the Brain” so designated by George H. W. Bush to enhance public awareness of the benefits of brain research. John donated a prize in perpetuity for the best senior thesis in neuroscience. Work with his class led to the realization of the Princeton Neuroscience Institute. He made similar scholarship contributions to Rutgers and Drew Universities.

In his later years, John was passionate about writing and published nine books both fiction and non-fiction. He recently finished his tenth book that is yet to be edited and published.

Because of John’s love for boating, he and his family enjoyed summers at the New Jersey shore. He ultimately built a family home in Mantoloking on Barnegat Bay that could easily accommodate his growing four-generation family.

John was a longtime active member of The Nassau Club and so enjoyed his weekly “Saturday Lunch Bunch” meetings. He was also a member of The Old Guard and an invited speaker on several occasions.

John leaves behind his wife, Doris Lacy Ayres, whom he met on a bet with his co-workers in the summer of 1942; his daughters Jaye White and Meg; his son John and his son-in-law, Allen White. John had nine grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

Burial will be private and handled by Mather Hodge Funeral Home. A memorial service is being planned for October. For information regarding the memorial service, please contact Meg at Megrit@aol.com.

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John Robert Waltman

John Robert (Bob) Waltman, 94, died on September 8, 2016 surrounded by his loving family at the Stonebridge residence in Skillman.

Bob was born in Steubenville, Ohio to Edwin Guy and Martha Beard Waltman. He attended the Mercersburg Academy before entering Princeton University with the great class of 1945. In the spring of 1943, Bob left Princeton to enlist in the Army. From 1943 to 1946 he served with the Army Corps of Engineers, 1289th Engineer Combat Battalion. Bob served in France, Germany, and the Philippines and attained the rank of First Lieutenant. He returned to Princeton in 1946 to complete his Bachelor of Science in engineering degree. In 1948 he began a long and successful career with the United States Gypsum Company. Retiring from his position as national accounts executive in 1987, Bob was known for his exemplary dedication, integrity, humility, and for his personal touch and wry good humor.

An avid golfer and sailor and a proud member of the Old Guard, Bob enjoyed big band music, jazz and cleverly plotted espionage novels. He traveled frequently, first in the service, then for work, and finally enjoying many trips abroad after his retirement. More than anything, he enjoyed time spent with his family. An exemplary man in every regard, Bob was a gentle soul with a sweetly mischievous twinkle in his eye. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Bob is survived by his wife of 65 years Diana (Didi) Fredericks Waltman; his daughters Susan Waltman Simpson, Sally (Bay) Waltman (and spouse Elizabeth Ries) and Martha O’Connor (and spouse Michael); and by his son James Robert (Jim) Waltman (and spouse Alicia); as well as by his eight adoring grandchildren; Jack, Diana (Annie) and Matthew Simpson; Kelly, Duncan and John Patrick O’Connor; and Emma and James Torrey (Jimmy) Waltman.

Interment will be held privately. Arrangements are under the direction of The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Stony Brook-Millstone Watershed Association or Habitat for Humanity of Trenton.

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obit-oconnor-9-14-16Robert Arthur O’Connor

Robert Arthur O’Connor, long-time Princeton resident, died Thursday, September 8, 2016 at age 96 after a long illness.

Mr. O’Connor was born in the Bronx, N.Y., and graduated from the City College of New York in 1942, then served in the U.S. Army Signal Corps 1943-45 in the China-Burma-India theater of operations. He spent most of his career at Columbia Broadcasting System, retiring in 1987 as vice-president, transmission and staff engineering. He was a member of many industry and government committees, including the International Radio Consultative Committee (CCIR), IEEE Broadcast Technology Society, and the National Association of Broadcasters (NAB.)

He is survived by his wife of 68 years, Marion (nee Azzoni), his three children: Christine, Arthur and wife Linda, and Andrew and wife Kathryn; and his seven grandchildren Matthew, Brett, Madeline, Julia, Emma, Genevieve, and Rhys as well as many nieces and nephews. His father, Arthur; mother, Justina (nee Zeig); brother, William and wife Ellen (nee Boylan) have predeceased him.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, September 16 at 10 a.m. at St. Charles Borromeo Church in Skillman, with burial following at Princeton Cemetery.

Inspired by his love of classical music, the family suggests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Princeton Symphony Orchestra, P.O. Box 250, Princeton, NJ 08542.