November 27, 2024

Susan K. Stein
September 20, 1946 – November 11, 2024

Susan Kampmeier Stein, age 78, passed away from heart failure in Princeton, New Jersey, on the evening of November 11, 2024, surrounded by loving family members.

Born and raised in Chattanooga, Tennessee, Susan graduated from Chattanooga City High School in 1964, honored as valedictorian. She also was a star basketball player, retaining prowess with an almost unstoppable left hook shot into her 70s.

She received her B.A. from Oberlin College in 1968, after a year of study abroad at the American University of Beirut in 1967, and her M.S. from MIT in 1972. She met her husband George H. Stein while studying in Boston; they were married in 1973.

A devoted wife and mother, she worked many years as a registered dietician and laboratory researcher, always actively engaged in volunteer projects, building communities and friendships wherever she went. Together with her husband, she led an adventurous life, living in Atlanta, GA; Burlington, NC; Charlotte, NC; Miami, FL; New York City, NY; Los Angeles, CA; Munich, Germany; and Teaneck, NJ, before ultimately settling in Princeton in 1996.

Throughout her life, she was committed to alleviating childhood malnutrition and the dire effects of poverty on women and children. She launched her efforts in this area with a summer working for the United Nations in Guatemala in 1968, continued her dedication through work in public health on women’s, infants’ and children’s nutrition, and brought this passion on into her volunteer work in Central New Jersey with the emergency shelter program of HOME SC (Housing Outreach Multi-faith Empowerment of Somerset County, NJ), then known as the Interfaith Hospitality Network of Somerset County; Arm In Arm, previously known as the Crisis Ministry of Princeton; and TASK (Trenton Area Soup Kitchen), especially through the food donation drive “Yes We Can” that she and her husband helped organize in 2009 in response to the financial crisis.

She particularly enjoyed treating children with genetic disorders of metabolism, such as cystic fibrosis, in Florida, and a “second career” as technician and researcher in the Barry Jacobs lab of the Psychology Department of Princeton University, contributing to key research into the functioning of serotonin in the brain. Known by friends and family for her scientific research abilities, she also worked informally as a patient advocate supporting several friends and family members including during her eldest daughter’s childhood cancer and her father’s struggle with Parkinson’s disease.

While living in California, she completed her conversion to Judaism — her faith in God served as a guide and a source of strength throughout her life. In Munich, Germany, between 1990–95, she and her husband founded what was to become Beth Shalom, the first liberal Jewish congregation in Munich since the end of World War II. She hosted holiday parties, taught the 8-11-year-old class at the group’s Jewish Sunday School, and organized religious services. She led families to make Chanukah candles from bags full of wax remnants of candles held high during a major public demonstration against xenophobia in Munich in 1992. Her warmth and welcoming spirit enabled many “lost” German and East European Jews to reclaim their heritage.

No celebration was complete without her smile and laughter, but just to be sure, she also brought her famous apple crisps and hazelnut tortes. For these cakes, she faithfully followed a traditional recipe from the Jewish communities on either side of the Rhine, which was passed down through the family via George’s grandmother, “Grossmama,” who was born in the Saarland. The hazelnut tortes were so prized that she was requested to fly them cross-country to family Pesach celebrations in Palo Alto and Salt Lake City.

In addition to maintaining lifelong friendships across decades and continental distances, she enjoyed fellowship, friendship, and community in Princeton, particularly with the extended family of David and Liz Cohen, neighbors for over 28 years, through the MIT Club of Princeton, and as an active member of the Walnut-Cuyler-Dempsey Potluck group.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Sophia “Sally” (Wass) Kampmeier and Roland August Kampmeier; an unborn son, “Charlie”; her sister, Ann (Kampmeier) Qualman; her sister-in-law, Astri Reusch; her father’s second wife, Silbia Scott Kampmeier; and several adored aunts, uncles, cousins, in-laws, and dear friends. She is survived by her husband of 51 years, George H. Stein; daughter Ada Laura Stein and grandson Erik Thorsteinsson; daughter Jannon Sonia Stein; daughter Julia Caroline Kampmeier Stein, son-in-law Lars Berg, and grandchildren Sono Aiden Berg Stein and Aletta Henriette Berg Stein; her brother William “Bill” Kampmeier (Paige); brother-in-law Samuel Stein (Gail); brother-in-law Fred Stein (Sue); sister-in-law Ada Mae Crouse (Irvin); and beloved nieces, nephew-in-law, grandnieces of both kinds, godchildren, cousins, and cherished friends around the world.

Her memorial service will be on December 7 at 3 p.m. at Congregation Kehilat Shalom in Belle Mead.

In lieu of flowers, donations are welcome to one or more of the following organizations Susan cared about: HOME SC (homescnj.org); the Audubon Society to Protect Birds (audubon.org); the Watershed Institute (thewatershed.org/donate); the ACLU of New Jersey (aclu-nj.org); the World Wildlife Federation (worldwildlife.org); Arm In Arm (arminarm.org); TASK (trentonsoupkitchen.org); and the Barre (Vt.) Historical Society (oldlaborhall.org).

She will be dearly missed.

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Rita F. Rofe

Rita F. Rofe, a longtime Princeton resident, passed away on November 17, 2024, after a brief illness. A decades-long ESL educator in the Princeton School System, she also taught for several years in the American International School in Tashkent, Uzbekistan, after her retirement.

Rita enjoyed opera and yoga, was deeply committed to health and wellness pursuits, and, most especially, travel. Italy held a special place in her heart.

Predeceased by her parents, Marie Detmer Zebro and Frank Zebro, Rita leaves behind her siblings, Marie Zebro Lake, of South River, NJ, Joseph Zebro of Hilton Head, SC, and Evelyn Zebro of Asheville, NC; nephews Edward Zebro, Adam Lake, Alexander Zebro Osio, and Damien Zebro Osio; as well as great-nieces, Gabrielle, Katherine, Sarah, and Alice. She will be greatly missed and always remembered.

Arrangements under the direction of The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home.

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Edward Jonathan Bergman

Edward Jonathan Bergman, devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on November 22, 2024 at the age of 82.

After spending his childhood in Bayonne with his brother, Robert, and parents, Abe and Ethel, Edward proudly graduated from the University of Pennsylvania with a B.A. with Honors in Art History. He received his J.D. from Columbia University and, subsequently, spent two years as a graduate fellow at the Annenberg School of Communications where he worked in the Documentary Film Laboratory. Notably, he received the American Film Institute Independent Filmmaker Award.

In the mid-’70s, after settling in Princeton, NJ, Edward began the private practice of law. The firm Bergman & Barrett was established and continued until his recent retirement. In the late-’80s, Edward became focused on alternative approaches to dispute resolution and was named to a Blue Ribbon Panel for the Creation of a Pilot Mediation Project for the U.S. District Court, District of NJ. From 1992 until his retirement, Edward mediated hundreds of cases in both state and federal courts.

In 1995, Edward returned to his alma mater and began teaching undergraduate courses in Negotiation and Dispute Resolution at the Wharton School of Business. In 2011, he was awarded the William G. Whitney Award for Excellence in Undergraduate Education. In 2005, he transferred his skills to the Department of Medical Ethics and Health Policy where he founded the Penn Program for the Management of Clinical Conflict. With the assistance of his Penn colleagues, Edward conducted Intensive Clinical Ethics Mediation Workshops three to four times per year. In addition to his law practice and teaching assignments, Edward found the time to write and co-author numerous articles published in peer-reviewed journals in the field of bioethics.

Edward’s connection to Penn extended beyond academics with his intense passion for Penn athletics, the Palestra, and Quaker Men’s Basketball. A season ticket holder for decades, Edward was a faithful and visible basketball fan always seated no more than two rows behind the team bench.

His love of basketball included traveling each year (for 40 years) to a city hosting a round of the NCAA men’s basketball tournament. Affectionately known as the “Boys of Spring,” Edward, Neil, Phil, and Steve, would celebrate their longtime friendship every March watching a weekend packed with college basketball.

A remembrance of Edward’s life would be incomplete without mentioning his love of Italian and French wines that he routinely shared with his family, friends, and Princeton Wine Group. Carefully curated bottles from Piedmont or Southern Rhone were routinely served with dinner he lovingly and meticulously prepared.

Ed is survived by his loving wife of 20 years, Jennifer Mullen; his children Peter Bergman and Amy Bergman Bonomi; his grandchildren Liza Bonomi, Celia Bonomi, Zora Bergman, and Nathaniel Bergman; Jane Shapiro, his former wife and the mother of his children; his niece Maggie Bergman and great-niece Maisie Bo; and many dear friends and colleagues.

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Marvin Wilmar Louis Ostberg

Marvin Wilmar Louis Ostberg, 88, of Skillman died on Monday, November 18, 2024 at home with his loving wife by his side. Two weeks earlier he had received initial copies of his book, Waking Up Old: A Life Lived Reasonably Well. Born in Slayton, Minnesota, he grew up in Nebraska. After graduating from Wakefield High School in 1955, he joined the United States Navy and traveled with the 7th Fleet to the Far East. Returning to Nebraska, he earned his BA degree at Wayne State. He married Nancy Whitford, taught high school English, earned his MS in sociology at the University of Kentucky, and taught sociology at Northwestern State University in Louisiana. He was an employment counselor for 23 years for the State of Oregon. He retired in 1988 and lived in New Jersey for over 25 years.

After many years as a single father for his two daughters, he and Pat married in 1999. When Pat became Marv’s wife, she also became the mother-in-love of two daughters as well as grandmother-in-love of his two lovely granddaughters. Marv and Pat have traveled all over the world, separately and together. Marv’s hobbies were reading history, lively discussions of current events, and shooting pool. He was a board member of the Princeton YWCA and, as “Mr. Marvin,” enjoyed 20 years of reading to toddlers at the Y. He was also a member of the Princeton United Methodist Church and the church’s Tiffany Window Tour Team.

Son of the late Wilmar R. and Louise (Konold) Ostberg Kahler, father of the late Carolyn Chun, brother of the late Roger Ostberg and Lyle Kahler, he is survived by his wife of 25 years Patricia (Warren) Ostberg, a daughter Jill Ostberg, son-in-law Jonathan Chun, and two granddaughters, Emily Chun and Hannah Chun He will surely be missed by family and friends, and will be remembered with love and gratitude.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, November 30, 2024 at the Princeton United Methodist Church, 7 Vandeventer Avenue, Princeton. In Marvin’s memory donations may be given to Save the Children, Doctors Without Borders, or an organization of choice.

November 20, 2024

Memorial Service

Bill & Connie Tate

A Memorial Service to celebrate the lives of Bill and Connie Tate will be held on Monday, November 25 at 4 p.m. at Trinity Church, 33 Mercer Street, Princeton.

Constance Tate

Constance Klein Tate, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully at home on October 13 at the age of 88. Born on September 24, 1936, in Gross Pointe, MI, Connie grew up in Detroit, Pittsburgh, and Washington, DC. She graduated from Woodrow Wilson High School in 1954 and pursued her passion for nursing at Grace New Haven School of Nursing and Boston University.

In 1964, Connie met Dr. William James Tate III, a medical resident at Yale New Haven Hospital. They married that same year and moved to Pittsburgh, PA, and Morgantown, WV, before settling in Princeton, NJ, in 1969 to raise their family. Bill passed away in May 2020.

As her children grew older, Connie returned to nursing, dedicating 15 years to caring for students at McCosh Infirmary at Princeton University. She also worked as a substitute nurse in Princeton schools and for Hoffman LaRoche, supporting clinical trials. She proudly completed her Bachelor of Science in Nursing (BSN) in the early 1990s.

An avid traveler, Connie’s adventures began in her early 20s when she spent a summer riding a scooter through Europe with her younger sister. In the early 1970s, she drove from New Jersey to Costa Rica twice in an unairconditioned VW Beetle with graduate student friends. Later, she and Bill completed the 192-mile coast-to-coast walk in England and joined Bill on Yale Alumni Chorus trips to Armenia, Georgia, Turkey, Latvia, Lithuania, and Estonia.

Connie pursued lifelong learning with enthusiasm, auditing courses in history, politics, and literature at Princeton University, often arriving early on registration day with Bill so they could secure their first choices. She also discovered a passion for painting, finding joy in icon writing classes at Trinity Church through The Prosopon School of Iconology.

Connie is survived by her children, William (Anne Christine), Abigail Reynolds (Spencer), and Sarah Constable (Ian); her sister Carole and brother Fred in Florida; and her grandchildren, Spencer, Sydney, Peyton, and James Reynolds, and Emma and Matthew Tate.

A celebration of the lives of Connie and Bill Tate will be held on Monday, November 25, at 4 p.m. at Trinity Church in Princeton.

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Paul M. Lion III

December 7, 1934 – November 3, 2024

Paul Michel Lion III, 89, of Gainesville, Virginia, passed at his home early in the morning of November 3, 2024. Mike, as he was universally known, was born in Washington, DC, the only child of Paul Michel Lion Jr. (USNA 1925) and Louise Chandler Lion.

Growing up in a Navy family, Mike attended the Sidwell Friends School in Washington, DC, from kindergarten through sixth grade, when they moved to Westchester County, New York. He graduated from White Plains High School in 1952, then competed for and won a Presidential appointment to West Point, entering just eight days after his high school graduation. Mike excelled at West Point, achieving a standing of 12 of 480 on the graduation Order of Merit List. Mike was active in the Debate Council and Forum, the Russian Club, and as a staff member of the cadet magazine, the Pointer. 

After graduating from West Point in 1956, Mike married his beloved Jane Sanford of Mount Vernon, NY. Upon completing training at Ft. Belvoir, Mike and Jane moved to Germany, where they began their family of four sons: David, James, Thomas, and William. Mike served in Germany until the end of his commission in 1959.

Upon returning to the U.S., Mike and Jane then settled in Princeton, NJ, their home for over 20 years. Mike entered the graduate school in Princeton University, achieving a Masters in of Science degree in Aeronautical Engineering in 1963, a Master of Materials Science degree in 1964, and a Ph.D. in AE in 1965.  Mike was named a Post-Doctoral Fellow at Princeton, also working as a consultant for Systems Technology.

In 1966 Mike was named an Assistant Professor of Aerospace Engineering, initially teaching courses in optimization theory and stability theory while also serving as principal investigator for a NASA contract on optimum space trajectories. In 1970 he advanced from Assistant to Associate Professor, then in 1974 to full Professor of Civil Engineering.

Intrigued by changes in society circa 1970, Mike looked to apply his research to less esoteric and more practical optimization challenges that would directly benefit people.  In 1972, Mike developed the concept of a graduate program in Transportation, to be jointly supported by the School of Engineering and Applied Science, the School of Public and International Affairs, and the School of Architecture and Urban Planning.  Upon approval from the Board of Trustees, he obtained start-up funding from the Ford Foundation, and the Transportation Program accepted its first graduate students in the Fall of 1972. The program continues as one of the University’s most respected interdisciplinary programs. Upon his handing over the reins of the Program to his former grad student and hand-picked successor, several of his students created a scholarship fund in his honor.

Mike left the University in 1979 to continue putting his technical skills and theoretical knowledge to practical use. He served the U.S. Railway Association, Snavely King & Associates, and the Technical Resources Center of Arthur D. Little Inc., with a focus on improving the efficiency of the USPS.  He retired as Vice President of Washington Operations for ALK Associates, a firm producing software for the transportation industry.

During their Washington years Mike and Jane lived in McLean, VA. They also had a cottage in Oak Bluffs on Martha’s Vineyard where they summered. In 2005 they moved to Gainesville, VA, where they gained many friends in a senior-focused community.  Mike’s friendships from West Point were precious to him and Jane, remaining lifelong companions and adventurers. 

Mike enjoyed a Perfect Manhattan, and rooting for his Redskins, the Yankees, the Princeton Tigers, and especially, his alma mater. “Go Army!” was a common call on fall weekends in the Lion’s den.

Mike was a brilliant technical analyst, professor, and mentor. He launched hundreds of students on their careers, teaching them to use what he taught to define and solve the problems in transportation, logistics, and other applications of operations research. He was a broad and deep reader, ever-expanding his knowledge and understanding of the world, and then to apply that understanding to help someone or solve a problem.

But more than that, he was a friendly, funny, charming man who took serious interest in others, and in sharing what he knew, what he thought, and what he found humorous. He was a champion of puns and of “Dad jokes” to his boys. In their youth he acted as an Indian Guide chieftain, their Little League baseball coach, and a very vocal advocate for their academic and athletic endeavors. His grandchildren called him Pops. 

Mike was predeceased by his son, William. He will be deeply mourned by his wife of 68+ years, Jane, and three sons, David, James (Aisha), and Thomas (Cynthia); a granddaughter, Alexa (Andrew) and a great-granddaughter due in December; a grandson, Nicolas; and many cousins and their families.

Services were held on Saturday, November 16, 2024, at 2 p.m. at Greenwich Presbyterian Church in Nokesville, Virginia. Memorial contributions may be made to The P. M. Lion Senior Thesis Fund at Princeton University by contacting Jane Maggard, Associate Dean, Development, School of Engineering & Applied Sciences; or to the Generation to Generation Fund of the Greenwich Presbyterian Church, 15303 Vint Hill Rd, Nokesville, VA 20181.

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Gratina LaFauci

Gratina A. LaFauci (nee Zoccola), 93, of Princeton, NJ, passed away on Monday, November 11, 2024, at Ciel Assisted Living of Princeton in Monmouth Junction, NJ.

Born in Princeton, NJ, Gratina was a lifelong resident of Princeton.

Gratina was employed by Princeton University and was on the Firestone Library staff for 49 years, before retiring.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Michael, and her parents, Josephine and Peter Zoccola.

Gratina is survived by her sister, Donna Zoccola Soultoukis and her brother-in-law Dimitrios Soultoukis, of Yardley, PA; three stepsons and their spouses: Michael and Donna LaFauci, Jr., Thomas M. and Sonia LaFauci, Gerald and Donna Watko; a stepdaughter, Michele LaFauci; and numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews.

Visitation was held on Saturday, November 16, 2014, in the Kimble Funeral Home, 1 Hamilton Avenue, Princeton, NJ, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Paul Catholic Church, 214 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ. with interment in St. Paul Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Arthritis Foundation (arthritis.org) or Meals on Wheels of Mercer County (mealsonwheelsmercer.org).

Extend condolences and share memories at TheKimbleFuneralHome.com.

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Betty Grae Fishman

December 6, 1923 – November 11, 2024

Betty Grae Fishman passed away peacefully on November 11, surrounded by her loving family, just three weeks before her 101st birthday.

Betty was a celebrated leader, advocate, educator, and champion of the arts in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Throughout a life of achievement, she received numerous honors, including an honorary PhD from Saint Francis College, the Governor’s Award for highest service in 1971, and the declaration of Betty Fishman Day by the mayor of Fort Wayne in 2004. She was an active member of the Achduth Vesholom Congregation, a sustaining member of the Delta Gamma Sorority, Designer Craftstmen, and the Ex Libris Book Club. 

Betty was born on December 6, 1923, in Defiance, Ohio, at the home of her grandparents, William and Viola Wagner. Her parents were Marguerite Lunger and Dr. Guernsey Reiner Lunger. She spent her early childhood on her grandparents’ farm, where the natural surroundings sparked a lifelong love of gardens, plants, animals, and woodland forests.

At the age of five, Betty moved to Hicksville, Ohio, to live with her mother and step-father, Arlie Smith, a widower with three daughters, who owned the local lumber yards. She was a spirited child and did well at school, showing talent in both drawing and writing.

Betty graduated as Salutatorian from Hicksville High School and went on to attend Miami University in the fall of 1942. However, with the attack on Pearl Harbor, everything changed. In the midst of wartime upheaval, Betty quickly married her sweetheart, Howard Campbell, a jazz saxophonist she had dated during summer nights spent dancing at the Cold Springs Hotel at Hamilton Lake.

Betty and Howard moved to Arizona, where he trained fighter pilots while Betty worked in canning factories. At just 20 years old and far from home, Betty embraced her new life with a sense of national pride and purpose. She and her friends worked hard, but also played hard — playing rounds of bridge late into the night and sneaking rides in fighter jets on weekends. Betty never forgot her time in Arizona, cherishing her exposure to Native American culture, and taking up interests in weaving and ceramics.

When the war ended, Betty divorced and returned to Ohio, where she completed her studies at Ohio State University. There, she pursued a diverse academic path, studying fine arts, food science, and textiles. Along the way, she was both an honor student and a beauty queen.

In 1949, Betty married Marvin Fishman, a Jewish merchant and prominent member of the Fort Wayne community. As a young mother, she became deeply involved in the cultural life of the city. Betty’s daughters, Katie and Marguerite, fondly recall her sitting by the telephone stand, making calls from lists she had carefully compiled for various fundraising efforts.

During these years, Betty served on the board of the Fine Arts Foundation, where she played a key role in the creation of the Louis Kahn-designed Theatre of Performing Arts, now known as Arts United Center. She often shared stories of the interviewing process for this project, recalling her interactions with world-renowned architects who competed for the commission. Betty also contributed to the development of Indiana University–Purdue University Fort Wayne, serving on the committee that helped designate its new location, and facilitated the merger of the Fort Wayne Art School with the university.

Nature was often the wellspring of Betty’s creative inspiration. Her daughters remember accompanying her to the fields of Indiana, where she would set up her easel to create plein air charcoal drawings while they played nearby. Throughout her life, her family and friends grew to depend on her knowledge of the natural world, often asking, “What bird is making that call?” or “What is the name of that tree?”

Throughout her busy life, Betty always made time for her own artistic practice, exploring a variety of mediums including painting, drawing, cyanotype, textiles, printmaking, and bead work. The Fort Wayne Museum of Art is proud to have several examples of her work in their collection.

As her children grew older, Betty pursued further education, taking classes and workshops at the Fort Wayne Art School, Penland School of Craft, and Arrowmont School of Arts and Crafts. In the 1960s Betty joined the ranks of women who found the role of homemaker and volunteer confining. After her divorce, she married Russell Oettel, a painter and art professor who deeply admired her and supported her passion for the fine arts. They moved to a charming log cabin nestled in the woods, where they cultivated a large organic garden. Betty grew beautiful flowers and vegetables, made pickles, jams, and jellies, and baked bread every weekend.

In this period, Betty completed her master’s degree in arts education at the University of Saint Francis, setting the stage for a fulfilling 21-year career teaching art to elementary and middle school students in East Noble, Indiana.

When she retired from teaching, Betty embarked on her next career at Artlink, where she served as the Executive Director of the nonprofit art gallery from 1990 to 2006. During her tenure, Betty transformed the small gallery into a vibrant cultural hub and a major force in the Fort Wayne community. She brought artists and community members together by establishing an artist panel to select and curate exhibitions. Betty’s gallery openings became legendary in Fort Wayne, often standing-room-only events where community leaders, artists, and art lovers gathered to support and celebrate the featured work.

Betty is survived by her two daughters, Marguerite Fishman of Pacific Grove, California and Katie Eastridge of Princeton, New Jersey; her two sons-in-law, Patrick George and Nick Eastridge; and her two grandsons, David and John Eastridge. The last big smile of her life was given to her baby great-granddaughter, Eva Rose Eastridge.

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Marie-Louise Jordi

Marie-Louise Jordi (Loulette) died peacefully on October 16, 2024 at The Greens of Greenwich in Greenwich, Connecticut. She was 93 years old.

Loulette was born on September 29, 1931 in Sion, Switzerland, to Louis DalPont and Germaine Maret DalPont. She grew up in Martigny where she spent many summers with her grandparents in the alpine village of Bruson. At a young age, she discovered her wanderlust and traveled to Hempstead Long Island where she worked as an au pair. She discovered New York City and the beauty of the Long Island Sound and Connecticut.

Upon her return to Switzerland, she joined Air France and found her true calling in the travel business. She worked in Zurich where she met her future husband, Edouard Jordi, who was working in Dusseldorf, Germany. They were wed in November of 1960 in Martigny, Switzerland, and celebrated at the iconic Chateau de la Batiaz. They soon moved to the United States where they welcomed their children Philippe and Catherine.

Loulette returned to the travel business working for Revere Travel in Princeton, NJ, and then with American Express Travel. Her vast knowledge of Europe, fluency in five languages, and love of travel brought her scores of clients who eagerly sought her advice and recommendations. Her career in travel spanned over 30 years.

Travel was one of her great passions in life that allowed her to experience many diverse cultures across the world. Her love for her Swiss family often brought her and her family back to visit her parents and siblings and their families. Loulette’s greatest source of pride were her two children and their families. After Philippe moved to Martha’s Vineyard, she would come to the island with Catherine and her family to spend the summers on the Vineyard, the start of a long family tradition.

Preceded in death by her husband, Edouard and her sister, Aurelie Berger, Loulette is survived by her children, Philippe Jordi (Randi Baird) of West Tisbury, MA, and Catherine Marcus (Drew) of Greenwich, CT; grandchildren Alexander Marcus (Lara), Olivia Parnon (Eric), Julia Marcus, Elie Jordi and Miles Jordi; and her brother Pierre DalPont.

A private memorial service will be held in Switzerland next year.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks donations be made to Vineyard Village at Home, PO Box 1356, Vineyard Haven, MA 02568.

November 13, 2024

Patricia Strazza

Patricia Jean Peterson Strazza died peacefully on Wednesday, October 23, 2024, in her home on a warm and sundrenched fall day, surrounded by family, her dear caregivers, and the art and beauty she loved.

Born in Logan, Utah, January 30, 1933, “PJ,” as she was known, had western roots and grew up surrounded by pioneer spirit, often taking road trips with her adventurous parents to national parks and other points of interest. In 1948, the family moved to Washington, DC, her father taking a job in the US Department of Interior and her mother starting her career at Sidwell Friends School. PJ blossomed during her time attending Sidwell Friends where she excelled in academics, played the piano and organ, even performing at the National Cathedral. After graduation she went north to Cornell University where she embraced college life and made numerous lifelong friends. Big Red held a special place in her heart thereafter. She also found there the love of her life, Richard Strazza, the lucky third wheel she met while dating Dick’s roommate. They married in 1955, the year she graduated from what is now Cornell’s College of Human Ecology.

Once married, she followed her mother’s footsteps into teaching, but soon found her hands more than full, with three children. She and Dick moved to Princeton in the mid ’60s where they raised their children (with a parenting style she jokingly called “benign neglect”) as well as a gaggle of Newfoundlands. PJ was a lover of dogs, people, and good times. No college football or hockey season went by without a raucous Cornell/Princeton party at the house; it remains surprising that a porch full of attendees collapsed only once. At various gatherings, holidays, and the annual Strazza Christmas Eve Open House, she could usually be found at the bench behind the piano singing hymns and Cornell songs, family and friends crowded around her, delighting in the glow of her warmth and merriment. She always welcomed her children’s many friends who hold their own fond remembrances of her from those times at the piano and of the smile she seemed to always wear.

During her time in Princeton, she volunteered for many causes including the Princeton Hospital Fete, Recording for the Blind, and local politics. Her passion for art led to her and Dick’s involvement in the local art scene, culminating in their purchase of Gallery 100 on Nassau Street in Princeton. They loved befriending and supporting local artists and that the gallery became a gathering spot for many.

It was her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren that brought her the greatest joy. She reveled in their accomplishments, attending countless sporting events, school ceremonies, birthday parties, marching band competitions, and band concerts, always looking for a chance to celebrate them. She cherished the times she and Dick spent at their vacation home in Treasure Cay, Bahamas, where she escaped winter to soak in the sun sparkling off the turquoise blue water, loving the Abacos for their warm Bahamian people and island lifestyle. She shared their paradise with dear friends from Cornell and elsewhere. The door was always open there. And her heart was always open everywhere.

“We had so much fun” was the refrain as she contemplated her life these past years. Indeed, she did.

She was predeceased by her younger sister, Mary Lou of Portland, Oregon, and her husband, Dick Strazza. She is survived by her three children, Sophia Tomasi (Ted), Craig Strazza (Ann), and Karen Strazza (Jeff Heath); her sister, Sue Peterson Huguely (Geoff); as well as eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren (with another on the way!). They, and her many nieces and nephews, in-laws, step grandchildren, friends, and all she touched in her unique way, will miss her terribly. But they also know that she is celebrating with her beloved “Pop Pop” and the family and friends that have gone before her.

She always shouted out to those leaving after a visit “Don’t change!” Same to you, PJ; know that the deeply fond memories of all those you have known will never change.

Arrangements and cremation services were private under the direction of the Holcombe-Fisher Funeral Home, 147 Main Street, Flemington, NJ 08822. For further information or to send an online condolence, please visit PJ’s memorial page and guestbook below at holcombefisher.com.

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Jean Hoy Hoover

Jean Hoy Hoover of Princeton, NJ, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on October 22.

Born in 1930, Jean resided in Princeton for 61 years after moving from Lafayette Hill, Pa., in 1963. She spent many summers in Avalon, NJ, with her siblings and extended family. She attended Moore Institute of Art (now Moore College of Art) in Philadelphia after graduating from Norristown High School in 1948. There she met the love of her life, John L. Hoover Jr.

They were married and went on to have five children. A woman and mother of her generation, she stayed at home to care for her children. At age 44, she was predeceased by her husband and Jean became a tireless household manager and single mother.

As her children matured, Jean pursued her love of art and began her career as an interior designer and fashion illustrator. Her interior design work included the Nassau Inn in Princeton. Her fashion illustrations appeared in publications including The New York Times as well as local Princeton newspapers.

Jean also enjoyed her gardens and spent endless hours moving earth, rocks, plants, and shrubs to achieve just the right garden design. She was a longtime member of the Dogwood Garden Club as well as the Present Day Club. For many years Jean was an active volunteer at the Princeton Hospital and the Princeton Hospital Auxiliary. She also was an avid tennis and paddle tennis player well into her sixties. Her pride and joy was her family and “Grandy,” as she was known by her grandchildren, was the matriarch.

Predeceased are her parents, William F. and Anna M. (Gebhart) Hoy; siblings Elizabeth Gerhard, William F. Hoy, Jr., and Anne Finkbiner; and her husband John L. Hoover Jr.

Jean is survived by her five children, Curry Simmel (Scott), Stuart Hoover (Carey), John L. Hoover III, Eric D. Hoover, and Christian Hoover (Marianne); six grandchildren, Sarah A. Reynolds (Whitney), Alexandra J. Stabert (Samuel), Eric W. Hoover (Mary), Anne Cardew (Griffin), John R. Hoover (Sara), and Grace Hoover; six great-grandchildren, Callan, Eloise, Theodore, Eleanor, Wesley, and Sloane. She is also survived by many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.

A private Memorial Service will be held on Friday, November 29, 2024, at The Mather Hodge

Funeral Home, Princeton. The interment of Ashes will follow at Trinity-All Saints Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to All Access Mental Health, 819 Alexander Road, Princeton, NJ 08540 (aamh.org).

November 6, 2024

Elisa Hirvonen

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Elisa Hirvonen, devoted wife, mother, sister, and friend. Born on October 16, 1956, in the Bronx, New York City, Elisa’s life was filled with joy, love, and inspiring resilience.

Along with her parents, Olavi Hirvonen and Hilja Hautamaa, and older brother Esa, her childhood was spent enjoying the outdoors in the mountains of Vermont before moving to Westchester County, New York. Growing up with parents who had emigrated from Finland, they were proud to witness Elisa win the Miss Finlandia competition as a stunning teenage tyttö (young girl).

Elisa went to Earlham College to study art in 1974. There she met Henry Dale while they were on a college field trip. They moved together to Philadelphia where Elisa continued her education at the Philadelphia College of Art. However, back home tragedy struck the Hirvonen family as Elisa learned that her brother, Esa, had been killed in a motorcycle accident in 1977. As the family recovered from the sudden loss of Elisa’s older brother, they bonded together to plan a Finnish-American wedding for Elisa and Henry one year later. The couple were happily married at Lapland Lake, a cross-country ski center established by her parents.

After a time spent exploring various living options, Elisa and Henry eventually settled in Princeton, New Jersey. There in 1980, Elisa continued honing her artistic ability as an early member of the Arts Council of Princeton where she practiced drawing nude figures. In 1984, she gave birth to the first of her three sons, Kai David Dale.

Motherhood did not stop Elisa from continuing to produce artwork at home and as a student at Trenton State College nearby in Ewing. The family welcomed two more boys to the family, George Nikolai Dale in 1992 and Julian Asaph Dale in 1994. However, Elisa was not the only female in the household. She happily welcomed the arrival of Henry’s mother, Amy Gatchell, to their home and the pair quickly formed a lasting bond.

Elisa shared her love of the outdoors with her family and organized camping trips and summer excursions to the Jersey Shore every year. Elisa and her family would also continue to return to the town of Benson, NY, where they would visit Elisa’s mother and her husband, Phil, before hitting the ski trails at Lapland Lake nearby to visit with Elisa’s father, his wife Ann, and their daughter Leila.

As Elisa’s sons grew and she found more time to herself, she turned her attention back to establishing a career, beginning with one passion she had particularly cultivated in her free time: gardening. In 1997, Elisa began her own gardening and landscaping business, calling herself “The Garden Nanny.” The business flourished, but Elisa found that she was not spending enough time expressing creativity in her work and shuttered the service after a year.

In 2001, Elisa’s family was devastated by the sudden passing of George, Elisa’s middle child, who was killed in an accident during a parade. The loss of George had a tremendous impact on the family and Elisa was a beacon of strength through the tragedy. With the generous support of friends and family, Elisa was able to establish a fund in George’s name for underprivileged children to take classes at the Arts Council of Princeton.

As the years passed, Elisa was finally able to leverage her education in the arts to pursue a career as an art teacher. After earning a graduate degree at Bank Street College in NYC, Elisa landed a position at the Princeton Charter School, teaching art classes to elementary school students in 2005. At home, Elisa continued exploring artistic mediums and adopted a passion for working with clay. She founded The Raisin Studio, born out of a refurbished shed in her backyard, where she hosted clay sculpting classes and crafted her signature “edgy bowls.”

Sadly, Elisa was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease in 2007, which remained a constant challenge to her active lifestyle. While her 17-year battle with the debilitating effects of Parkinson’s disease may have slowed down her physical movements, she kept her spirit and passion for life going. She worked at Princeton Makes, a co-op for local artists, working studio, and haven for anyone with artistic curiosity. She was a Qigong instructor after taking the opportunity to travel to China on a Qigong retreat earlier in her life and years of training and dedication to the movement. In 2014 she co-founded the band Woe Nellies which shortly became a five-person group that would practice and perform regularly to share their mutual love of playing the ukulele and singing.

In Elisa’s later years, she found movement increasingly difficult but remained a constant source of support for her family and friends. While rarely asking for help, Elisa found an abundance of willing supporters in loved ones around her who were often more than willing to share in her creative pursuits and outdoor excursions — despite her mobility challenges.

Elisa is survived by her husband, Henry Dale; sons, Kai (Kriti Gupta) and Julian; sister, Leila; aunt, Linda (John Booth).

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to The Parkinson’s Foundation.

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Peter Giller

Peter Giller, beloved father, family man, and highly respected executive in the Princeton, New Jersey area, who was a leader in the power generation industry, passed away on November 2, 2024, at the age of 82. Over his remarkable 50-year career, Peter was an engineering pioneer and often an unconventional figure devoted to advancing energy solutions and reshaping the landscape of power generation. He will be greatly missed.

Born on February 17, 1942 and raised in Hameln, Germany, Peter pursued a dual degree in electrotechnical and mechanical engineering in Kassel. In January 1960, he met the lovely Renate, his future wife, whom he married in 1966 at the historic Ruderverein Weser rowing club in Hameln. In 1969, Peter accepted a position with Westinghouse Electric in Philadelphia, PA, and he and Renate traveled to the United States by ocean liner from Le Havre, France, still learning English en route. Initially planning to stay only two years, Peter and Renate ultimately immigrated to the U.S. and built a family together with the births of their son, Oliver, and daughter, Michelle.

Peter joined ABB and moved to Princeton, NJ, in 1976, where he eventually rose to President of ABB Energy Ventures, overseeing the global development, ownership, and operation of power plants. In 2000, Peter became the CEO of International Power (now ENGIE), Europe’s largest independent power producer, and relocated with Renate to London, England. They made their home near the iconic Tower of London. He later became an advisor for Blackstone, spearheading Germany’s first project-financed offshore wind farm, Meerwind Süd Ost. As Chairman of A&A EIC, he contributed to international energy investments, and more recently, Peter explored innovative technology in green ammonia production with Fuella in Norway, expanding his legacy in sustainable energy solutions.

Outside of his impactful career, Peter was a devoted sailor and skier with a profound love for family, adventure, and travel. He was a member of the Seaside Park Yacht Club and actively participated in the Flying Scott fleet’s Sunday Race Series. His sailing adventures spanned from St. Martin, the Greek Islands, the Mediterranean, Baja California, Canada’s Desolation Sound, Nantucket, to the British Virgin Islands, often with family and friends. Peter and Renate were active and devoted members of the Lutheran Church of the Messiah in Princeton.

Son of the late Karoline and Eduard Giller, Peter was predeceased by his wife Renate Giller, his son Oliver Giller, and his brother Eduard Giller.  He is survived by his daughter Michelle Clark and son-in-law Ted Clark of Seattle, WA; daughter-in-law Susanne Giller of Pennington, NJ; grandchildren Tagg Clark, Maika Clark, Alexander Giller, and Julia Giller; brother Günter Giller and sister-in-law Christa Giller of St. Augustine, Germany; and sister-in-law Dagmar Giller of Hameln, Germany; as well as nieces and nephews Jessica Giller, Nicola Gantert, Jens Giller, and Heike Müller.

The funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. on Monday, November 11, 2024, at the Lutheran Church of the Messiah, 407 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ, concluding with burial at Princeton Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of the Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the following organization that was dear to Peter’s heart: Good Grief in Princeton, NJ.

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Memorial Service
Landon (Lanny) Jones

A memorial service for Landon (Lanny) Jones will be held at the Princeton University Chapel on Friday, November 15 at 1:30 p.m.

October 30, 2024

Gene R. McHam

Gene R. McHam, age 89, formerly of Brooklyn, N.Y., died on October 19 at his home in Princeton, N.J., surrounded by loving members of his family who had nursed him in his final days. He is survived by his wife, Sarah Blake McHam, and five children, Michael McHam of Metuchen, NJ (Antonette), Jeffrey McHam of Castro Valley, CA (Jennifer), Melissa McHam Green of Brooklyn, NY (Geoffrey); stepdaughters, Emily McHam Lambert of Rochester, NY (J. David), and Julia Wilk of San Diego, CA; and eight grandchildren, Natalie and Charlotte McHam, Sam Neal, Henry and Syl Green, Wendell, Charles, and Samuel Lambert.

A Navy ROTC scholarship paid for his undergraduate degree in English literature at Miami University of Ohio, and so Gene spent three years on active duty in the Navy as a Lieutenant (junior grade). He loved telling stories of his escapades, always embellished with the tall tale exaggerations consistent with his Texan origins. Ever after, he happily educated family members in destroyer bridge talk and semaphore poses. Post Navy, he had a distinguished and multifarious career. After graduating from Columbia University as a member of the Law Review (1963), he was hired by Lord, Day & Lord, then an eminent law firm in New York City, where he worked from 1963-1966. Gene was especially proud of his significant contribution to a landmark US Supreme Court case, in which he authored the brief that was ultimately argued before the Court. His work in that case became an important part of Supreme Court jurisprudence, marking a lasting impact on legal precedent. His dedication to justice and his commitment to this pivotal case will remain a defining aspect of his legacy. Herbert Brownell, the former Attorney General of the United States and a senior partner in his firm, enticed him to join the first campaign of John V. Lindsay for mayor of New York City. The victorious Lindsay appointed Gene to be Assistant Corporation Counsel of the City of New York (1966) and Director of the Civilian Complaint Review Board. In his one year there, Gene also supervised the collection of more than $5,000,000 in unpaid traffic tickets to the city.

He soon moved on to the New York Stock Exchange, Inc., where he served as Executive Assistant to its President, Robert W. Haack, and as Vice President in charge of the Direct Clearing Department, which processed NYSE trades for 62 brokerage firms (1966-70). He returned to the private sector as a senior vice president and director of F.S. Smithers & Co., Inc., a securities company, from 1970-73. When Smithers failed, he was hired by the Louis-Dreyfus Corporation, a large grain exporting company, which appointed him as a senior vice president and director, but not before he passed a graphology test in Paris (despite his notoriously illegible handwriting). The Louis-Dreyfus family later became famous to a broader audience through the actress Julia Louis-Dreyfus.

After six years there, in 1979, Gene co-founded Andrew Peck Associates, Inc., a pioneering discount stock brokerage firm on Wall Street, where he served as Executive Vice-president and Director until his retirement in 1995. Shortly thereafter, he and his associates sold it to Muriel Siebert, the first woman to own a seat on the New York Stock Exchange.

Gene was a lifelong scholar and traveled extensively. He audited enough courses at Princeton, principally in philosophy, to have earned two undergraduate degrees. One of his passions was compiling a more than 200-page commonplace book of favorite quotations from his vast reading as he explored the meaning of life. He will be sorely missed for his sense of humor, learning, tireless curiosity, and generous heart by those who knew him. In lieu of flowers, if you are so inclined, please send contributions to Memorial Sloan Kettering or the New York Public Library.

Arrangements under the direction of The Mather Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton.

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Louis “Louie” Intartaglia

Louis “Louie” Intartaglia, 74, of Princeton, NJ, passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 17, 2024, at Penn Medicine in Plainsboro, NJ.

A lifelong resident of Princeton, Louie attended the Princeton Public School system, graduating from Princeton High School in 1968.

He went on to attend Emerson College before enlisting in the Navy, where he served for four years in the Middle East during the oil crisis. After his service, Louie returned to Princeton and worked as a landscaper. He was an avid sports fan, particularly of the Baltimore Orioles.

Louie was preceded in death by his mother, Anna Boccanfuso Intartaglia, and father, Dominick Intartaglia. He is survived by his brother, Andre (Donna), and his nieces, Anna and Olivia, as well as many cousins.

A memorial service will be held at a later date. The burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the SAVE Animal Shelter by calling (609) 309-5214 or online at savehomelessanimals.org.

Extend condolences and share memories at TheKimbleFuneralHome.com.

October 23, 2024

Pryde Brown

Pryde Brown, an American photographer and lifelong feminist, died at her home in Ringoes, NJ, on September 29, 2024. Pryde was best known for her portrait and wedding photography; she expressed the joy she found in people through the lens of her beloved Rolleiflex. Her career began in 1970 when she purchased a photography studio in Princeton. There she honed her skills and developed a reputation for her extraordinary portraiture and black and white analogue archival printing. Her archive, including hundreds of thousands of negatives, is a testament to her talent and dedication to her art.

Born January 27, 1935 in Brooklyn, NY, Pryde grew up in Ridgewood, NJ, and graduated from Sweet Briar College in 1956. In 1957, she married John McPhee, who was to become a renowned non-fiction writer, and together they raised four daughters: Laura, Sarah, Jenny, and Martha. When her marriage to McPhee ended, she became a professional photographer and was in business for over 40 years.

Her second marriage to Dan Sullivan brought her five stepchildren and a fifth daughter, Joan. Together on their 45-acre property in Ringoes, NJ, this large blended family raised goats and chickens, tended fields of raspberries and strawberries, and became a magnet for many artists and intellectuals of the time. Pryde later placed the property in the D&R Greenway Land Trust; it is now known as “Pryde’s Point” and the land is preserved and open to hikers.

In addition to her career as a photographer, Pryde was a fierce advocate for women’s rights. She joined the National Organization for Women in the early 1970s and co-founded the group Women on Words and Images. Together, they wrote the influential Dick and Jane as Victims, a work that exposed gender biases in children’s literature and textbooks. She continued her advocacy with the publication of Channeling Children: Sex Stereotyping on Prime Time TV. Her belief in the power of education led her to mentor scores of high school students in her photography studio, helping them to identify their passions and to write about them eloquently in college application essays.

Pryde is survived by her five daughters — Laura McPhee, Sarah McPhee, Jenny McPhee, Martha McPhee, and Joan Sullivan Anane — as well as her five stepchildren and numerous grandchildren. In lieu of flowers or gifts, you may make a donation “In memory of Pryde Brown” to D&R Greenway Land Trust, 1 Preservation Place, Princeton, 08540, (609) 924-4646), or online at drgreenway.org. D&RG’s Tax ID # is 22-3035836 and NJ Charity number is CH0469400.

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Lucille (McCracken) Carnevale

Lucille passed away at University Medical Center at Princeton on October 19, 2024, at the age of 93 years. Born and raised in Perth Amboy, NJ, she attended local schools, graduating from Perth Amboy High School in 1949 as a member of the National Honor Society.

She came to Princeton in 1953. She and her sister opened The Fabric Shop on Chambers Street. Eventually she became sole owner moving to the Princeton Shopping Center. She closed the door in 1983. Boredom setting in, she worked at LaVake Jewelers then Hamilton Jewelers.

Daughter of the late Robert and Rose McCracken and wife of the late Anthony Carnevale, she is survived by her son Gary; daughter April and her husband Richard Dombey; grandchildren Courtney, Anthony (A.J.), Catherine Carnevale, Jessica and husband Joshua Barkauskie; and great-grandchildren Christian, Nicholas, and Benjamin. Lucille is also survived by her sister, Eleanor Nelson, brother-in-law, Michael Carnevale, as well as many nieces, nephews, extended family, and dear friends.

Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, October 25, 2024 at 10 a.m. at St. Paul’s Church, burial will follow in the church cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, please send contributions in memory of Lucille Carnevale to the Salvation Army (Trenton), 575 E. State Street Trenton, NJ  08601-1101 or to the Wounded Warrior Project, 370 7th Avenue, Suite 1802, New York, NY 10001.

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Ernest Mario
1938 – 2024

Dr. Ernest Mario, a leader in the pharmaceutical industry, passed away at his son’s home in Durham, NC, on October 20, 2024, after a six-month battle with pancreatic cancer, leaving behind a legacy of groundbreaking leadership and contributions to healthcare and education. He lived at various times in Cherry Hill, NJ; Bridgewater, NJ; Princeton, NJ; Palo Alto, CA; London, England; Wilmington, NC; and Key West, FL. He was 86.

Married for 59 years to the former Mildred Martha Daume, who passed in 2020, “Pop-Pops” was deeply loved and respected by his surviving family: three sons, Christopher Mario of Key West, FL, Greg Mario (Lauren) of Miami, FL, and Jeremy Mario (Jennifer) of Durham, NC; eight grandchildren, Griffin, Chloe, Madeleine, Brigitte, Gretchen, Reid, Charlie, and Millicent); two great-grandchildren; and many dear nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and grand-nephews.

Born in 1938 in Clifton, New Jersey, to immigrant parents, Dr. Mario was educated in public schools, graduating high school at just 16 years old before earning his Bachelor of Science degree from Rutgers University College of Pharmacy, which in 2001 was renamed the Ernest Mario School of Pharmacy in his honor. He went on to earn his MS and then his PhD in physical science at the University of Rhode Island.

Dr. Mario began his career as a pharmacist and researcher, working his way up through quality control and manufacturing at Strasenburgh Labs, SmithKline, and Squibb, to eventually become the CEO of Glaxo Inc (USA) and then Glaxo Holdings (Worldwide) from 1986 to 1993, where he played a pivotal role in the company’s growth.

After Glaxo, he served as chairman and CEO of Alza Corporation, guiding it through its acquisition by Johnson & Johnson in 2001. He then served as CEO of Reliant Pharmaceuticals in Liberty Corner, NJ, helping lead the company to its acquisition by GlaxoSmithKline in 2007.

Throughout his career, he served on numerous corporate boards including Celgene Inc. in Summit, NJ, Boston Scientific Corporation, and Kindred Biosciences, and was actively involved in healthcare education, notably as honorary chairman of the APhA, and as chairman of the American Foundation for Pharmaceutical Education Board for 15 years.

Dr. Mario’s contributions extended to the non-profit sector, where he served in leadership roles with organizations such as the American Lung Association, the President’s Council on Fitness, Robert Wood Johnson Hospital, The Gladstone Institute, and Stanford Hospital, among others. He has served as a trustee of Duke University (1989-2007), Rutgers University (1986-1992), University of Rhode Island (1978-1986), and Rockefeller University (1989-2000).

As a boy in Clifton, NJ, he earned the rank of Eagle Scout in the Boy Scouts of America, and was especially proud in 2000 when he was awarded the Distinguished Eagle Scout Award for his service to youth.

In 2007, Dr. Mario was awarded the Remington Honor Medal, the highest recognition in the pharmaceutical profession.

Along with his family, philanthropy brought Dr. Mario one of his great joys, especially the creation of the Mario Family Foundation, which aims to support educational and economic opportunities and historic preservation.

He will be remembered by his family and friends not just for his business success, uncompromising integrity, and philanthropic endeavors, but also for his love of family get-togethers, classic Corvettes, sitting in the sun working the New York Times Sunday crossword puzzle, and making enormous pots of his famous spaghetti Bolognese to be shared around a large table. He had formidable card-playing skills, which he continued to display and teach to his grandsons right up until his final weeks. He will be greatly missed.

A public memorial event will take place at the Edith Memorial Chapel at the Lawrenceville School in Lawrenceville, NJ, on December 7 at 2 p.m. Reception to follow.

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Memorial Service
Dorothy “Dosky” F. French

Dorothy “Dosky” F. French, 94, of Princeton, NJ, passed away at home on August 22, 2024.

A Memorial Gathering for Dosky will be celebrated on Saturday, October 26, 2024 from 2 to 4 p.m. at The Pub Room in the main building of Princeton Windrows, located at 2000 Windrow Drive, Princeton.

October 16, 2024

Wayne Richard Carlson

Wayne Richard Carlson, 66, of Princeton, New Jersey, passed away on October 8, 2024, after fighting the good fight.

As the middle child to Phyllis and Wayne Carlson, Wayne grew up in Schenectady, New York, playing football for Linton High School as a lineman, before being recruited to play for Rochester University. After graduating in 1985 with a Degree in Far East Asia History/International Relations, Wayne explored the world for a couple of years as a ship’s purser for Dolphin Cruise Lines, satisfying some of his God-given wanderlust.

Wayne eventually made port in Washington, DC, where he earned his MBA in Marketing at American University. Shortly thereafter, he made his way to Bristol Myers Squibb, where he began his career in global issues management once again scratching his itch to see the world. During his time with BMS he met his future wife of 29 years, Ellen Hoenig-Carlson (surviving), who gave him a chance at a first date on his fifth annual ask. They saw Pulp Fiction in the theater and the rest was history. In 1997, the duo started their family when their first son, Ethan Carlson, was born — quickly followed by the births of Asher and Zane Carlson.

A diligent lifelong student of world history, politics, and stoic philosophy, Wayne had a brilliant understanding of the world and loved to share his wisdom in the form of thoughtfully-crafted advice and opinions, with all those whose lives he touched. Wayne also had an eye for design and was an avid collector and restorer of historical cars, houses, and watches. He lived in a house that he himself designed, drove in a car he rebuilt, and was an avid proponent of love, charity, and the American Dream. A man of resolute character and unquestionable strength, Wayne constantly strove throughout his life to make the world a better place than when he found it — a rare endeavor which he believed to ultimately be the reason we were put on this Earth.

Wayne is preceded by Wayne Curtis Carlson and Phyllis Russell Carlson, and leaves behind his wife, Ellen Hoenig-Carlson; his three sons, Ethan, Asher (Ryan), and Zane (Kylee); his sister, Susan (Joe);, his brother, Richard (Jennifer); and nieces and nephews.

Services were held at Trinity Church, in Princeton, NJ, on Saturday, October 12, 2024. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Wayne’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Tunnel to Towers, two organizations Wayne strongly believed in.

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Joseph James Needham

Joseph James Needham, 91, of Princeton, passed away peacefully on the morning of October 8, 2024, surrounded by his family. Born in Philadelphia, PA, to Joseph and Teresa Needham, Joe had been a resident of the Princeton area for the past 64 years.

Joe was a true gentleman, a selfless person who always thought of others before himself. He had an abundance of wit and quiet charm. Though he will be sorely missed, his love and sense of decency will never be forgotten. He was known for his generous and loving spirit, always willing to help others. He was determined and accomplished in everything he set his mind to, whether building a business, racing cars, or skiing.

After attending Saint Joseph’s University in Philadelphia, Joe joined the U.S. Army as a cryptographer stationed in Austria. In 1971, he started Princeton Air, where he created a lasting legacy. As a visionary executive, he built his company based on high standards and excellent relationships with his employees, clients, and partners.

Joe became an accomplished Porsche racer, competing as a member of the Schattenbaum Racing Club at tracks like Lime Rock, Bridgehampton, Watkins Glen, and Road Atlanta. He was an avid skier, enjoying the sport until the age of 84. Both he and his wife Joan were also longtime members of the Carnegie Lake Rowing Association.

He is predeceased by his wife, Joan Needham, his sister, Nancy, and his grandson, Ian. He is survived by his children: Linda, Scott, Leslie, Dian, Lisa, and Christine; his siblings: Robert, Teresa, Lillian, Donald, and Jack; his eight grandchildren and his four great-grandchildren.

A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on Friday, October 11, 2024, at 10 a.m. at St. Paul’s Catholic Church, 216 Nassau Street, Princeton, New Jersey, 08542. Interment followed in the Princeton Cemetery.

Arrangements under the direction of The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton.

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Margaret Brooks McCloskey

Margaret Brooks McCloskey, 102, passed away into eternity on October 8, 2024, at her home. She was born in Plainsboro, N.J. on July 8, 1922, in a small home on Edgemere Avenue. Her father, David Brooks, and her mother, Mary, worked at Walker Gordon Laboratories The family eventually moved to another Walker-Gordon property on Plainsboro Road, which they purchased in 1936. She married Leo J. McCloskey in 1949 (died 1969) and, except for a few years at several Princeton addresses, lived in Plainsboro the rest of her life.

Margaret was very intelligent, skipped two elementary grades, and graduated from Princeton High School at the age of 16. She was employed at several Princeton locations, including The Institute for Advanced Study, Weller Insurance, Howe Travel Agency, Helen Van Cleve Real Estate, and K.M. Light Propertie. She retired in her late 70’s and was active in local social groups and Plainsboro community activities through her late ’90s. Margaret was a member of Plainsboro Presbyterian Church. She was an avid reader until age 100, when advanced macular degeneration detracted from her enjoyment. Margaret remained fiercely independent and unassuming her entire life. She enjoyed travel, visits with her family and playing Rummikub with her friends and neighbors.

Margaret is survived by her son Dennis and daughter-in-law Diane McCloskey; three grandchildren, Shannon (Lee) Grajzar, Heather (Hal) Pruitt, and Matthew (Ashley) McCloskey, as well as great grandchildren, Lily, Cohen, Trevor, Maddox, Maisie, and Matilly, all of Georgia. She is also survived by nieces Karen (Bill) Thomas of Virginia Beach, Virginia; Gail (Doug) Bowers of Palm Desert, California; Peggy (Flavio) Fener of Princeton; and Maureen (Ken) Bruvik of Skillman, as well as many other nieces, nephews and family throughout the U.S.

Special thanks to all the supportive personnel from Penn Hospice at Home for their loving care during her last weeks, and to Stella, her special home helper for the preceding four years.

There will be no formal funeral or memorial services following cremation, per her wishes.

In lieu of flowers, donations to either the Plainsboro Fire Company or Plainsboro First Aid Squad are suggested.

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Iris (Rosenthal) Goldin

Iris (Rosenthal) Goldin, of Princeton Junction, NJ, died peacefully at home at age 88 on October 12, 2024.

Born and raised in Highland Park, NJ, Iris was a proud graduate of Mary Washington College of the University of Virginia and taught second grade at Memorial School in East Brunswick. Iris was a classic “homemaker” of the ’60s and ’70s, serving as a President of the PTA and many other community organizations in North Brunswick, where she raised her family. She later became a full-time substitute teacher at North Brunswick High School, followed by a successful career as a realtor with Coldwell Banker. After moving to West Windsor in 2000, she served as Chairman of the Village Grande Social and Trip Committees.

Friends and family uniformly remember her big smile and sunny disposition She was one of those people that made others feel better for having spent time with her. She loved spending summers down the shore in Beach Haven with her family.

She considered herself wonderfully fortunate for having married a fellow from “the wrong side of the tracks” who “made good” and gave her a wonderful life. Asked years later why she dated a fellow who was “trouble” she replied, “I guess I was looking for trouble!”

She was predeceased by her parents Michael and Dorothy (Zagoren) Rosenthal and her husband of 43 years, The Hon. Martin S. Goldin. She is survived by her daughter, Tamara Eisenberger of Somerset, NJ; her son Steven and his partner Cynthia Bratman of Princeton Junction, NJ; her former daughter-in-law Evelyn Goldin of Ewing, NJ; her grandson Michael and his wife Jo-Ann, grandchildren Will, Beau, Devon.

A Memorial Service was held at Star of David Memorial Chapel, 40 Vandeventer Avenue, Princeton, NJ 08542 on Monday, October 14, 2024 at 11 a.m. Burial was at Mt. Lebanon Cemetery in Iselin.

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Clara Banta Kennedy

Clara Banta Kennedy, a beloved matriarch and dedicated community member, passed away peacefully in her home at the age of 101. Born on March 10, 1923, in Buffalo, New York, she was the daughter of Charles Woodbury Banta and Clara Urban Banta. Clara spent her childhood on a farm on Pine Ridge Road in Cheektowaga, which belonged to her grandfather, George Urban, Jr., a prominent Buffalo businessman.

Clara attended the Masters School in Dobbs Ferry, New York, and graduated in the accelerated wartime program from Smith College in August 1944. Shortly after, she worked for the U.S. Naval Intelligence in the New York City office before marrying Kevin Kennedy, also from Buffalo, in March 1945. During Kevin’s service as a naval officer in the Pacific, Clara worked as a social worker at the American Red Cross in Buffalo.

In the fall of 1946, the couple moved to Princeton, New Jersey, where they lived on a farm and raised their four sons: Kevin, Charles, Alexander, and Shaun. Clara’s entrepreneurial spirit flourished when she started an antique business with a friend, eventually becoming a partner in several stores near Princeton and two on Martha’s Vineyard.

In 1969, Clara and Kevin built their home on Husselton Head in Vineyard Haven, where they joyfully hosted family and friends until Kevin’s passing in 1992. After his death, Clara remained an active and cherished member of the community, engaging with the West Chop Club, Vineyard Haven Yacht Club, Martha’s Vineyard Garden Club, and the Want to Know Club of Vineyard Haven. She was an avid reader throughout her life and maintained a keen interest in local, U.S., and world affairs.

Clara’s life was marked by a deep commitment to education and service. She worked with children through summer Bible camps, served as a teacher’s aide in Trenton, NJ, and taught English as a second language. Her 23 years of volunteering at the Island Food Pantry exemplified her compassion and dedication to helping others. She always championed the underdog and will be remembered for her warmth, wisdom, spirited personality, and deep love of her family and friends.

Clara is survived by her four sons and their wives, eight grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren, four nephews, and one niece. A memorial service will be held in June 2025 in Vineyard Haven, where family and friends will gather to celebrate Clara’s remarkable life.

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Charles Lutz Taggart
1927 – 2024

Charles L. Taggart, age 97, passed away on August 15, 2024 in Princeton, NJ. He was born on May 2, 1927 in Ponca City, Oklahoma, the son of Adelaide Lutz and Carl Stolz Taggart. He leaves behind a legacy of being known as someone who always wanted to make the communities he lived a better place.

Charlie graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy in 1947 after serving in the U.S. Navy during WWII. After studying Architecture at Princeton University, he graduated in 1951, and worked as a draftsman for Embury and Lucas, Architects in New York until 1953 when he returned to Oklahoma City to join his brother J. Thomas Taggart at the family real estate investment and management firm.

He married Sydney Shaffer in 1955, and moved back to Princeton, NJ, in 1959 where he worked for Princeton University for 25 years, serving as Director of the Alumni Council, Assistant Dean of the Graduate College, and then Director of Development. In Princeton, and later in life, he was an active volunteer, serving on the Board of Trustees of Princeton Day School, and the Community Fund Board. He also served his Princeton Class of 1951 in various roles, including as Treasurer, Vice President and President, as well as Reunion Chair and Annual Giving.

After Princeton, Charlie went on to lead Development at the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston, the Dallas Museum of Art, and the Worcester Foundation for Experimental Biology. Upon his retirement, the Taggarts moved to Wakefield, RI, where he joined the Board at Willow Dell Beach Club and the Courthouse Center for the Arts before returning to Princeton in 2009.

Charlie and Sydney spent the last 15 years as active residents of Stonebridge at Montgomery, in Rocky Hill, NJ. It became their home, and Charlie became active in many aspects of the community, serving as Chair of the Residents Council, the Facilities committee, and he spent many hours in the woodshop. An avid tinkerer and handy man, improving the various homes in which his family lived, room by room, gave him great enjoyment. In his own wood shop and then at Stonebridge, he would joyfully repair and craft custom furniture, skills he learned while he was a Board Member at the Worcester Center for Crafts. While at Stonebridge, he was frequently asked to repair a chair or table or refinish a treasured antique that had seen better days.

He and Sydney were also keen travelers, visiting many countries together in his retirement, as well as numerous trips throughout the US southwest. One of his favorite places was France, where he traveled to spend time with his brother and wife, Tom and Norma Taggart.

Charlie’s quick wit, focus, and curiosity made him a thoughtful and loving husband, father, grandfather, colleague, and communicator, and he was lovingly embraced by his friends for his trustworthiness and sense of humor. Throughout his life he was known for “challenging the status quo” and his life’s work of fundraising and hard work has left the world a far better place.

Charlie is predeceased by his parents and his brother Tom. He is survived by his wife Sydney of nearly 69 years, and three sons Peter (Judy), Denver, CO, Ward (Rebecca), Las Vegas, NV, and Carl (Kim), Wayne, PA, and seven grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held at Stonebridge at Montgomery on October 26 at 11 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his honor to the Stonebridge Employee Appreciation Fund by contacting Keith Ikola at kikola@springpointsl.org or (609) 759-3614.

October 9, 2024

Nagle Jackson

(Photo by Peter C. Cook)

Nagle Jackson, former Artistic Director of McCarter Theatre Center who brought Charles Dickens’ novel, A Christmas Carol, to life on the McCarter stage for the first time in its history directing his 1980 adaptation, died July 15 in Rhinebeck, New York, at age 88.

Internationally known theatrical director and playwright, writing 20 original plays and adaptations, Mr. Jackson was a seminal figure in the American regional theater movement, serving as Resident Director of the American Conservatory Theater in San Francisco (1967–70), Artistic Director of the Milwaukee Repertory Theater (1971–77), and Artistic Director of the Tony Award–winning McCarter Theatre Center for the Performing Arts (1979–90).

Nagle Jackson was the first American director ever invited to direct in the Soviet Union where, in 1987, he was contracted to stage Tennessee Williams’ The Glass Menagerie for the Bolshoi Dramatic Theater in Leningrad (now St. Petersburg). It opened in April 1988 and remained in the repertory of that theater for 12 years.

Mr. Jackson’s directorial career began at the Oregon Shakespeare Festival in 1965 where he staged Ben Jonson’s Volpone. He returned to direct seven productions there in total — among them a 1994 production of The Two Noble Kinsmen that completed the festival’s Shakespeare canon.

An esteemed playwright, Jackson’s works include the widely performed comedy/drama Taking Leave, the farce Opera Comique, and the award-winning The Elevation of Thieves. In addition to A Christmas Carol, his adaptations include Faustus in Hell, a musical staging of Horace McCoy’s They Shoot Horses, Don’t They?, and Charles Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities.

Mr. Jackson directed and co-wrote the book for Clark Gesner’s musical The Utter Glory of Morrissey Hall starring Celeste Holm, which debuted on Broadway at the Mark Hellinger Theater in May 1979. A gifted educator, Jackson’s “System of Five” is used throughout the country by actors and directors.

Born in Seattle in 1936, Nagle Jackson was the younger of two children raised in Walla Walla, Washington, by his parents, Paul Jackson and Gertrude Dunn Jackson. After graduating from the Portsmouth Abbey School in Rhode Island, he returned home to attend Whitman College, graduating in 1958 with a BA in English and French Literature, after which he studied as a Fullbright Fellow in Paris at L’Ecole de Mime with Etienne Decroux. In 1995, Jackson was awarded an Honorary Doctorate in Humane Letters from Whitman College.

Mr. Jackson was married to Sandy Suter Jackson in 1963, living the last 44 years of their lives together in Princeton Junction, New Jersey, until her death in 2023, just weeks shy of their 60th wedding anniversary.

He is survived by his daughters Rebecca Morton (Jeffrey Morton) and Hillary Jackson; his grandchildren Martha Morton and David Morton; his sister, Jeannette Jackson Murphy; and nieces and nephews Danielle Murphy McMahon, Mark Murphy, Megan Murphy (Gregg Lachow), Morgan Murphy (Lori Murphy), and Topher Murphy.

A celebration of Nagle Jackson’s life is being planned for spring 2025. Please contact CelebrateNagleJackson@gmail.com for more information.

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Joanne Dix

Joanne Dix, beloved by family and friends, passed away on Saturday, September 21 at the age of 81.

Born to Matt and Timmie Antonovich in New York City, she grew up in Chappaqua, NY, and Mountain Lakes, NJ. From an early age, her parents instilled in her enduring qualities of compassion, kindness, and tolerance, contributing to her eventual career in social work. She was passionate in her defense of the disadvantaged, not afraid to speak out where she witnessed injustice. Throughout her long career she helped innumerable people whose lives were enriched because of her. She gained great pleasure and insight from her interaction with her clients in Ocean Hill-Brownsville and Trenton, with a year working as a social worker in Uganda.

She earned a BA from Drew University, and a Masters in Social Work from Rutgers University. As a young adult she lived in New York City, eventually moving to Princeton in 1973, where she was married the following year.

Joanne loved being outdoors, but more than that, she loved talking to people. It was common to see her tending her small garden along Snowden Lane, where she was able to chat with neighbors and passers-by at every opportunity. Her eyes would light up at every passing baby or small dog.

A love of nature led her into the woods and mountains. Backpacking in America’s many mountain ranges; trekking in Nepal, New Zealand, northern England; birding throughout the U.S., as well as Iceland, Botswana, Peruvian Amazon, much of Central and South America.

As waning years gradually took their toll, she got pleasure from poring over her photo albums of family and her many wonderful trips. But her greatest pleasure came from time spent with her family, especially her wonderful grandson Shep.

She is survived by her husband Bill of 51 years; daughter Becky Graham and grandson Shepard Graham; sister Judy Smith and brother Tom Treiman. A small private family gathering will celebrate her life.

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Biagio G. Ruggiero

Biagio (Ben) Ruggiero, of East Windsor, passed away on September 30, 2024.

Born in Chiusano di San Domenico, Italy, on August 8, 1936 to the late Emilio Ruggiero and Elvira DeAngelis, Biagio spent over a decade studying and serving the poor at the Collegio dei Missionari del Preziosissimo Sangue in Albano, Italy, before leaving religious life to move to America in 1959.

Ben’s natural-born talent for working with his hands led him to easily find opportunities in New York City, first performing delicate fabric repair at a fine arts upholstery store and later making mechanical equipment at a machinist’s shop before moving to central New Jersey, where he lived for over 60 years.

In East Windsor, Ben worked for Mettler Instruments making precision equipment, then for RCA Astro as a satellite model-maker before discovering his true gift as a leather craftsman and opening Ben’s Shoe Repair in Hightstown in 1973, where he remained in business until his retirement in 2020.

Ben was preceded in death by his cherished wife of 47 years, Kathleen. Ben’s sister, Giuseppina Ruggiero; his brother, Domenico Ruggiero; and his nephews, Emilio Ruggiero and Tonino Cortesi, all of Italy, also predeceased him.

He was beloved by his children, Bernice Wiles of Hagerstown, MD, Estella Ruggiero (Don Gilpin) of East Windsor, Celeste (Pete) Gray of Robbinsville, and Biagio (Erin) Ruggiero, of Pittsburgh, PA, and his grandchildren, Liam and Nora Gray, Henry Gilpin, and Benjamin and Eliza Ruggiero. He will forever be remembered by his nephews, Felice and Elvio Ruggiero of Montefalcione, Italy; his brother-in-law, Joseph (Geraldine) Higham of Hamden, CT; his sister-in-law, Margaret Hryniuk of Garner, NC; his cousin, Benedetto Ruggiero of Chiusano, Italy; along with his other dear nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:30 a.m. on Friday, October 11, 2024, at St. David the King R.C. Church, 1 New Village Road, Princeton Junction, NJ 08550.

Interment will follow at the Old Tennent Cemetery, Manalapan, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, in honor of Ben, please offer help to a neighbor and be kind to one another.

Arrangements are under the direction of Simplicity Funeral and Cremation Services at Glackin Chapel, 136 Morrison Avenue, Hightstown, NJ.

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Richard T. Tufano

Richard T. Tufano 81, of Blawenburg, NJ, and, Overton, PA, passed away on Monday, September 30, 2024. He was born in Princeton and settled in Blawenburg in 1973. He was employed at Hercules Powder Co. and the U.S.

Richard gave freely of his time and volunteered to various organizations including the Montgomery Township Fire Company #2, where he served two terms as a Fire Commissioner; NJ Beach Buggy Association; New Brunswick Horse Show Association; Family Motor Coach Association; and past President of the Jersey Gems camping club and Treasurer of the Delaware Valley German Wirehair Pointer Club. He loved surf fishing, traveling in his motorhome, and hunting at his camp in Overton, PA.

Predeceased by his parents Vincenzo J. Tufano and Anna (Cuomo) Tufano, and siblings Cecelia, Joseph, Francesco (Frank), Vincent, and John, he is survived by his wife of 60 years Kathleen Joyce (Simon) Tufano; sisters and brother-in-law Emma Tufano, Margaret Powers, Ellis Simon; nieces Allison Tufano Clancy, Roseanne Murphy, and Sharon Brown and great-niece Kaitlyn Clancy Flatts; and his four-legged buddy, Ralph. Richard is also survived by his extended family and dear friends.

A Memorial Service was held on Monday, October 7, 2024 at the Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, 40 Vandeventer Avenue, Princeton.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Montgomery EMS.

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Britta Bjornlund Blum

Britta Bjornlund Blum, a cherished member of the Princeton community, passed away peacefully at her home on August 24, 2024, at the remarkable age of 101. For nearly 65 years, Britta enriched the lives of those around her in the Princeton area with her vibrant spirit and unwavering dedication to her community.

Born in Boston, MA, Britta entered the world under the care of her uncle, Frederick C. Irving, head of the Boston Lying-In Hospital. Her father, a Swedish chemical engineer, and her mother, a U.S. citizen and a nurse, had settled in the small town of La Tuque, Quebec, before moving to Cornwall, Ontario. For her high school education, Britta attended the Walnut Hill School in Natick, MA, where she was the editor of the school magazine and the yearbook. She later followed in her mother’s footsteps by enrolling at Smith College. During her freshman year at Smith, when the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, Britta decided to accelerate her education. She graduated from Smith in August of 1944, having been elected president of her accelerated class of 130 classmates.

Following college, Britta began her career at the Office of Cable Censorship in New York City, where she worked to intercept wartime communications. After the war, her compassion led her to the American Red Cross in France and Germany. When she returned to the U.S., Britta became a staff writer at the Museum of Natural History in New York City. She then married Frederick E. Blum, a Naval Academy graduate, a pilot and a flight instructor, and a World War II veteran. Together, they lived in Honolulu, HI, and Pensacola, FL, before settling in Philadelphia and eventually Princeton.

In Princeton, Britta and Fred were founding members of the Bedens Brook Club, while Britta became a prominent figure in the community. She served as President of the Princeton-area Smith Club and was actively involved in local volunteering initiatives. Her passion for tennis led her to manage publicity for the Princeton Community Tennis program. After several years there, she moved to the Office of Continuing Education at Princeton University and then decided to return to school at Rider University where she earned a master’s degree in Guidance and Counseling. Following her master’s, she became the Director of College Counseling at both the Hun School in Princeton (where she worked for a total of 11 years) and the George School in Newtown, PA.

Britta loved to travel, and her adventurous spirit took her across Europe and Africa, including a memorable safari in Kenya and a gorilla trekking expedition in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC). She spent her 85th birthday in Kinshasa, DRC, visiting her children. Her favorite place in the world was a family-owned island on the St. Lawrence River where she spent every summer with her children, siblings, cousins, nephews and nieces, and grandchildren. In addition, she loved to ski each winter at Copper Mountain in Colorado with her children and sister, brother-in-law and their children, while she enjoyed playing tennis year-round.

In her later years, Britta remained intellectually and socially active, engaging in editing work, playing bridge, and reading hours daily. She was a member of Princeton’s Present Day Club, a founding member of the Princeton Women’s Investment Club, a member of the Princeton Public Library Board of Trustees, and a member of the Chippewa Yacht Club in the Thousand Islands. Britta’s primary focus was always her family, who, despite geographical distances, spent a good deal of time visiting her.

Britta is survived by her son, Daniel Blum, of Boulder, CO; her daughter Cynthia Carroll and her son-in-law David Carroll of Naples, FL; and her daughter Lauren Blum and her son-in-law Victor Bushamuka of Baltimore, MD. She also leaves behind her beloved grandchildren, Britta, Carin, Benjamin, and Kerstin Carroll, and William and Daniel Bushamuka.

Britta’s enduring legacy of love, resilience, and adventure will continue to inspire all who knew her.

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Phyllis L. Kane

Phyllis L. Kane passed away on October 3, 2024. Phyllis was born to Harry and Clara Lazarowitz in Brooklyn and brought up in Manhattan with her older brother, Teddy, and older sister, Ruth. She graduated from Julia Richman High School, and later attended and graduated from Rutgers University as a young mother. She also studied in graduate school at the New School in New York.

Phyllis met Herbert Kane in 1949 and they were married in 1953. Phyllis and Herbert were happily married for 71 years. After marrying, Phyllis and Herbert moved to Princeton, where they raised their children, Alan and Julie. Phyllis created a home that was a warm and safe space for many, where her children and their friends often gathered. She was also a wonderful hostess and she and Herbert were famous for their great parties, including their big election night soirées.

In addition to raising her children, Phyllis worked primarily in the arts and with antiques, and filled her home with her best finds. Phyllis remained an active and outspoken progressive throughout her life, particularly on issues of women’s and animal rights. As a tried and true animal-lover, Phyllis adopted many rescue dogs and successfully lobbied almost her entire extended family to stop eating veal.

Phyllis was deeply loved and appreciated by her family and friends both in Princeton and across the country. She cherished her many nieces, nephews, and cousins, and their children. She had a special love for her children and grandchildren, Alan Kane (deceased) (Eva Fellows), Justin Kane, Rebecca Kane, Julie Kane (John Ortiz), Cydney Ortiz, and Cara Ortiz (Oliver Paprin).

Her family will remember her for her kindness, loyalty, irreverence, and sense of humor, and will miss her deeply.

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Roy Gordon Dollard

Roy Gordon Dollard of Princeton, New Jersey, passed away at home on September 27, 2024.

He was born in Long Island City, NY to William and Ann (Melia) Dollard. He was a graduate of Brooklyn Technical High School, Cornell University, and NYU Business School. In his youth he was a track star — 1⁄4 mile champ and an Eagle Scout. He served in the military and worked for New York Telephone / NYNEX for 35 years, retiring as President of NYNEX Computer Services. He served as President of the Fifth Avenue Association and 20 years on two school boards in Briarcliff Manor, NY, and Hopewell Valley, NJ.

He loved camping, making furniture, baseball and being with his family.

He is survived by his wife Barbara of 67 years; his children, Cary, Christopher (wife Ellen), and John; and his grandsons, Jim, Andrew, and Ian. blackwellmh.com.

October 2, 2024

Marvin Preston

Marvin Preston died peacefully at home in Princeton on September 30 with his family around him. Death was a result of a 10-year battle with primary progressive apraxia of speech. He bore the gradual disintegration of his body with great grace. His mind was intact until the end and he was so very grateful for the tremendous support of his family and his friends, who never abandoned him, even after he was unable to speak and lost most motor control over his body. When he could no longer come to them, they kept coming to him, bringing and sharing dinner and music on a regular basis.

Marvin was born on June 18, 1944, in Detroit, Michigan, to Marvin Preston III and Helen Hoppin Preston. Along with his older sister Joyce, he grew up in Ferndale, Michigan. In high school he discovered his musical talents and entrepreneurial spirit. Throughout high school, he enjoyed playing the French horn and piano, and also singing. He went with his high school to Interlochen Arts Academy for a week and fell in love with it. He dearly wanted to spend a summer there but his family could not afford it. Ever so driven and industrious, he worked in the kitchen at Interlochen scrubbing pots so that he could attend every concert he could, at least two a day and often more. He was a Detroit News paperboy for many years. Beginning in ninth grade, paperboys who had exceptional records of recruiting, servicing, and maintaining customers could earn money toward college scholarships. Marvin was awarded a $500 scholarship the first three years of high school, but as a senior he subcontracted part of his route to a friend in order to serve more customers. As a result, he was disqualified. He was accepted to CalTech but his parents refused to apply for financial aid. Nevertheless, he paid his own way to the University of Michigan by painting houses in the summer and working at different jobs on campus during the school year. In 1962, the year he started college, tuition at the University of Michigan was $260 a year. He graduated in 1966 with a degree in mathematics. He began a PhD program in physiology and worked as a computer programmer, first with punch cards and later with paper tape. But perhaps his most important achievement in Ann Arbor was meeting Candace Heussner, who was introduced to him by mutual friends in 1966. He was smitten from the start and not easily dissuaded, despite being stood up on his birthday. Candace, too, could not be dissuaded from falling for the brilliant and witty guy with a warm smile and a crown of flaming red hair, a characteristic for which he was bestowed the nickname “Rusty” by family and friends. It was also a shared upbringing in the Detroit area, values and vision for their futures that solidified them as a couple. They were married in Birmingham, Michigan, in January 1968.

With the Vietnam War raging, Marvin applied for a job with IBM Advanced Systems Development in Yorktown Heights, New York. Because it was a large military contractor, IBM was able to offer a deferment from military service. The interview for the job was in Yorktown Heights. Having no car, he had to fly or spend two days on a bus. The cheapest way he could do it was to use North Central Airlines (fondly referred to as “the Blue Goose”), a small regional airline with no non-stop flights that got him close to Yorktown Heights. The trip he took from Detroit to White Plains had five legs. Marvin always suffered from motion sickness and by the time he landed in White Plains, he was green. Alas, the taxi ride from White Plains to Yorktown Heights cost more than the plane ride. Nevertheless, he got the job. He always said it was the best first job anyone could have had. His boss, Al Gaines, was an inspiration to him long after he left IBM.

Marvin was happy working at IBM but the company would only request a military deferment for one year. After a year, Marvin left IBM and went to work for Ford Motor Company, also a major defense contractor. While there, the draft lottery was held, but thankfully the war ended before his number was reached.

In the midst of building a successful career, he took on another important and defining role in his life, becoming a father. Marvin and Candace welcomed their first child Catherine in 1973, and in 1976, Christopher would complete the family. With a playful spirit and a wish to provide his children a loving home, Marvin fell very naturally into fatherhood and being a most supportive parent with Candace by his side.

After leaving Ford, Marvin worked for Information Control Systems Omnitext, Inc., both start-up companies at the forefront of text editing, in Ann Arbor, Michigan. The Wall Street Journal, which adopted the Omnitext editor for computerized typesetting, was their first major client. To facilitate editing, Marvin and a colleague developed the first cursor for computer screens and were jointly awarded the patent for it. While they received the patents, the rights went to the company. They called it a cursor because the original was shaped and acted like a fist shaking at you.

As computers rapidly replaced even the most advanced typewriters, Marvin joined Micro Office Systems, Inc. Micro Office Systems was ahead of its time. It produced the first notebook-sized portable computer in 1985. The market wasn’t ready for it and the company soon folded.

After that Marvin founded his own company, NewMarkets, Inc. NewMarkets was a specialized consulting firm that focused on start-up or rescue operations for companies with innovative technology products. Inevitably, when clients realized the depth and breadth of their problems, they asked him to join the company as CEO. That was the case with Scott Instruments Corporation. Scott Instruments was one of the early leaders in speech recognition technology. While at Scott, the company was the first to commercialize speech recognition across telephone lines. The company was ultimately sold to Philips.

Marvin’s experience with speech recognition brought him to Healthtech Services Corporation, which pioneered the use of speech recognition and computers for home health care through the robot, HANC (Home Assisted Nursing Care). HANC was the first commercial telemedicine robot that responded to patient queries and dispensed medicine on command and in accordance with approved schedule. If the patient needed medical assistance, HANC would call the doctor, nurse, or emergency service for them and a telemedicine visit would take place. HANC was adopted by hospitals and became the basis for many further home health applications.

Throughout his life, Marvin was devoted to serving the community. He was the president of Carnegie Lake Rowing Association for 10 years; stepping down only when work travel did not permit him to participate as much as was needed. He also served on the board of Young Audiences and Opera New Jersey and sang with Princeton Pro Musica. For the last 40 years of his life, he would be a well-regarded, highly respected and very recognizable fixture in the Princeton community. For years, he could be seen zipping around town in his red Miata convertible and regularly picking up a cup of coffee at Small World Coffee.

An outgrowth of his service in arts organizations and his reputation as a problem solver was his rescue of the Martha Graham Dance Company. In the 10 years following her death, under the leadership of her former protégé, there was a decline in the Dance Company until it suspended operations as the protégé asserted ownership of all her dances, technique, and name. In 2000 Marvin was hired by the trustees as executive director to save the Company. Battles ensued over who would head the Company (Marvin prevailed) and who owned the intellectual property. In 2002, following the first of several favorable, landmark rulings, the Company resumed dancing under his leadership. Over the course of four years of intense litigation in two phases, he discovered and delivered the evidence that proved that the Company, not the protégé, owned the intellectual property.

Because of his success with the Martha Graham Dance Company, the New York Attorney General, whose office oversees all not-for-profit organizations in New York, sought him out and asked him to untangle the legal problems at New Dance Group and guide it through bankruptcy and dissolution.

By then, firmly entrenched in the dance world, Marvin finished his professional career as the executive director of American Repertory Ballet and the Princeton Ballet School.

Throughout his career and many professional achievements, his most rewarding time was as a husband and a father. Some of Marvin’s fondest memories were construction projects that he did with each of them. He and Catherine built a swing set from scratch, including a balance beam which became a favorite bee colony. And as a passionate renovator of houses that he and Candace could always recognize as diamonds in the rough, Marvin and Chris bonded over breaking a foundation and tearing down a garage at their home on Prospect. He reveled in the skiing and biking vacations that the family took together in the United States around the world. But by far his most memorable vacation with them was the one the children, ages 12 and 9, planned on a fixed budget and forgot to include the cost of overnight accommodations. Just prior to departure, they realized that and borrowed tents and equipment from Chris’s Cub Scout troop to make the trip possible. He beamed with pride at their resourcefulness. He rejoiced in watching them grow and mature into the wonderful adults they are now. He would extend this love of shared experiences and travels with his grandchildren, Lauren and Ming. Among many trips to visit them in California, he enjoyed camping trips to Acadia and Ojai with them. Over the years, he took great pleasure in building LEGO towers that went from floor to ceiling, playing in the park, and guiding them through repairs they could make around the house.

Marvin is survived by his wife of 56 years, Candace; his daughter Catherine and son-in-law Kevin Connolly of Cambridge, Massachusetts; and his son Christopher and daughter-in-law Angela and their two children, Lauren and Ming of Encino, California. He is also survived by his sister Joyce Preston of Lansing, Michigan. He will be missed by all, but lives forever in their hearts.

A memorial service will follow at a later date. In lieu of flowers, gifts in memory of Marvin may be sent to: Neurodegenerative Research Group’s PPAOS (Primary Progressive Apraxia of Speech) Studies at Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minnesota (855-852-8129) or Princeton Pro Musica.

Arrangements are under the direction of The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home.

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Patricia Anne Margaret Evans Frawley
12/16/1934 to 9/26/2024

On Thursday September 26 Patricia Frawley, aged 89, of Princeton, New Jersey, passed away surrounded by loved ones. She is survived by her four children Melissa Frawley, Alison (John) Gillen, Jennifer (Todd) Coniff, and Matt ( Kim) Frawley; six grandchildren, Colin (Kristen), Timothy, and Kaya Frawley, Davis Coniff, and Mary and Elizabeth Gillen; and her faithful dog, Lewie. She was predeceased by her husband, Earl Frawley, Jr.

Dr. Pat Frawley came from humble beginnings: she was the only child to a single mother, and throughout her childhood they lived in attics and basements of relatives in Chicago, Illinois. With tenacity and scholarship, Pat earned her Bachelors in Sociology from Loyola University in Chicago. After raising four children, she earned a certification as a Montessori teacher, a Masters in Special Education, and a Doctorate in Education from Rutgers University. She was an esteemed adjunct professor at Kean College and Rutgers. In addition to lecturing in higher education, she taught special education in Plainfield and Rahway. She then became an educational diagnostician for Scotch Plains-Fanwood Regional School District. She served on the national boards of the Council of Exceptional Children and the Association of Learning Consultants and was a founding member of the National Certification of Educational Diagnosticians (NCED) and the New Jersey Association of Learning Consultants (NJALC).

In retirement, she became a Master Gardener while living in Westfield, NJ. She moved to Princeton and was very active in the Mercer County Master Gardener Program serving in several roles including President, Secretary, and head of the ever popular InsectFest. She was a longtime member of the Shade Tree Commission and also served on the Adult School Commission.

Pat was a multi-talented woman. Many children have been welcomed to the world with a Pat Frawley custom-made baby quilt or knitted hat. She was an avid birder, skilled baker, and passionate gardener.  Every Friday night family gathered for Pat’s phenomenal homemade pizza. On holidays she had to whip up a double batch of cinnamon rolls so that at least a few would make it to the dinner table. She also loved to swim and spend time with family on yearly trips to Martha’s Vineyard.

Her family will be holding a Celebration of Life event in December when family and friends near and far can come together. Details to follow.

In lieu of flowers, please consider supporting WHYY. Pat was a longtime contributor; she loved good murder mysteries and cooking shows. Bird watching brought her so much joy, so you could also donate in her name to CornellLab (birds.cornell.edu) to help birds in every habitat.

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Walter David Neumann

Professor Walter David Neumann, 78, of Princeton, NJ, died peacefully, after a long struggle with Alzheimer’s, on Tuesday morning, September 24, 2024, at Artis Senior Living of Princeton Junction with loving family by his side. Born in Cardiff, Wales, to Bernhard and Hanna (Von Caemmerer) Neumann, Walter, a pure mathematician, had been a Princeton resident for the last 24 years.

Unusually, Walter’s parents were both group theorists (a branch of mathematics), and, until they found jobs at the same university, they must have been one of the first academic “two-cities” families. Walter’s older brother Peter and a cousin Mike Newman were also group theorists, at Oxford and the Australian National University respectively. After an undergraduate degree from the University of Adelaide, Australia, Walter earned his doctorate in topology from Bonn University, Germany, under the direction of the late Friedrich Hirzebruch.

Walter’s first American positions were at the University of Maryland and the Ohio State University. He later moved to Melbourne University, Australia, and, finally, to Barnard College and Columbia University, from which he retired in 2021. He also held visiting teaching and research positions at, among others, Aarhus University (Denmark), the University of Michigan, the University of California at Berkeley, Warwick University (England), and — numerous times — the Max Planck Institute for Mathematics in Bonn, and Princeton’s Institute for Advanced Study.

Walter was an exceptionally broad mathematician, internationally renowned for major breakthroughs in fields of mathematics that included low-dimensional topology, hyperbolic geometry, geometric group theory, and singularity theory. He felt that mathematicians do their best work not only when they’re young but also when they’re new to a field. His own career proved the truth of his theory.

According to the most recent of his many collaborators, Anne Pichon of Marseille University, Walter was also “a wonderful human being — deeply modest, warm, humble, and remarkably generous, both as a person and as a mathematician. Walter was especially generous with young mathematicians, always offering his time and guidance. He had a rare ability to listen during mathematical discussions with his many collaborators and friends, making everyone feel heard and valued. His enthusiasm for mathematics was contagious, and working with him was a constant source of joy.”

Walter is survived by his wife of 52 years, Anne Waldron Neumann, his daughter Hannah Neumann, and a granddaughter Noelle Paquiot. A Zoom memorial will be held on Saturday, October 5 at 9 a.m. ET in order to accommodate both Australian and European relatives, friends, and mathematical colleagues.

September 25, 2024

Edward “Ted” P. Bromley Jr.

Edward “Ted” P. Bromley Jr., beloved family member and all-around good person, died peacefully on May 25 at Pennswood Village in Newtown, PA. He was 87.

Ted was born in Philadelphia, PA, to Ruth Hancock and Edward P. Bromley and was the eldest of three children. He earned a BE from Princeton University in 1958 and an MBA from Harvard in 1961. He subsequently served in the U.S. Army for two years.

Ted met his wife, Barbara Broomhead, at a mixer in Boston. They were soon married and in the following 62 years had three children followed by four grandchildren.

Ted found professional satisfaction and success in a series of different jobs. He started out as a stock analyst, then changed directions to become the CFO for Mohr Orchards followed by becoming the president of North American Lace. He ended his career as an investment advisor for U.S. Trust. He worked well into his 70s simply because he liked his clients and associates and enjoyed the time he spent with them.

It was Ted’s love for family and friends that gave him his greatest satisfaction. Every year on Ted and Barbie’s wedding anniversary, Ted would write Barbie a poem that contained bad rhyming and terrible puns but always delivered smiles and laughter. He also loved inventing games to play with his children and grandchildren.

Ted loved travel, forecasting the weather, geography, architecture, and all things French. But spending a day on Silver Lake in the Poconos with his family and friends sailing, playing games, and enjoying the scenery is what he loved the most.

He is survived by his wife of 62 years, Barbara; his brother James Bromley; his three children Tad Bromley (Dawn Reitz-Bromley), Lisi Bromley, and Brinton Bromley (Kerry Smisek); as well as four grandchildren Sky Walker, Emilie Bromley, Flynn Walker, and Nora Bromley.

A service for Ted will be held at Trinity Church in Princeton, NJ, on October 19 at 2 p.m. Gifts to honor Ted can be given to The Watershed Institute (thewatershed.org) or Compassion and Choices (compassionandchoices.org).

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Fred Panitz, MD, JD

Fred Panitz 90, of Sheffield, MA, and Sarasota, FL, died peacefully at his home in Sheffield on September 14, 2024.

Fred was born in Brooklyn, NY, to parents Joseph and Jeanette Panitz who immigrated from Poland.

He earned a BA from Brooklyn College, and his MD degree from the University of Louisville School of Medicine. He completed his medical training at Philadelphia General Hospital, and an Internal Medicine residency at the Veterans Administration Hospital in New York.

Fred married his first wife, Joyce Fishman Panitz, before reporting for his Army service as a Captain in Heidelberg, Germany.

They then returned to New York where he took a Cardiology residency at the same VA Hospital.

In 1965, he joined an Internal Medicine practice in Hightstown,  NJ, and was a founder of Hightstown Medical Associates with doctors Bernard Ghitman and Julius Richter.

With Bernie, Fred began the Hightstown Planned Parenthood clinic, using donated space, and an all-volunteer staff.

He also served on the Hightstown Board of Health.

Fred married Elaine Beguin Panitz, MD, in 1977.

After retiring in 1989, he earned his JD degree from Rutgers University School of Law. Fred thereafter assisted in medico-legal cases in New Jersey and Massachusetts.

They moved to Sheffield, where Fred served on the Sheffield Board of Health.  He and Elaine were instrumental in founding the Volunteers in Medicine clinic in Great Barrington, MA, which provided free care for uninsured workers.

Fred was predeceased by his parents, his sister Elaine Panitz Epstein, and his first wife.

Besides his beloved wife Elaine and their son, David, Fred is survived by his sons from his first marriage, Eric and Daniel (Amanda), and grandchildren Ty, Seraphina, and Hudson.

A graveside service will take place at Pine Grove cemetery, in Sheffield, MA, on September 25, 2024.

September 18, 2024

Maximilian Urquhart Wright

Maximilian Urquhart Wright, a longtime resident of the Princeton area, died unexpectedly on September 12, 2024, at the age of 44.

Max was born on October 4, 1979 at Sibley Memorial Hospital in Washington, D.C., to Richard LaFollette and Margaret Walker Wright, with whom Max shared a birthday.  In the early 1980s the family moved to Princeton where Max grew up on Jefferson Road in a loving home that was a hub of activity and community.

Max attended Community Park Elementary School, John Witherspoon Middle School, and The Hun School for high school, from which he graduated in 1998. Max attended Denison University in Granville, Ohio, and received a BA in 2002.

In his youth Max cultivated a love for the outdoors and biked around Princeton with his friends. He was fond of furry animals of all sizes and over time developed an eclectic musical preference for Bruce Springsteen, Elvis, Guns & Roses, and Willie Nelson. Max rooted passionately for the New York Mets and San Francisco 49ers. His clear favorite local delicacy was a plate of Buffalo wings from Chuck’s Spring Street Café. He looked forward to annual family trips to Greece and the Jersey shore.

A natural “all round athlete,” Max loved the competition and camaraderie that came from participation in many different sports. Whether it was gymnastics, wrestling, soccer, ice hockey, basketball, football, baseball, or lacrosse — Max had a reputation for excelling within Princeton’s local sporting community. He set scoring records in the Dylan Youth Basketball league in middle school and was known to have hit the very first homerun at the then newly constructed Princeton Little League fields by the Shopping Center. At Hun, Max received many state and regional distinctions in both football and lacrosse, serving as a captain to each team.  Max chose Denison University to play both football and lacrosse, the latter of which was consistently nationally ranked, accomplishing two NCCA Division III Final Four appearances during his college career.

After college Max worked in the commercial and residential real estate sectors in Boston and San Francisco, while traveling the world when he could.  Max eventually returned to New Jersey to manage residential and farm properties. During this time Max developed a lasting love for golf while maintaining a regular presence at the YMCA on Paul Robeson Place for early morning pick-up basketball.

More than his devotion to any hobby, sport or vocation, Max was passionate about people. He truly loved a vast amount of friends and individuals from across the community. Max is survived by his parents Margaret and Richard Wright of Princeton, his older brother Walker Wright of Oakland, California, his two nephews, Cooper and Sawyer, and numerous loving cousins, aunts, and uncles.

Max’s family and close friends will host a celebration of Max’s life on Thursday September 19 at 1 p.m. at Springdale Golf Club, 1895 Clubhouse Drive, Princeton, NJ 08540.

Extend condolences and share memories at TheKimbleFuneralHome.com.

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Robert John Higgins
1927–2024

Robert John Higgins was born in Princeton and remained a lifelong resident. He was an Army veteran who was stationed in Europe during WWII. Bob was also a member of Engine Co. #1 (We Lead, Let Others Follow), Princeton First Aid & Rescue Squad, and St. Paul’s Church. He was a graduate of Princeton High School and General Motors Institute. Bob retired from Ford Motor Co. after a career spanning four decades.

Bob is predeceased by his wife, Clarice (Chris) Boice Higgins; his parents, James and Julia; his brother, James Jr.; and his sister, Katharine.

Bob is survived by his son, Robert “Bob” Jr. (Janet); his daughter, Lynn Higgins Miller (Paul); his grandchildren, Michele and PJ Miller; and his much-loved great-grandpups, Mulligan (Westie) and Chloe (Frenchie).

A funeral mass will be held at St. Paul’s Church on Tuesday, September 24 at 10 a.m. A burial will follow at Princeton Cemetery, during which time Bob and his beloved wife, Chris, will be laid to rest together, as they desired.

Contributions in Bob’s memory may be made to Engine Co. #1 or Princeton First Aid & Rescue Squad.

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Ernest Samuel “Chubby” D’Andrea

Ernest Samuel “Chubby” D’Andrea, of Ewing, NJ, formerly of Princeton, NJ, passed away on Friday, September 13, 2024 at Serenity Hospice at RWJ – Hamilton, Hamilton Township, NJ, at the age of 89.

He was born in Princeton, NJ, and attended the Princeton schools. After graduation, he worked for the Princeton Township Road Department for over 40 years and Tiger Refreshments at Princeton University. After his retirement he was a crossing guard at Littlebrook School and at the Guyot Avenue/Jefferson Road crossing.

Ernest was a member of the Princeton Elks and life member of the Princeton First Aid and Rescue Squad.

Predeceased by his parents, Ernest P. and Josephine Crocetti D’Andrea, he is survived by his wife of 56 years, Mary Jane Duncan D’Andrea; his daughter and her partner, Sarah D’Andrea and Dusty Thayer of Port Leyden, NY; grandson Gregory Griffis and his wife Jaclyn and great-granddaughters Josephine and Guiliana all of Lawrenceville, NJ; sister and brother-in-law Loretta and Steven Derochi of Skillman; nephew Jonathan Derochi of Rocky Hill, NJ; and two nieces and their husbands,Andrea and Luke Moix of California and Elisa and Chuck Welles of Pennsylvania.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated at St. Paul Parish, 214 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ, on Wednesday, September 25, 2024 at 10 a.m. Burial will follow, in the family plot, in the church cemetery.

A gathering of family and friends will be on Tuesday, September 24, 2024 from 4 to 6 p.m. at Kimble Funeral Home, 1 Hamilton Avenue, Princeton, NJ 08542.

Contributions, in his memory, to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital can be made, in various ways, at stjude.org/donate.

Extend condolences and share memories at TheKimbleFuneralHome.com.

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Robert Fones Williams

Robert Fones Williams, 96, of Princeton passed away on September 3, 2024, at Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center.

Bob was born in Bessemer, AL. After studying mathematics as an undergraduate with R. L. Moore at the University of Texas, he received his doctorate from the University of Virginia. He worked as a professor of mathematics at a number of universities, including Northwestern University and the University of Texas at Austin. At various times throughout his career he was a Member at the Institute for Advanced Study. He liked to say he studied chaos, otherwise known as dynamical systems. Both modern dance and mountaineering were important activities for him. He was a member of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Princeton.

He was predeceased by his parents Elgin and Ann (Brown) Williams, and two brothers Elgin Williams and Joe Williams.

Robert is survived by his wife Karen K. Uhlenbeck, a daughter Ellen Lindsay Williams, nieces and nephews Brett Williams, Robert Williams, Cathy Harrison, Nancy Goodhew, Wade Williams, and Carol Kirksmith.

In memory of Bob, memorial contributions may be made in his honor to the American Civil Liberties Union (aclu.org) or the Bob Williams Endowment for Excellence in Undergraduate Mathematics (give.utexas.edu/?menu=OGPNSBW)

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

September 11, 2024

John Charles Crutcher

John Charles Crutcher passed away on August 20, 2024, in Nashua, New Hampshire, at the age of 74. He adored literature, sports, music, and travel, but his family was the light of his life. John was also a dedicated political and community activist with great hope for the country’s future.

John was born on October 7, 1949, to William and Joana (Barker) Crutcher in Glenwood Springs, Colorado. Growing up, he was very involved in the church and faith became a cornerstone of his life.

A voracious reader, John enjoyed a career in publishing that spanned decades, marketing books to independent bookstores and major chains across the country. He also owned a bookstore in Westchester County, NY, and co-founded Bloomberg’s Book Group. Career and family provided John with the opportunity to live in many regions, nationally and internationally. His last two decades were spent in New Jersey, the United Kingdom, Vermont, and New Hampshire.

In retirement, John dedicated his time to family and community. He coached his two children’s soccer teams and volunteered at their schools, his churches, and several social service agencies supporting low-income families, the hungry, addicted, and unhoused. In Princeton, he served on the Board of Crawford House and was a Deacon at Witherspoon Street Presbyterian Church. John helped at his children’s schools and staffed a UK phone bank focused on recovery. Most recently, John was active with the United Way of Greater Nashua, providing literacy education for children and adults, and volunteering at food and school supply drives.

John was predeceased by his parents William and Joana, and sister-in-law Autumn (Goodwin) Crutcher. He is survived by his wife Beth (Stone) Crutcher; children Zachary (Kathryn Franz) and Kira Crutcher; siblings Lynne (Gary) Bird, Wynne Foote, and Lee Crutcher, as well as extended family and friends he dearly loved.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 3 p.m. on Sunday, September 22, in the Chapel at Trinity Episcopal Church, 33 Mercer Street, Princeton, NJ, with a reception to follow in the Parish Hall. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to United Way, The Humane Society, Common Cause, or a charity that represents what John meant to you.

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George Edmund Wilson

George Wilson, 93, of Monroe Township, passed away peacefully at his home on Wednesday September 4 with family by his side. George was preceded in death by his wife, Carolyn Wilson, and is survived by his children, Brett and Ward Wilson, and grandchildren, Emily and Kori Bloom.

George was born in Minneapolis, MN, on October 30, 1930 to Edmund and Lillian Wilson. He graduated from Shattuck School in 1948 and served in the U.S. Air Force (1952-54) at Shepherd Air Force Base in Wichita Falls, TX, where his daughter was born. He and several others formed a flying club and he enjoyed flying the small planes the club purchased — flying across country to Florida and Minnesota with his wife and small daughter.

After his service, he worked for Proctor and Gamble in Cincinnati, OH, where his son was born. Following a move to New Jersey, he worked the remainder of his career in advertising, commuting from Princeton to New York City. After “retiring” he owned one of the 10 largest record auctions in the world — specializing in jazz 78s from the ’20s,’30s, and ’40s. At one time his personal collection topped 20,000 records.

He and Carolyn lived in Princeton until her death in 2017. Since then he lived an active life at Rossmoor, playing golf, bocce ball, participating in plays, swimming, and attending discussion groups. He always had a smile, a friendly word, and a joke ready.

A memorial celebration will be held at the Rossmoor Meeting House in Monroe Township on Wednesday September 11 at 1 p.m.

In lieu of flowers the family asks that contributions be made to one of George’s favorite groups, New Jersey Jazz Society, online at njjs.org/donate or by check mailed to: New Jersey Jazz Society / Mike Kats, Treasurer, 382 Springfield Avenue, Suite 217, Summit, NJ 07091.

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Jean Friel Hultgren

Jean Friel Hultgren, a former resident of Lawrenceville, NJ, passed away on September 3, 2024, in Atlanta, Georgia, after a courageous battle with Alzheimer’s disease.

She was born on December 27, 1939, in Greenville, Alabama, and raised in Bay Minette, Alabama. Jean graduated from Baldwin County High School in 1958, where she was elected Homecoming Queen. She then attended Auburn University, where she was a proud member of Alpha Delta Pi sorority, Beta Omega chapter and became a graduate in 1962.

In keeping with Jean’s zest for life and social flair, she became a flight attendant where she enjoyed traveling the world with Trans World Airlines. Jean was one of the few commercial flight attendants that flew in and out of Vietnam during the war. Jean was an enthusiastic history buff, known for sending numerous newspaper articles to those she loved. She was active in several organizations including TWA Clipped Wings, The Princeton Battlefield Society, Daughters of the American Revolution, Friends of Lafayette, and the Princeton United Methodist Church.Many who knew her recall a true Southern lady who took enormous pride in her country, her children, and her grandchildren.

She was pre-deceased by her parents, William E. Friel and Lois Bailey Friel and of Bay Minette, and by her ex-husband, James Keith Hultgren of Orange Beach, Alabama. Jean is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Jason and Talley Hultgren; granddaughter Virginia Jane Hultgren; her daughter and son-in-law Ryan and Jennifer Spradley; and grandchildren Madison and Noah Spradley all of Atlanta. She is also survived by her sisters Nancy Huey of Atlanta, and Ercel Donehoo of Gainesville, Georgia, and several nieces, nephews, and great nieces and nephews.

A graveside service for immediate family was held on Saturday, September 7 at 1 p.m. CST in Opelika, Alabama. A memorial service will be held Thursday, September 12 at noon in the chapel at Peachtree Road United Methodist Church in Atlanta, Georgia, for friends and extended family. Immediately following the service, a celebration of life for friends and family will be held at The Dupont Commons clubhouse, 1650 Dupont Commons Drive, Atlanta, GA 30318.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be made in her name to Westside Table (westsidetable.org/give) via Peachtree Road United Methodist Church.

H.M. Patterson & Son–Oglethorpe Hill Chapel, (404) 261-3510.

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John Edward von Oehsen

John Edward von Oehsen, a loving son and brother, passed away at the age of 22 on August 26, 2024. John was a selfless, compassionate, and intelligent soul with a big heart, always offering his time and energy to those in need. He was loved by all who were blessed to know him.

John was born in Princeton, NJ, and resided with his family in Hopewell. He attended the Hopewell Valley School District from kindergarten through his graduation in 2020. After attending Lewis and Clark College his freshman year, he transferred to Rutgers University to be closer to his family and friends. He graduated Summa Cum Laude in May of 2024 with a degree in sociology and a minor in statistics. He was then accepted to Rutgers esteemed urban development graduate program at the Edward J. Bloustein School of Planning and Public Policy. John gave his time to many worthwhile causes and spent a summer of service in 2023 interning at Isles, a community development and environmental organization based in Trenton. Most recently, he interned at Rutgers University Institutional Planning and Operations Division.

John especially loved spending time with family and friends near and far. Some of his fondest memories came from family trips to the cabin in Bethel, Vermont. He enjoyed hanging out with his friends — watching movies, listening to music, playing games — and spending time with his loving boyfriend Daniel Simpson.

He is predeceased by his paternal grandfather William von Oehsen and maternal grandmother Dorothy Klesitz. He is survived by his mother and father, Dawn and Stewart von Oehsen, and his sisters Lillian (21) and Anna “Casey” von Oehsen (18). His paternal grandmother Barbara von Oehsen and his uncles, Bill, Barr, and Tom von Oehsen, and their families. John is also survived by his maternal grandmother Pamela Luersen, grandfather Richard Domagalski and their spouses, his Aunt Amy and her family. Additionally, he is survived by a large family of aunts, uncles, cousins, and family friends.

Funeral services were held September 1, 2024 in Trinity Church in Princeton, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in John’s honor to HomeFront NJ, a local organization where John volunteered his time to those in need.

John will forever be missed and held in the hearts of his loved ones as he now rests in peace.

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Curtis Edward Spalding

Curtis Edward Spalding, a longtime resident of the Princeton area, passed away on August 18, 2024, at the age of 94.

Curt was born on October 16, 1929, in Chicago, Illinois, three days before Black Friday. Growing up in Depression-era Chicago was an early lesson in the value of hard work. He graduated from Northwestern University where he met his first wife, Elenore Iverson Spalding, to whom he was married to for over 50 years. At Northwestern, Curt was a competitive varsity diver and was the first coach for the women’s synchronized swimming team.

Curt joined the military after college, serving honorably in military intelligence during the Korean War. Curt joined Mobil Oil Corporation in 1953, holding many human resources and employee benefits positions until his retirement in 1988. He raised his family in the Princeton area, but his career allowed the Spaldings to see the world. The family was also based in in Accra, Ghana; Lagos, Nigeria; and London, England throughout his career.

Curt retired to Bucks County and was a member of the Springdale Golf Club. He spent his later years in Vero Beach, Florida. After Elenore passed away, Curt remarried Ruth Coleman Spalding, spending his later years in her loving company. He was an avid golfer, amateur pilot, and student of American history.

Curt is predeceased by his father, Maurice, mother, Verna, first wife, Elenore, and second wife, Ruth. He is survived by his daughter, Susan Spalding and her husband, Eduardo Beruff; son, Keith Spalding; grandson, Holt Spalding; granddaughter, Rebecca Spalding and Rebecca’s husband, Alexander Plough, and their son Alfred Plough.

The family will be having a small family service to honor Curt’s memory.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made online to The Dementia Society of America.

Arrangements are under the direction of The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home.

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Laurence “Jamie” James Peck

Laurence “Jamie” James Peck, 58 of Princeton, NJ, died on September 5, at Penn Medicine Plainsboro Hospital. Born in Queens, NY, in 1965, Jamie spent much of his youth in Maine. He graduated from Bangor High and following a post-grad year at the Gunnery in Washington, Connecticut, went on to Hobart College where he played varsity hockey and majored in English, graduating in 1988.

Son of the late Russell Peck, Jamie is survived by his wife Liza (Wakefield) Peck; four children Griffin, Kirby, Sawyer, Merritt and her fiancé Kevin Halliday; his mother Elaine (Parker) Peck; two brothers Craig Peck (Kim Heyman), Jacob Peck (Ivanna); a sister-in-law and two brothers-in-law Wendy Davis and Steve Heaps, JB Wakefield; and parents-in-law Bill and Pam Wakefield. Also part of his family were his nieces and nephews: Edward, Aiden, and Amelia Peck, Dana Davis (Jason Yanowitz), Kylie Davis (Doug Shapiro), Will Davis, Emma and Owen Heaps, Drew, Gray, Tess and Will Wakefield.

Jamie spent his career in pharmaceutical marketing. He was a strategic thinker and had a solid knowledge and deep interest in the economics of and innovations in the healthcare field. He spent the past seven years at Indegene, most recently serving as Vice President, Commercial.

Jamie married Liza in 1991. Showing an early and independent streak, the couple spent their honeymoon working on a Habitat for Humanity building site in Louisiana. He and Liza raised their children in Princeton where Jamie coached a whole lot of youth hockey and, as a hockey dad, advised players, coaches, and referees from an almost respectful distance.

While Jamie spent most of his adult life in Princeton, Maine held a very special place in his heart. He loved being both on and in the water there: floating, boating, and fishing on sunny summer days and exploring the challenge of ice fishing in midwinter. He vacationed there with his family this summer.

Jamie’s family gathered to mourn his death earlier this week. The world seems a lot quieter and a bit darker without him in it.

Gifts to honor Jamie can be given to SAVE (savehomelessanimals.org/donate).

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William Paul Krause
January 26, 1932 – September 7, 2024

William “Bill” Krause had an Illinois childhood on a working farm. Along with his siblings, he milked cows before riding a horse to a one-room schoolhouse three miles away.

When Bill was 14, his family moved to Point Pleasant, PA. He enrolled in Lawrenceville Prep, where, upon graduation, he won the Trustee’s Cup. He went to Yale University where he studied architecture. Before graduating, he signed with the Navy and served as a Marine pilot, flying aircraft onto carriers during the Korean War.

While completing his degree at Yale, he met Sylvette de Aldrey, a painting student at the Whitney School of Art in New Haven.

They married, and in 1960 settled in Princeton, raising three daughters and remaining there for the rest of their lives.

Bill began his career as an architect for TechBuilt, a new style of prefabricated building, then became a salesman for their first medical centers. On one of his sales trips, he met a doctor who was testing a system developed by Cornell students to “computerize” patient information. Intrigued, Bill bought the program, and started what became known as Systemedics. The company grew into a national firm which was eventually sold to Equifax.

Bill then became a consultant to American Express, traveling the world with his wife Sylvette.

After retiring from the corporate world, Bill partook in an assortment of entrepreneurial endeavors, which included an art gallery at 14 Nassau Street (Art Ventures), a lighting store in Lambertville, and various small manufacturing businesses. He was keenly interested in solar power energy, holding a few forums of its benefits at his solar home.

Bill was the consummate family man, supporting and encouraging his children in all their endeavors, a trait that carried forth to his grandchildren. His love of Sylvette was immeasurable — theirs was a true love story, which inspired him to write novels based on their lives. Forty summers of family trips to Block Island, where “King Codfish” ruled the tribe, has left indelible memories for the entire extended family. Bill loved people, and was interested in hearing their stories. His curiosity was infectious.

He eventually bought a 4-acre property just outside Princeton, designing a light-filled solar-powered home — one of the prides of his life — and where, last Saturday, after a brief battle with pancreatic cancer, he closed his eyes for the very last time.

He is survived by his wife, Sylvette, and their three daughters, Jessica Krause, Leslie Krause, and Georgiana (Troy) Sensing; grandchildren Nina (Matt) Palmer, Bianca Scherrei, Abigail (Tyler) Brautigam, Hannah (Michael) Batillo, Thomas Sensing; and four great-grandchildren.

Interment for Bill will be held on Friday, October 4, 2024 11:30 a.m. at Washington Crossing Cemetery, 830 Highland Road, Newtown, PA 18940. Family and friends who are joining, please arrive by 11:15 a.m. at the latest.

September 4, 2024

Dorothy Stevens Fleming French

Dorothy “Dosky” F. French, 94, of Princeton, NJ, passed away at home on August 22, 2024. Always elegant, extraordinarily generous, intelligent, curious, and widely-read, she loved both poetry and politics. She was both admired and loved by all who knew her.

Born in New York City in 1930, Dosky had been a resident of Princeton since 1932, when her parents, Dorothy Stevens Fleming and Matthew Corry Fleming, Jr. built a house on North Road for her and her younger sister, Angie. She graduated Miss Fine’s School in 1948, and married her first husband, Edward M. Gorman – also of Princeton – in 1949, with whom she had two children, Kathy and Steve.

Although primarily a homemaker, Dosky volunteered extensively for numerous organizations, especially for the Red Cross and the Princeton Hospital, which she also supported with significant financial contributions. Her other charitable contributions were numerous and varied. Both financially savvy and stylish, she was a co-owner of a women’s dress shop in Pennington, “Reynolds,” in the 1970s.

Dosky loved art and poetry all her life, and became an accomplished poet in her later years. She was particularly fond of horses, and once had her own, Frost, a dappled-gray.

Dosky was divorced from Edward Gorman in 1964, and married Bruce French, a local attorney, in 1969; she and Mr. French were divorced in 1985.

Dosky was proud of her New Jersey roots, which go back through many family generations to John Stevens, who arrived in New York/New Jersey at the end of the 17th century. The Stevens family included many leading figures of colonial America such as Col. John Stevens, an early Treasurer of the State of New Jersey and noted steam and railroad pioneer, whose son, Robert, designed the T-rail system that trains still roll on today. Other Stevens family members included John Cox Stevens, first Commodore of the New York Yacht Club and owner of the yacht America, after which the cup is named; and Dosky’s great-grandfather, Edwin Augustus Stevens, who founded the eponymous Stevens Institute of Technology.

Dosky is survived by her children, Kathleen Colket and her husband, Meredith, of Avon, CT; and Stephen Gorman and his wife, Rosalie, of Whitefish, MT; five grown grandchildren: Alex, Laura, and Caroline Colket; and Brian and Kevin Gorman; and four great-grandchildren, Solan and Nova Colket-Jacobs; and Declan and Ainsley Gorman. She is also survived by two special nieces, Vicki Austin-Smith and Franny Gorman, both of Princeton, as well as many other nieces and nephews.

Funeral Services for Dosky will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to The Red Cross or an animal humane organization.

David John Suomi
June 30, 1973 – August 27, 2024

David John Suomi, age 51, of Princeton, NJ, passed away unexpectedly on August 27, 2024.

David was born on June 30, 1973 in Naples, FL. He attended schools in West Windsor, NJ, and graduated from Princeton Day School in 1991. At PDS, he was a member of the varsity tennis and soccer teams. He went on to graduate with a Bachelor of Arts from the University of Michigan, where he was also a member of SAE fraternity.

David had an extended career in Finance, working as an Equity Sales Trader and Equity Analyst in New York, Los Angeles, and London. He was active in the Big Brothers Big Sisters of NYC youth mentoring program.

He is survived by his mother Barbara, his father Marvin, and his brother Peter (Elizabeth) and his sister Amanda Gorrie (Robert). David deeply loved his four nephews and niece, Noah, Isla, and Leo Gorrie and Finn and Price Suomi. He is also survived by his half-siblings Josh, Jacob, and Grace Suomi. David was predeceased by his grandparents Henry and Sonia Kaufman of Naples, FL, and William and Hulda Suomi of Wakefield, MI.

David was a caring big brother and a loyal friend to so many. He loved to spend time in warm weather, sitting on the beach, and traveling. He was a competitive tennis player in his youth, and he also enjoyed music, gardening, and all sports, but most of all, Michigan football.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home. The funeral will be held at Nassau Presbyterian Church in Princeton on Friday, September 20, followed by a reception at the church. All are welcome. Private burial services will be held at the Princeton Cemetery for family.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in David’s honor to the following organizations: Motts Children’s Hospital in Ann Arbor, MI, or the Princeton Tennis Program. More information on services and donations can be found at matherhodge.com.

Condolences and memories of David can be shared on his tribute wall at matherhodge.com.

August 21, 2024

Landon Y. (“Lanny”) Jones, Jr.

(Photo by Craig Moore)

Landon Y. (“Lanny”) Jones, Jr., writer, editor, and beloved family member and citizen of the Princeton community, died on Saturday, August 17. He will be missed by all who knew his lively and generous spirit.

Born in Rome, Georgia, in 1943, raised in St. Louis, and a longtime resident of Princeton, Lanny spent his adult life on the East Coast, with an eye on the American West. He was known for his boundless energy, his unfailing generosity, and his insatiable appetite for meeting new and interesting people, while maintaining innumerable friendships and deep family connections.

Lanny reached the pinnacle of his editorial career during the heyday of magazine journalism in the 1980s and ’90s. From 1984-89, he was the Managing Editor (the highest editorial position at Time Inc.) of Money magazine. Under his direction, the financial monthly won three consecutive National Magazine Awards, including General Excellence.

From 1989-97, Lanny was the Managing Editor of People magazine, the most successful magazine in publishing history. While at People, he directed the launch of three new magazines: Who Weekly (1992), In Style (1994), and People en Español (1996). In 2015, he was awarded the Time Inc. Lifetime Achievement Award.

Throughout his life, Lanny served as a mentor and champion for countless writers and journalists. He taught courses in nonfiction writing at Princeton University (1995), Northwestern University (2006), and Montana State University (2008). He served in formal and informal advisory roles for the Princeton Alumni Weekly, the Daily Princetonian, and the Princeton University English Department.

Lanny’s first nonfiction work, Great Expectations: America and the Baby Boom Generation (Putman, 1980), introduced the world to the term “baby boomer,” and was the first close examination of the Baby Boom generation as a cultural phenomenon. It was nominated for the American Book Award in Nonfiction.

A college summer spent on a ranch in Ennis, Montana, proved fateful. Lanny was inspired by the American West and returned throughout his life. He spent more than 20 summers with his wife Sarah at their second home in Bozeman, Montana, where they welcomed family members and countless friends. He also cherished many family vacations at the A-Bar-A Ranch in Encampment, Wyoming. Lanny merged his personal interest in the West with his professional life when he wrote a 2016 cover story in the New York Times Sunday Travel section about Vladimir Nabokov’s travels in the West, which won the New York Press Club Award as the Best Travel Article of the Year. He published two books relating to Meriwether Lewis and William Clark: William Clark and the Shaping of the West (Hill and Wang, 2004), and The Essential Lewis and Clark (Ecco/HarperCollins, 2000).

In his final published book, Celebrity Nation: How America Evolved Into a Culture of Fans and Followers (Beacon Press, 2023), Lanny explored the celebrity culture that he played a role in developing during his time at People. He recounted his interviews with, among others, Malcolm X, Princess Diana, Elizabeth Taylor, President Bill Clinton, President George H.W. Bush, Bill Gates, and singers Bobby Short and Arlo Guthrie.

As a child in St. Louis, Lanny suffered significant hearing loss following a mumps infection. He learned to read lips at the Central Institute for the Deaf. With that skill, Lanny appeared to consider the problem solved, rarely complaining and still managing to be the life of any bustling party.

He attended Saint Louis Country Day School, where he played soccer and football, ran track, and served as Student Council President. He came east to Princeton University, graduating magna cum laude in 1966. At Princeton, he was active with the Daily Princetonian, wrote the “On the Campus” column for Princeton Alumni Weekly, and was a member of Colonial Club. He edited the Princeton Alumni Weekly from 1969-1974 and wrote for Time and People before joining Money in 1984. In 1967 he was a member of a special Life magazine investigation of the assassination of President Kennedy that received the Sigma Delta Chi Award for Public Service.

Living in Princeton, Lanny was a consummate connector of people. Everybody knew Lanny and Lanny knew everybody – distinguished professors and academics at the University and Institute for Advanced Study, businesspersons, members of the arts and letters community, and staff at local establishments he frequented. Lanny was a prolific member of the Old Guard, for which he arranged and introduced over 100 speakers and received an Exemplary Service Award for his efforts.

At the time of his death, Lanny was serving on the board of The Rita Allen Foundation. He previously served on the boards of The Alzheimer’s Association, American Rivers, and Princeton Alumni Corps.

Lanny was a cheerleader for his family and friends to the end. He worked extraordinarily hard during his career with Time Inc., but always prioritized his family, including by coaching the soccer teams of his children. He dove headlong into family life following his retirement at age 57. He was a steadfast supporter of his children, gifted at eliciting a laugh from his grandchildren, and always eager to share tales of their latest adventures. With his diagnosis of myelofibrosis and subsequent ordeal of his bone marrow transplant, Lanny became increasingly aware of the fleeting nature of his time with his family. He never once finished a holiday toast with a dry eye. And he was forever grateful for the gift of extended life provided by his medical team at Memorial Sloan Kettering and other institutions.

Lanny is survived by his wife of 54 years, Sarah Brown Jones; their three children, Rebecca J. Urciuoli, Landon Y. Jones III, and Catherine (“Cassie”) M. Jones; their respective spouses, Christian J.A. Urciuoli, Beth Nell Vaccaro, and Mark C. Wethli; six grandchildren: Jane Urciuoli, Nina Urciuoli, Luke Jones, Adam Jones, Wren Wethli, and Reed Wethli; and brothers Charles E. (Carol Ann) Jones and Byron W. (Julie Morrison) Jones.

Services and Contributions: The family will update this page when arrangements for a fall memorial service have been finalized. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Princeton Public Library, the Institute for Advanced Study, and Princeton University for the benefit of the Princeton University Library.

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Georgette Ferrante

Georgette Davis Ferrante “Gette” passed away peacefully on August 2, 2024, surrounded by her children.

Born in January 1933 in New York City to Philip and Beverly Davis, she grew up in Greenwich, CT. As the only girl in her family, including nearby cousins, she was doted on and beloved by them all. Then tragedy struck her family with the death of her older brother to leukemia when she was just 14, and right after WWII when the world was reeling from so many deaths and senseless destruction. Perhaps this was why she became a peacemaker with a lifelong conviction that war and conflict were idiotic and mostly perpetrated by men.

Avant-garde as her parents were, she called them by name, “Mig” and “Phil.” Her mother was of southern roots in a large fun-loving family. Her father was one of two close but competitive brothers. Gette made a mental note early on that lots of children were better than few.

She was an equestrian, an avid reader, and a wonderful student. She went to Abbot Academy in Andover, MA, and college at Bryn Mawr where she made lifelong friends, one with whom she spent her junior year in Florence. She then left school to marry Giovanni Ferrante di Ruffano, with whom she moved to Pampa, TX ,and Dugway, UT, before settling in Kingston, NJ. They quickly had seven children in nine years, an achievement of which she was very proud and always said she wanted more. She was the center of a supportive, welcoming home for all of her children’s friends, and the house was always full. She had a way of making everyone feel special and relevant. Several of those Princeton friends attended her 90th birthday celebration last year in CT.

Following her divorce in 1978, she had regretted not finishing college, and so completed her degree at Rutgers with highest honors. She was fluent in three languages. She was a lifelong feminist and an example to all of cheerful, critical thinking and quiet skepticism.

Conversation with her was always easy and delightful, enhanced by her willingness to engage on any topic and her amazing memory and knowledge of current and past events in the world and in her family. She seemed to have up to the minute information on the doings of each of her 19 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren when their own parents had difficulty keeping them straight. She was an adroit record keeper and meticulously documented her family history through scrapbooking and video recordings that our family will cherish forever. In that same vein, despite near blindness, she hand wrote 600 pages of her reflections titled “Stuff I Think About,” to pass on to future generations.

Her final years were happily spent at Waveny Inn in New Canaan, CT, where she established and led the current events discussion group, and participated in a book group, writing group, a French discussion and poetry group, and was appointed to greet new and prospective residents. She is already missed by all who knew and loved her.

In addition to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, she is survived by her children: Giaff (Alison), Cam (Liz McGrath), Gray (Dee Harris), Francesca Segalas, Catherine Tapsall (Mark Loehr), Virginia Ferrante-Iqbal (Manzar Iqbal), and Philip (Pamela), residing in Hingham, Albuquerque, Princeton, New Canaan, Old Greenwich, Nashville, and Scottsdale.

Burial will be in her mother’s family plot in Yazoo City, MS. There will be a celebration of her life for family and friends on a date to be announced. If you would like to honor Gette’s memory, please consider a donation to NPR and voting!

in time of daffodils(who know
the goal of living is to grow)
forgetting why,remember how

in time of lilacs who proclaim
the aim of waking is to dream, remember so(forgetting seem)

in time of roses(who amaze
our now and here with paradise)
forgetting if,remember yes

in time of all sweet things beyond
whatever mind may comprehend,
remember seek(forgetting find)

and in a mystery to be
(when time from time shall set us free)
forgetting me,remember me

—ee cummings

For online condolences please visit hoytfuneralhome.com.

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Jacqueline “Jackie” Wadsworth

Jacqueline N. Wadsworth, 88, of Princeton passed away on Wednesday, August 14, 2024.

She was born in Milltown, NJ, and settled in Princeton with her husband Ray where she lived for over 65 years. She spent most of her summers after the school year at their shore house in South Seaside Park. She was the Director of Nurses for Princeton Regional Schools for 40 years, where she became known as “Nurse Jackie” by everyone at Princeton High School.

Jacqueline was a devout Catholic and parishioner at St. Paul’s Church where she always lent a helping hand for every event at the church. When she was not at church, she loved coordinating trips for her and her friends in the getaway club. Jacqueline’s love for traveling stemmed from chaperoning the annual PHS Choir Club international choir trips.

Predeceased by her parents Sylvester and Elizabeth (Leonowicz) Nebus and her husband Raymond R. Wadsworth. She is survived by her son and daughter-in-law R. Keith and Elizabeth Wadsworth; grandson Keith and wife Melissa along with their son Jamie Raymond: grandsons Jesse and Andrew; daughter Kathleen Wadsworth; and granddaughters Samantha and Morgan.

Visitation was held on Tuesday, August 20, 2024 at The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, 40 Vandeventer Avenue, Princeton, NJ 08542. Funeral will begin at 9 a.m. at the funeral home on Wednesday, August 21, 2024. Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. at St. Paul’s Church, 216 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ 08542. Burial will follow in Princeton Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to St. Paul’s Church (for the Prayer Garden).

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Rhoda Rosenzweig Lewis
November 9, 1942 – August 8, 2024

Rhoda Rosenzweig Lewis, of Princeton, NJ, died on August 8, 2024 of esophageal adenocarcinoma. She was 81.

Rhoda was born in Philadelphia to Max and Phyllis Rosenzweig, graduated from Akiba Hebrew Academy in 1959, and subsequently attended the University of Pennsylvania. She spent two years of study (and one year of being a ballroom dance instructor) at Penn before marrying her husband and moving to Yellow Springs, Ohio, where she completed her undergraduate degree in Art History at Antioch College. While in Yellow Springs, Rhoda was active in the civil rights movement, particularly in the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee, worked as a psychology research assistant, lived on a farm with lots of feral cats, and gave birth to her son.

The family moved to Princeton, NJ in 1970, where Rhoda’s daughter was born. In the late 1970s, Rhoda returned to school and earned a master’s degree in special education from St. John’s University; her subsequent years teaching adjudicated children at the Skillman Training School for Boys were particularly indelible for her, and she was able to change a lot of lives for the better.

Rhoda’s house in the 1970s and 1980s was full of various children and adolescents who all thought she was the beautiful mom they could trust most, the sounds of WBAI on the radio, discussions about social justice, and the smells of her wonderful cooking. At age 50, after her son and daughter had graduated from college, Rhoda put her shoulders back, dove into a new chapter, and in 1997 earned a Juris Doctor with distinction from Rutgers University Law School.

After a year of clerkship, Rhoda began practicing as Deputy Public Defender for the state of New Jersey in the area of mental health advocacy law. She loved this work, was able to meaningfully change state law, and always gave herself fully to her vulnerable clients until her retirement in 2014.

Her marriage having ended in divorce, she enjoyed traveling, birding, and attending the ballet with her longtime companion Steve until his death in 2019. Rhoda was absolutely one of a kind — brilliant, insightful, observant, empathetic, loving, gorgeous, quirky, a little naughty, an excellent swimmer, a collector and wearer of things she thought beautiful, and a determined defender of people whom she knew needed her help.

She is survived by her son Benjamin, her daughter Felicia (Kermit), her beloved grandchildren Rana, Vivian, and Maron, her brothers Michael (Carole) and Arthur (Susan) Rosenzweig and Paul Seigel (Phillip), her cousins Barry, Trudy, and Hank, and many loving nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Burial was private; a celebration of her life will occur in the Princeton area at a later date. Donations in her honor can be made to the American Civil Liberties Union or the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom. Extend condolences and share memories at TheKimbleFuneralHome.com.

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Andrew “Andy” Thurm

Andrew “Andy” Thurm, passed away at the age of 80 at Princeton Hospital after a very brief illness.

Andy was born in Manhattan in 1944 and always considered himself a New Yorker. His family moved to Scarsdale where Andy graduated from high school. He then graduated from Dartmouth College and came back to New York to earn an MBA from Columbia Business School.

He worked at Exxon in the aviation fuel division and then at McGraw Hill for Business Week Magazine.

He married Ann Thomson in 1969 and they lived on 57th Street while they worked and saved money to take a two-year trip around the world, working wherever they could find jobs.

Friends and family knew they were saving money but assured it was to buy a house in the suburbs and were surprised – not to say shocked – when they heard their plans.

Most of the places they stayed in were in the $1-2 range and many of them included all the bananas you could eat. Virtually none had running water.

Andy and Ann started the trip staying with Indians on the Amazon and then proceeded through South America.

They then spend many months in Africa on camping Safari trips and climbing Kilimanjaro.

They celebrated Christmas in Bethlehem and then spent the next year traveling and working in Asia.

In Africa they worked for a small market research company run by a husband and wife and Andy discovered that he preferred that environment to working for a large company.

When he returned to New York he opened his own company, Thurm Marketing and Consulting, which he ran until his retirement.

While he enjoyed marketing and having his own business, his first love was music. He had studied music from age 4 and was a very accomplished pianist.

Shortly after his retirement he saw an ad from Stuart Country Day School that was looking for an accompanist. He was thrilled to get the job and spent 10 very happy years in the classrooms, theater productions, and accompanying individual students.

He used his musical skills in churches as well including St. Matthew’s Church and Montgomery Ministries.

For Christmas he and Ann would host a Carol Party that people said they looked forward to all year.

Andy was very active in the Princeton Dartmouth Club. Andy was an excellent tennis player with a serve that was very hard to return.

He was a voracious reader and started a monthly men’s book group when he retired that is still going strong.

Andy was compassionate and caring. He was a generous donor to charitable causes, sponsored a child in need in developing countries for many years, and was always willing to help out friends and family in many ways. He will be greatly missed.

He was predeceased by his brother Allen Thurm and his cousin Tanya Roberts. He is survived by Ann his wife of 55 years and his daughter London Thomson-Thurm.

He will be missed by his extended family including nieces Shelley Hughes, Heidi Thomson, and Aileen Thurm, as well as cousins Kevin Thurm, Karen Thurm, Barbara Leary, Zachary Leary, Nany Salz, and Richard Mickey.

Visitation will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, October 19, 2024 with a memorial service at 3 p.m. at Blawenburg Reformed Church, 424 Route 518, Skillman, NJ 08558.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton, NJ.

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Christa Weigmann

It’s been a year, and we miss you and think of you every day.

Last August 20, Christa Charlotte Weigmann passed away in her sleep at Stonebridge at Montgomery in Skillman, New Jersey, at the age of 89. A longtime resident of Princeton, New Jersey, Christa had been living at Stonebridge for five years.

Christa was born in Windhoek, Namibia, on July 8, 1934. Her parents, Herwarth and Else Schmidt von Schwind, had a sheep farm in Namibia (then called South West Africa), where they had relocated after leaving Germany in 1929. Christa grew up on the farm and developed a deep and abiding love for the landscape, the wildlife, and the people. She attended a German boarding school in Swakopmund and later in the capital, Windhoek, since there were no schools near where she lived. Her schooling was trilingual, and she always relished her knowledge of German, English, and Afrikaans.

Upon graduation she moved to Heidelberg, Germany, where she studied to be a translator. During a Fasching (German Carnival) party she met Dieter Weigmann, who she married in 1958.

In 1961 she traveled on an ocean liner across the Atlantic with her baby daughter Stefanie to live on the third continent in her life. She joined her husband in Princeton, New Jersey, where he was doing post-doctoral work. They decided to settle in America and moved to Kendall Park, New Jersey, where their second daughter, Jessica, was born in 1964. There she discovered her passion for education, starting as a preschool teacher. In 1973 the family moved back to Princeton, and she went back to school at Trenton State College where she earned her teaching degree. She would teach fourth grade at the Perry L. Drew Lewis School in East Windsor for 15 years. She was a passionate and energetic teacher, dedicated to opening her students’ minds to the wider world. She founded a school zoo, traveled to the Museum of Natural History weekly to further her training, and of course she brought her love of Africa into her classroom.

In 1975 she traveled with her family back to Namibia for the first time since she had left. She would go on to visit Namibia countless times and reconnect with the place and the people, even teaching school there for a year. Beyond Namibia, Christa and Dieter loved to travel and explored many places: China, Japan, Mongolia, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, and Botswana, to name but a few. Eventually, they discovered a small town in West Texas called Marathon, where the light and the high desert landscape reminded Christa of her beloved Namibia. They eventually would live half the year in their Marathon adobe home and the other half in Princeton, where they would host their beloved grandchildren, Zeke, Oona, and Mai for summers and holidays, including the most joyous (and delicious) German Christmases.

She lived her life with passion and generosity, and we celebrate her memory today.

Arrangements were under the direction of Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton.

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Timothy Wade Miller
March 26, 1965 – June 27, 2024

Tim Miller passed away peacefully on June 27, 2024, surrounded by family in his happy place near the beach in Delaware.

Tim was known for his incredible talent in woodworking and construction, coaching girls’ softball, the gift of cooking, and his love for his family.

He fought a courageous battle with throat cancer, overcoming treatment that left him with incredible difficulties and poor quality of life, but he continued to persevere and still enjoyed time with friends and family and especially cooking for everyone.

Throughout his life Tim especially enjoyed music, watching the Food Network, building, mentoring young girls’ softball, and took great pride in his development of good sportsmanship.  He loved being a father and was so proud of his daughters. He fought so hard to try to be there for every important moment in their lives.
Tim was predeceased by his parents Bob and Sherry Miller.

He is survived by his loving wife, Cindy; his daughters, Taylor Wagner (Brad) and Barrett Miller; his granddaughter, Emerson Wagner; his brother, Randy Miller (Zina) and their children, Tatiana and Tad.

Jeanne Dollar (Ed), JP Crosson (Stephanie) and their children, Ryan Dollar and Charlie Crosson, as well as many friends who will miss him dearly.

Tim did not want a service, but he would like to be remembered with a story, laughs, and a raised beer. For all who knew him this should make you smile!

He will always be in our hearts and never forgotten.

Please visit Tim’s Life Memorial at parsellfuneralhomes.com.

August 14, 2024

Timothy Wade Miller
March 26, 1965 – June 27, 2024

Tim Miller passed away peacefully on June 27, 2024, surrounded by family in his happy place near the beach in Delaware.

Tim was known for his incredible talent in woodworking and construction, coaching girls’ softball, the gift of cooking, and his love for his family.

He fought a courageous battle with throat cancer, overcoming treatment that left him with incredible difficulties and poor quality of life, but he continued to persevere and still enjoyed time with friends and family and especially cooking for everyone.

Throughout his life Tim especially enjoyed music, watching the Food Network, building, mentoring young girls’ softball, and took great pride in his development of good sportsmanship. He loved being a father and was so proud of his daughters. He fought so hard to try to be there for every important moment in their lives.

Tim was predeceased by his parents Bob and Sherry Miller.

He is survived by his loving wife, Cindy; his daughters, Taylor Wagner (Brad) and Barrett Miller; his granddaughter, Emerson Wagner; his brother, Randy Miller (Zina) and their children, Tatiana and Tad. Jeanne Dollar (Ed), JP Crosson (Stephanie) and their children, Ryan Dollar and Charlie Crosson, as well as many friends who will miss him dearly.

Tim did not want a service, but he would like to be remembered with a story, laughs, and a raised beer. For all who knew him this should make you smile!

He will always be in our hearts and never forgotten.

Please visit Tim’s Life Memorial at parsellfuneralhomes.com.

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Paul A. Cruser

Paul A. Cruser, Princeton, NJ, age 91, died July 29 at Princeton Medical Center.

Born in Pennington, NJ, November 20, 1932, to Fred and Elsie Cruser, Paul grew up in Princeton and graduated from Princeton High School. His undergraduate education at Ohio Wesleyan University was interrupted by two years of service in the U.S. Army. After completing his BA degree, Paul earned MA and PhD degrees in English literature at the University of Pennsylvania. He taught at Penn and Drexel University before accepting a position at the College of New Jersey, where he taught literature and writing. He also served as the Associate to the Dean of Arts and Science and as Interim Dean, then returned to the English Department, happy to be teaching again. He retired in 1999 after 27 years at TCNJ.

Paul is survived by his wife of 20 years Karen Murray and his nieces Barbara Stalcup and Mary Skarzenski. Paul and Karen traveled abroad extensively: to Europe, South and Central America, India, Southeast Asia, Japan, China, Morocco, Egypt, Kenya, Tanzania, and South Africa. Paul was such an animal lover that they took four African safaris. Back at home, he relished classical music, especially concerts at Princeton University and performances at the Metropolitan Opera.

Paul requested his services to be private.

Donations in Paul’s memory suggested to the World Wildlife Fund, the American Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Animals, or Princeton University Concerts.

Extend condolences and share memories at TheKimbleFuneralHome.com.

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Everard K. Pinneo

Everard Kempshall Pinneo died on August 2, 2024 at his son Tom’s home in Princeton where he’d been living for the last year. He was born in Elizabeth, NJ, on January 16, 1927, graduated from the Pingry School in 1944, and earned a B.A. in Economics from Princeton University in 1950 as a member of the class of 1948 after serving in the U.S. Navy for two years.

Ev’s first job was at Owens-Corning Fiberglass selling insulation yarn to electrical cable manufacturers. “When the allure of that occupation began to run dry,” as Ev said himself, he pivoted to education. In 1955 he became Assistant Director and later Director of Admissions at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York.

In 1960 he took on the role of Director of Admissions at the University of Pittsburgh. Those were exciting years not only professionally but personally as well, with his marriage to Katharine Anne Salter in 1962. Ev’s romance with Pitt, though, ended in 1964. He and his admissions colleagues “drew the line over beefy football applications, some of whose talents were exceptional in all areas except reading, writing, adding, subtracting, and consecutive thinking. A call from the front office suggested that some things were sacred, but that I was not.”

Ev, Kay, and their newborn son Tom piled into their ’63 Volvo wagon and drove east to the Central Office of the State University of New York. For 15 years he traveled the SUNY system’s 67 campuses as Assistant Vice Chancellor participating actively in what he regarded as a remarkable vision to provide education at a modest price for all citizens of New York State.

From 1979 to 1992 Ev was director of the Princeton Educational Center at Blairstown, an adventure-based outdoor education center that he first knew as The Princeton Summer Camp when he served as its undergraduate director from 1948-1950. He maintained a nearly eight-decade-long affiliation with PBC, serving, in retirement, as a Trustee and then Honorary Trustee. He also served on and supported a variety of nonprofit organizations including the Trenton After School Program, Youth Concerns Committee, Corner House, Trinity Church Grants Committee, the Trigeminal Neuralgia Association, and the Southern Poverty Law Center as part of his vision of a world in which all people have access to “opportunities and health, a share of the abundance of life, and the undying hope of peace and justice for all.” In addition to his service to the community, he will be remembered for the way he would “tune in” to someone, give them his full attention, and leave them feeling heard and encouraged.

Ev is survived by his daughter Nell and grandson Martin of Pau, France, and son Tom, grandson Steven, and daughter-in-law Julie Pantelick of Princeton. Jackie Martin provided warmth, care, and companionship when Ev moved back to Princeton in the fall of 2023. Patrons of the library knew them as puzzle masters fueled by Halo Pub ice cream.

Nell, Martin, Tom, Steven, Julie, and Jackie made Ev’s casket from weathered barn planks as was his wish after seeing his son Tom do the same for his wife Kay. A memorial service will be held at a later date. Please consider honoring Ev’s memory with a gift to the Princeton-Blairstown Center.

August 7, 2024

Robert K. Cromwell

Robert K. “Bob” Cromwell passed away on July 31, 2024, in St. Petersburg, Florida, at the age of 72.

Born and raised in Princeton, New Jersey, Bob served 22 honorable years with the FBI. Prior to his FBI career, he was a Cryptology Technician in the U.S. Navy, a New Jersey Police Officer, and a Special Agent with the U.S. Naval Investigative Services. His book Fugitive Man tells his story.

Bob was a champion for justice, and proudly served on the board of the Florida Innocence Project, helping innocent prisoners in Florida obtain their freedom and rebuild their lives.

He met his beloved wife of 50 years, Rosa Lee (Evans), when he was stationed in Washington State. They married in 1974, and raised three sons who made them proud beyond measure. He taught them so much: everything about the Beatles; the value of a great sense of humor; and the importance of family.

Bob was predeceased by his parents, Ken and Erna Bovie Cromwell, his brother David, and his daughter-in-law, Emerald Cromwell. He is survived by his beloved wife, Rosa, and his three sons, Michael, Daniel (Kim), and Johnny (Elana), all of St. Petersburg. He is also survived by one sister, Kim Cromwell (Kath), and sister-in-law, Carol Cromwell.

He delighted in his grandchildren: Spiro, Sofia, Joe, Izzy, and Leah Cromwell.

How we will all miss our Bob.

Burial will be at Bay Pines National Cemetery in St. Petersburg, Florida. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that any donations be made to the Florida Innocence Project or to the Suncoast Hospice Foundation.

July 31, 2024

Ingrid W. Reed

Ingrid Wagner Reed passed away peacefully on July 27, 2024 surrounded by her children.

Ingrid Reed loved all things New Jersey dedicating her life to the enrichment and improvement of the lives of New Jersey’s young and old. Her enthusiastic contributions as a feminist pioneer; civil rights advocate; public policy expert; supporter of the arts; environmental leader; local, state, and tri-state regional planning proponent; state and regional government task force leader; and board member and chair of countless New Jersey organizations leaves an enduring legacy. Foremost she was a proud mother and grandmother, supportive wife and life partner, and loyal and supportive friend.

Ingrid was born in 1936 in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, to the late Fred and Ruth (Straumer) Wagner and was raised in Vineland, New Jersey. She graduated as valedictorian of her Vineland High School class and enrolled as a member of the Class of 1958 at the University of Pennsylvania, Penn’s first class of women, on a full scholarship graduating Phi Beta Kappa with a degree in Economics.

Following graduation, Ingrid moved to New York City where she met her husband, Marvin Reed. They married in Vineland and settled in Princeton beginning a more than 60-year partnership supporting each other’s careers, volunteer efforts, families, friends, and neighbors.

In 1961, the family bought a house in ‘Glen Acres’ in West Windsor, a new racially integrated neighborhood where they raised their two children David and Liza. Shortly thereafter Ingrid joined the League of Women Voters and began her civic work. In 1972, she ran for West Windsor Township Committee on the platform of forming a master plan for the community. Her bid was unsuccessful but her focus on planning led to 18 years on the Mercer County Planning Board as the first woman appointee and where she served as chair for 11 years. She also joined the Watershed Institute Board of Trustees, serving as chair 1975 to 1978.

In 1974, Ingrid began a new career at Princeton University’s Princeton School of Public and International Affairs and the family moved to Princeton Borough. She served as Director of the Rockefeller Public Service Awards program from 1975 to 1981 and Assistant Dean. In 1987, Governor Tom Kean established the Capital City Redevelopment Corporation with Ingrid as chair, a position she held until 2010. Ingrid’s commitment to improving the State was her motivation in helping to establish New Jersey Future in 1987 — an organization dedicated to advancing policies and practices to curb sprawl and promote redevelopment. She was a founding board member and served on the board for more than 30 years including time as chair and its first senior fellow. While at Princeton University, Ingrid received a W.K. Kellogg Foundation National Leadership Fellowship allowing her to study private sector real estate development in Kenya, East Asia, and Chicago.

In 1992, Ingrid became Vice-President for Public Affairs and Corporate Secretary at the Rockefeller University in New York City. During this time, she was elected to the National Academy of Public Administration and served on the New Jersey Committee of the Regional Plan Association.

In 1996, she joined the Eagleton Institute at Rutgers University to lead The New Jersey Project for the next 15 years. From 2000 to 2009, Ingrid served on the board of the Community Foundation of New Jersey when the foundation’s assets grew nine-fold. In 2009, Ingrid’s passion of providing voter information and government transparency led to becoming a founder and board chair of NJ Spotlight. Ingrid also joined the Community Advisory Board of NJ PBS serving as chair. Her involvement with both organizations helped facilitate the merger of NJ Spotlight with NJTV under WNET in 2019. In addition, Ingrid chaired the Governor’s Task Force on Local Government Ethics Administration (2009-2011). Ingrid served on the Board and Advisory Council on the Children’s Committee of Womanspace and actively supported the Princeton Adult School, Arts Council of Princeton, and New Jersey Conservation Foundation. Ingrid was a frequent program host at the Princeton Public Library including her annual election reviews with MSNBC’s Steve Kornacki. In addition, she was active with AARP New Jersey and honored with the MVP Award in 2020 for 10 years of service.

In 2015, Ingrid and Marvin moved to Stonebridge at Montgomery Senior Living Community in Skillman. At Stonebridge, Ingrid created and hosted more than 90 episodes of the “Getting to Know You” video series.

Ingrid found great pleasure in traveling the globe, opera, classical music, art, ballet, theater, and frequent visits to New York City. Ingrid’s local involvement with the Princeton Symphony Orchestra embodied her passion for classical music and conviction that arts are an essential part of communities. Serving on the Board, Ingrid was instrumental in developing the PSO Bravo program which provides music education to New Jersey public school students, and as an advisor to the Princeton Festival.

Ingrid was predeceased by her husband Marvin Reed in 2020, former mayor of Princeton Borough, and her sister Barbara Suess. She leaves her son David and wife Nan Reed of San Francisco, CA; daughter Elizabeth (Liza) and husband Thomas O’Reilly of Hingham, MA; sisters Doris and husband Marty Schwartz of East Lansing, MI, and Susan Levin of Port Hueneme, CA; and grandchildren Cecilia and husband Raymond C. Smith IV of Boston, MA; Jacquelyn O’Reilly of Cambridge, MA; Agnes O’Reilly of Hingham, MA; and Owen Reed of Boston, MA.

A celebration of life service will be held at a later date. Please consider honoring Ingrid’s memory by donating to the Princeton Symphony Orchestra Bravo program to benefit the youth who are New Jersey’s future (princetonsymphony.org/support/donate).

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Alexander B. Vincent, Jr.

Alexander Billmeyer Vincent, Jr., 91, of Princeton, New Jersey, passed away on July 10, 2024. Alex was born and raised in Lewistown, PA. After high school, he attended Dickinson College and the Cornell School of Hotel Administration. Upon graduation from Cornell, he moved to Princeton for a position in Princeton University Dining Services. This began a longtime affiliation with the University and a career in the hospitality industry. It was at Princeton University where he met the love of his life, Jill. After marrying Jill in 1969, they remained in Princeton and raised their family in the Palmer House, Princeton University’s guesthouse, for the next 29 years.

Away from his career, Alex had many interests. He and Jill loved entertaining, the Palmer House serving as a beautiful backdrop to dinner parties and Sunday lunches that were enjoyed by family and friends. An avid baker, Alex was well known for his decadent chocolate cakes and lavish cookie trays at Christmas. He was a well-known lover of Christmas and Santa Claus collector. He also enjoyed gardening, attending Princeton University football and basketball games and family history.

Alex is survived by his children, Virginia Vincent Sayer and her husband, Dorsey Sayer, and their children Tim and Emory of Wyndmoor, PA; Alexander B. Vincent, III and his wife Jessica Lockhart Vincent and their children Alexander IV and Catherine, of Yardley, PA; and his sister, Alice Vincent Davis (late James) of Columbus, OH. He is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. Alex was predeceased by his parents Alexander Billmeyer Vincent and Virginia Sullivan Vincent; his wife, Jill Blandford Vincent; and sister Lucritia Vincent Bossert (late Jack).

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to Nassau Presbyterian Church’s Compassion Fund.

A Memorial Service will be held at Nassau Presbyterian Church on Saturday, November 16, 2024 at 1 p.m. Reception following at the Nassau Club.

Arrangements under the direction of the Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton.

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Kathleen Cuffy

Kathleen Cuffy was born on October 7, 1954, in Trinidad and Tobago. She was a resident of Princeton, NJ, for over 30 years. Kathleen accepted her angel invitation and transitioned on July 20, 2024, at Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center.

Kathleen is survived by her daughter, Kimberly Borris; siblings, Leila (Lansing), Corinne (Carl), Roslyn (late Steve), Delia, Hiliva, Erica, Arthur, and Raymond (Karen). She was a loving aunt to 17 nieces and nephews and a great-aunt to 18 great-nieces and great-nephews. She was greatly loved by her extended family, the Resnicks.

Kathleen was predeceased by her parents, Evelyn and Clement Cuffy, and her two younger brothers, Eric and David.

Kathleen was an amazing mother, sister, friend, and neighbor. With a strong love of her faith in Christ, Kathleen enjoyed reading her Bible and worshipping the Lord. She was a member of First Baptist Church of Lincoln Gardens in Somerset, NJ.

Kathleen got her greatest joy by helping others. She was a caregiver to many and had a hand in raising each and every one of her nieces and nephews. She was full of life with a sharp and witty tongue. She loved to sing and dance and was easily appointed the best cook in her family.

Kathleen had a love for the beauty of nature all around her. Her phone is full of pictures of sunrises, sunsets, clouds, snowfall, rain, and foggy sceneries. She also had a love for flowers and plants.
Most of all, Kathleen loved spending quality time with her family, especially her godchildren Laila, Zoey, Zion, and great-niece Ava. Her role as a mother went beyond her daughter and her kind heart touched everyone she encountered.

Kathleen will be greatly missed but will continue to live in our hearts forever.

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Corinne Glenda Riefman Barsky
5/5/1935–7/28/2024

Corinne Glenda Riefman Barsky was a loving and supportive wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. The things she taught her loved ones were priceless and will be remembered always. She cared for people without judging them, and she let nothing get in her way of achieving great things.

Corinne was born on May 5, 1935, to Ruth and Max Riefman. Her mother was a homemaker, and her father a skilled Glazier. Her father ran his business from home and his wife took the phone calls and made the appointments; together they were successful. She met her husband, Marvin Barsky, in 1954, when she was 19 years old. They were married a year later in Elizabeth, NJ, and they celebrated 68 years of marriage this year.

Corinne acquired a bachelor’s degree from Rutgers University. During her studies there, she fought with administration and managed to become the first woman ever to take an astronomy class, which previously was not allowed. She knew when to not take no for an answer. She taught people how to know their worth.

Corinne knew how to appreciate the beauty that this earth has to offer. She had a bond with nature that those that she leaves behind have yet to see anyone replicate. She chose to be strong, optimistic, and dedicated her time to caring deeply for her family while accomplishing her aspirations. She knew how to make anyone feel like the most important person in the room. She cared for others in this way, by truly understanding the challenges and achievements they brought to her, and she helped navigate and celebrate them, respectively.

She was absolutely magnetic. People of all kinds were drawn to her, and she made them feel loved. She took wonderful care of her home and decorated it in an artistic and beautiful way, keeping each room filled with many flourishing plants that she understood the care for so well. She had a precise instinct for that which went on around her and never missed a thing, from a beautiful flower to a meaningful glance. She was generous, loving, and so very smart, and she articulated this in an empowering and inspiring way. She taught people to find their best self and to do whatever it takes to maintain that strength.

Some people leave behind a smattering of colorful memories that last a lifetime, but Corinne Barsky was an intricate kaleidoscope of love and beauty that we were all exceptionally lucky to have observed. She is a woman to always admire and her beautiful soul lives forever in all of us.

She is survived by her husband, Marvin Barsky; her two children, Barbara Brown and Susan Barsky; her four grandchildren; and her seven great-grandchildren of whom she was so very proud of.

July 24, 2024

Robert Louis B. Sanz

Robert Louis B. Sanz of Houston, TX, and Princeton, NJ, passed away suddenly of cardiac arrest July 13, 2024 while enjoying a cold morning swim. He was on a pilgrimage visit to his grandfather Arthur G. Boughner’s home, Brookhaven, in Confluence, PA, where he fondly recalled his childhood summers.

Beloved husband, father, brother, son, uncle, cousin, devoted Catholic, lifelong student, mentor, philosopher, a mover of mountains, confidant, advisor, coach, golfer, competitor, swim buddy, laugher, toastmaster, storyteller, humorist, champion of the force, animal lover, dog walker, world traveler, gift giver, conversationalist, patriot, warrior, protector, and sincere friend; he will be widely and often missed.

Robert was born October 21,1949 in Washington, DC, to Robert B. Sanz and Elaine Boughner Sanz, and sister Elaine Sanz Engels. He was a successful amateur golfer from an early age at his home course Congressional Country Club in Potomac, MD, attended Georgetown Preparatory School in Bethesda, MD, and Mercersburg Academy in PA. At Vanderbilt University he would play football and participate in track and field, before enlisting in the U.S. Navy and earning the cherished moniker “Mad Spaniard” as a UDT SEAL.

Following his time in the SEAL Teams he would train with the Master Jhoon Rhee. He met his wife of 51 years, Irene Randel Sanz, while running the family-owned Sanz School of Languages in Washington, DC.

During his next 48-year career in the global energy field, Robert was instrumental in the development of the industry. He built decades-long friendships with trusted comrades across the world. And still, Robert’s most proud and passionate accomplishments are his two children, Regina and Gregory.

Robert was always keen for a proper steak and a chilled dry martini, all the while maintaining a daily morning regimen of exercise and cardamon coffee. Surrounded by his library of history and philosophy, Robert’s written word was profound and compassionate. He was well known for lending his hand to anyone in need, and lived out his faith through his generous spirit, sage advice, tenacity and determination to bring joy to others. He will be sorely missed by many.

Robert was predeceased by his mother Elaine and father Robert, and sister Elaine.

He is survived by his wife Irene Randel Sanz, daughter Regina L.B. Sanz Dahnoun of Sonoma County, CA, son Gregory L. B. Sanz of Seattle, WA, son-in-law Rachid Dahnoun, sister-in-law Mulan Chan Randel of Santa Fe, NM, niece Tara Engels Mendicino Riles of Houston, TX, nephews Cody W. Randel of Berlin, MD, and Alistair J. Coyte of Concord, NC, and their families, as well as his many beloved pets.

Funeral services will be held on Thursday morning July 25, 2024 at St Paul Catholic Church, Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ, at 10 a.m.

Final interment to be at a later date in the custody of the U.S. Navy SEALs.

In lieu of flowers the family requests donations to veterans’ services organizations of your choice or animal rescue charities.

For additional information or to share condolences, please contact The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton, NJ, at matherhodge.com.

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James A. Gatsch

James A. Gatsch, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and accomplished architect passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, July 21, 2024, at the age of 72. A longtime resident of Lawrenceville, NJ, Jim was the son of the late James “Albert” and Jean Halliday Gatsch.

Jim graduated from Lawrence High School where he was a member of the championship golf team and met and later married his high school sweetheart, Mary Sorrentino. They married in 1975 and built a loving family together. He will be deeply missed by his family; Mary; Chris and Ali Gatsch; his grandchildren, Lucia, Mason and Dominic; Jeanne and Robert Bushar; Jennifer and Thomas Tuffy, Joseph Sorrentino; and his many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Jim’s life was so accomplished that it cannot be fully captured within the limits of this notice. He attended Virginia Tech, where he earned his Bachelor in Architecture in 1974. He went on to pursue his passion in architecture throughout his career. He was an ardent supporter of the practice of architecture having served on multiple levels within the American Institute of Architecture (AIA), culminating as its Vice President, Treasurer, and Board Member of the nearly 100,000-member association.

Jim’s contributions to architecture were recognized with numerous accolades. As an accomplished Architect, he was elected to the College of Fellows in 2002 in recognition of his outstanding contribution to the profession. With the exception of the Gold Medal, Fellowship is the highest honor the AIA can bestow on a member. He was awarded the Richard Upjohn Fellowship from the AIA and also received the Citation for Outstanding Leadership from AIA New Jersey. He retired from his career as the managing partner of Farewell, Mills & Gatsch, a prominent architecture practice in Princeton.

Beyond his career achievements, Jim was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather, and a man of many passions. Outside of his professional life he was an avid golfer and traveled all over to play golf at some of the most renowned courses. He was a past member of Springdale Golf Club for over 10 years and still remembered every detail of his hole-in-one on the 5th hole at the Springdale Member-Guest tournament in 2010. Jim shared the sport with his son, Chris, as well as passed on his love for skiing. Jim was proudly promoted to “G-pa” in 2016 and will be greatly missed by his grandchildren.

Services to celebrate Jim’s life will be held from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. on Saturday July 27 at Wilson Apple Funeral Home, 2560 Pennington Road, Pennington, NJ. Condolences are welcome at wilsonapple.com.

For those who feel inclined and in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warrier Project.

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Abby Robinson

Abby Robinson, 76, of New York, NY, passed away on July 13, 2024 at Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center in Princeton, NJ.

Born in Derby, Connecticut, to Herman and Bessie Glazer, Abby spent many years with her family and friends in Connecticut. After high school, Abby moved to NYC and received her Bachelor of Arts from Barnard College. She then completed a Master of Fine Arts in Photography from the Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, NY.

Abby always had a passion for the Arts and in particular, photography. She established her career as a faculty member at the School of Visual Arts (SVA) in New York City in 1977 and taught there for 47 years. Throughout her time at SVA, Abby taught in the undergraduate program, Continuing Education, the Korean Photography Program, and the International Students Program. Over the course of her tenure at the school she touched the lives of hundreds of students. She encouraged them and challenged them with her special warmth, humor and great generosity.

An accomplished photographer and writer, Abby’s awards and honors include the Asian Cultural Council’s Fellowship Award; American Institute of Sri Lanka Studies Individual Photographer’s Fellowship, Aaron Siskind Foundation, Photo District News Photo Annual Book Award, and the Webby Award. In 1999, Abby was the recipient of the Fulbright Scholar Award Research Program to work for one year in Sri Lanka and India.

Abby’s work was exhibited nationally and internationally with one-person shows in New York, Houston, Portland, Oregon, Barcelona, and Hong Kong. Her photographs appeared in The New Yorker, The New York Times, Newsweek, People, Asian Artnews, ART India, and Photographers International.

In addition to photography, Abby enjoyed traveling and spending time with friends.

Predeceased by her parents, Herman and Bessie (Goldstein) Glazer, she is survived by her sister, Dr. Joyce Glazer; her niece Hannah Theodat and her husband Billy, along with their children, Miles and Logan; and many caring and loving friends.

A celebration of Abby’s life is being planned for the fall in conjunction with the School of Visual Arts; details to be announced.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: Planned Parenthood (plannedparenthood.org/get-involved/other-ways-give) and/or the Visual Arts Foundation (pages.donately.com/visualartsfoundation/donate).

July 17, 2024

Jane Russell Dennison

Jane Dennison a longtime resident of Princeton, New Jersey, and then later Skillman and Duxbury, MA, died Sunday, June 30 at the age of 100 a week after attending her 100th birthday party with her family.

The daughter of John Burnett and Lucille Harvey Russell of Wilkes-Barre, PA, she was raised there and later in Farmington, CT. She attended the Kingswood-Oxford School in West Hartford, CT, and upon graduation from Garland Junior College in Boston, she moved to New York and worked in advertising before moving to Bermuda to marry Sam Wharton. The marriage ended after two years and Jane became a single mother of 2-year-old son, James. She stayed in Bermuda, and with an enterprising friend founded Bermuda Cottages, a tourist accommodation competing with the hotels by renting the homes of Bermudians frequently absent on business or vacation. The venture became and remains a very successful component of Bermuda’s tourist business today.

She moved to New York for her son’s schooling and in1957 she met and married Charles P. Dennison. In 1959 they welcomed their daughter Anne and moved to Washington, DC, so that Charles could take on an appointment to the U.S. Office of Education and later at the State Department. In 1961 their daughter Laura (Lolli) was born. Jane thrived on the fringes of government, and she took an active volunteer role in several organizations, particularly the American Field Service’s major annual Washington visit program bringing to Washington all its British commonwealth grantees attending schools in the U.S.

The family returned to Princeton in 1966 as Charles commuted to New York for jobs in the U.S. Department of Education and later as Executive Director of the English-Speaking Union. Jane’s artistic and community interests joined in volunteer work for the Princeton University Art Museum and in her decisive role in saving Guernsey Hall, the now historic home of the Marquand Family. Jane formed a corporation to purchase it and turn it into a six-apartment condominium. The project survived with landmark designation and remains a landscape feature on the border of Marquand Park.

Jane was a founding member of the Friends of the YWCA, a group that raised money to support the organization, and in 2014 was given The Waxwood award, a lifetime achievement honor for the decades of volunteer service she had given to the YWCA. A member for most of her life, Jane credited the YWCA with helping her feel settled each time her life felt unbalanced.

Jane was collector of American women artists of the late 18th and early 19th century. In 1981, Jane became a founding member of the National Museum of Women in the Arts, Washington, DC, the only museum in the world solely dedicated to championing women artists.

Jane was a member of the Cosmopolitan Club in New York, the Coral Beach Club in Bermuda, and a member of the Present Day Club in Princeton. She and Charles were members of the Nassau Club, Pretty Brook Tennis Club, and Springdale Golf Club.

She was an avid tennis and bridge player, loved travel and her garden, and read voraciously. Jane worked hard on her relationships with friends and family and it showed as she had legions of lifelong friends who were treated to her quick wit and wicked sense of humor.

Jane is survived by her son James D. Wharton and Mary Hutchinson of Jamestown, RI; Anne Dennison Fleming and her husband Steve of Duxbury, MA; and Laura (Lolli) Dennison Leeson and her husband Robert of Marblehead, MA. She is also survived by her five grandchildren: Robert Charles Leeson Mace and his wife Jaclyn, William Russell Fleming, Nathaniel Hazard Leeson and his wife Katey, Christopher Wright Fleming, and Annabelle Hope Leeson.

A memorial service for Jane will be held on Saturday, October 26 at 3 p.m. at Nassau Presbyterian Church in Princeton.

Anyone wishing to make a contribution in her name, please consider the Friends of the YWCA, Princeton, New Jersey.

David Erdman

David Erdman, adored and adoring husband of Eleanor (Ellie) Crosby Erdman, passed away peacefully on July 5, 2024 at the age of 94. The fourth of five sons of Lucy Kidder Bulkley and Dr. Charles R. Erdman Jr., David lived in Princeton, NJ, Edgartown, MA, and Rockland, ME. His father, Dr. Erdman, was a prominent professor of Political Science at Princeton University, two-term mayor of Princeton Borough, and Commissioner of Economic Development for the State of New Jersey.

David was educated at Miss Fine’s, Princeton Country Day School, Phillips Exeter Academy (Class of 1949), and Princeton University (Class of 1953) where he was a member of Cottage Club and the 1953 Princeton Championship Hockey team. Upon graduation, David served abroad in the U.S. Army. He spent his career in the aluminum industry, culminating as Sales Manager for New Jersey Aluminum.

David is predeceased by his parents and brothers, Harold, Charles, and Peter. He is survived by his wife Eleanor Crosby Erdman and a broad and loving family of children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews and his younger brother, Michael Erdman of Avon, PA.

In 1960, David married Eldred Eve Pearce (deceased) in England. They had three children: Charlotte Eve (Peter) Rizzo, Jon (Nathalie) Erdman, and Jane (Charlie) Abrahams, and seven grandchildren: Meredith, Hilary, Matthew, Alexander, Hadley, Eryn, and Riley.

In 1980, David married Eleanor Crosby Sinclair of New York City, who remained his wife for 44 years. His stepchildren include Jay (Sherry) and Ian (Stephanie) Sinclair. He was also a loving grandfather to Ian and Stephanie’s children, Parker and Clay Sinclair.

A passionate and accomplished sailor, David spent many summers on Martha’s Vineyard, followed by decades living harborside in Rockland, ME, with his wife Ellie and their beloved Westies.

David’s family would like to thank his many devoted friends and tireless caregivers for all of their support during his final years.

Lois Young

Lois Dickason Young, a beloved mother, grandmother, and visionary leader, passed away peacefully on July 8, 2024, at the age of 88. A longtime resident of Princeton, NJ, Deer Isle, Maine, and Penney Farms, FL, she leaves a legacy of compassion, dedication, and service that touched countless lives across the globe.

Born in Burma to missionary parents, Lois was an adventurer from the start. She attended the Kodaikanal International School in India from an early age. She attended The College of Wooster and Case Western University School of Nursing and earned her master’s degree from Columbia Teachers College. Lois supplemented her education by working at Camp Green Lake, in Wisconsin. While waiting tables there, she spied a tall busboy with a welcoming smile. It didn’t take long for Lois and Jack to realize they were meant to be. They married during the winter break of their senior years in college in December 1957.

Jack, it turns out, had as much (or more) of an adventurous streak. The newlyweds spent their “honeymoon” as fire lookouts in a mountaintop cabin in Glacier National Park. Thus the stage was set for a lifetime of wonder.

In the late 1950s Lois was a visiting nurse to underprivileged new mothers in Harlem. While raising her three children, Jennifer, David, and Charles, she (and Jack) attended Riverside Church and were active in civil rights protests. Later, her attention turned to Vietnam War protests. She was always standing with and speaking out for those less fortunate.

Lois’ life was so accomplished that it cannot be done justice within the boundaries of this notice. She was a nurse to the underprivileged. As a visionary, nationally recognized educator, and school leader, Lois co-founded the Newgrange School and coordinated countless professional development conferences that opened the doors for a better understanding of learning different students. Once retired (but not done working), she became involved with the Prison Literacy Project at Trenton State Prison where she taught inmates to read. Finally, Lois was reunited with her birth country, Burma (now Myanmar), where she helped to start Cetena Educational Foundation, a foundation dedicated to teaching English to local people throughout the country. As a part of this work, Lois and Jack led trips to the amazing sites in-country for more than 20 years.

Lois’ faith in God was important to her. She was particularly involved and an active member at Nassau Presbyterian Church in Princeton, NJ.

A leader. A supporter of others. Lois could talk to anyone (and often did!) and find something interesting to report. She was a connector and intensely interested in helping others to succeed. As one of her former colleagues said, “Lois Young was one of the sweetest nicest people that I’ve ever met in my life, but she was also one of the toughest and her legacy still lives.”

For all of her professional accomplishments, Lois’ true joy came from her family. Her family; Jennifer and Jim Suddath, David and Melaina Young, and Charlie and Georgann Young, her grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Her “happy place” was the family home on Deer Isle, Maine, where she baked, sewed, and painted rocks with her family.

Services to celebrate Lois’ life are yet to be planned. For those who feel inclined, donations may be made to Cetana Educational Foundation, online at cetena.org/donate or by mail to: Cetana Educational Foundation 487 Jefferson Road, Princeton, NJ 08540.

July 3, 2024

Lucy Patterson Cox

Lucy Patterson Cox of West Tisbury, Mass., died peacefully on June 20, surrounded by family after a courageous battle with cancer. She was 69.

Born in Princeton, N.J., Lucy was the third child of the late Henry S. Patterson II and the late Suzanne Virden Patterson of Princeton, N.J. and West Tisbury.

She attended Stuart Country Day School, Mary C. Wheeler, and St. Mark’s School. She graduated from Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, Conn., with bachelor’s and master’s degrees in communications.

Her love for Martha’s Vineyard began at a young age, when her mother brought her to the Island at two weeks old to spend time together in a special place — a place that would come to hold a large part of her heart. As a young girl, she learned to sail at the Vineyard Haven Yacht Club, race in regattas with children from Lambert’s Cove, play in the woods with friends in West Tisbury, and visit family on Chappaquiddick.

It was during this time she met a young boy from West Chop named Peter. Years later, in her 20s, while working at Poole’s Fish Market in Menemsha, she would look down the dock and lock eyes with that same boy, now a rugged sword-fisherman. Peter would go on to become her beloved husband of 38 years, and the father of their two beautiful daughters, Madeline and Kelsey.

After working in banking, she found a career advising young students at Sacred Heart University, starting in the career development office. For 12 years, she was senior associate director of athletics for Student-Athlete Support Services. She dedicated endless hours to advising student athletes, attending countless sporting events, and helping young students from across the world navigate the trials of adulthood.

In retirement, she moved to the Vineyard full time where she continued to influence the lives of many as a drug and alcohol counselor and recovery coach. She was an active board member for Vineyard House, the only sober living community on the Island. Her work with the sober community was one of her greatest passions. She helped so many and found so much joy in helping others find peace in their sobriety.

Her love of nature was evident in her long beach walks, often exploring with her grandchildren. She looked forward to the arrival of the Baltimore Orioles each year, and chased glimpses of the elusive snowy owl. Recently, she ventured further afield, to a new adventure, mudlarking along the Thames River in London.

Her endless talents and interests included founding MadKel designs, needle point, upholstery, ancestral research, card games, climbing Mayan ruins, decorating for Christmas, gardening, watching hockey, sewing, jewelry making, antiquing, and traveling and fishing with her husband, especially during the Derby, where one of her greatest accomplishments was winning biggest shore bass in 2019.

She was predeceased by her dear sister Abby Ann Patterson.

Lucy leaves an enormous legacy and is survived by her husband, Peter Cox; her two daughters, Madeline Giosa (née Cox) and Kelsey Crimmins Cox, and their spouses, Eric Giosa and Margaret Blair Cox; her two beloved grandchildren, Rocco and Lulu (Lucy) Giosa; her brothers, Henry S. Patterson III, his partner Jeanne Herb, her brother Michael V. Patterson Sr., his wife Meg Patterson, their children, Michael V. Patterson Jr. and Nina Henze (née Patterson) and their spouses Rachel Patterson and Christian Henze; her nephews Nicholas Cammann, his partner Anna Corrado, their children Henry and Luca Cammann, Cortlandt Cammann, his partner Tara Gayle; her darling niece Katharine Cammann and husband Michael Cadman. She is also survived by her cherished furry children, Raven and Leroy.

A celebration of life ceremony is planned for the fall.

June 26, 2024

Eleanor Caithness Kuser

Eleanor Caithness Kuser died on Sunday, June 16, in Santa Barbara, CA, with her son, Emilio Madrid, by her side. She was 66.

The daughter of John Erdmann Kuser and Eleanor Caithness Will Kuser, she was born in Princeton Hospital, living first on Cedar Lane and later in the Columbus Boy Choir neighborhood on Galbreath Drive. Part of a scrum of five friends all through Johnson Park School, she moved on to Community Park and graduated from Princeton Day School in 1976 in a graduation dress she sewed herself. It was at Princeton Day where her natural artistry was discovered in life drawing, architecture, and especially in photography. Taught by Mr. Denby, her darkroom work was diligent; throughout the rest of her life, she continued to have a natural eye for composition.

Fluent in Spanish since attending a summer abroad program while in high school, Eleanor graduated from Occidental College in 1980, majoring in Hispanic Studies. After college she freelanced as a Spanish-English translator for attorneys at the Criminal Court Building in downtown Los Angeles. She continued to work after the birth of her only child, Emilio. They moved to Montecito and later Santa Barbara.

Adventurous, high-spirited and vivacious (nicknamed The Cruise Director by one of her mother’s friends), sometimes a ham in family photographs, and very athletic, she became a competitive figure skater through the Princeton Skating Club at Baker Rink. At age 10, she began training with a pro during summers in Aspen. She and others in the Skating Club continually won competitions in the Eastern Regionals; often the youngest, she frequently held the trophy in newspaper photos. She dropped figure skating in her mid-teens and with her high school best friend, Rhoda Jaffin, began the country’s first high school girls’ ice hockey team.  The two friends and the team were highlighted in a segment on Public Television. Soon other high school girls’ ice hockey teams were formed, including one at nearby Stuart Country Day School, and competitive games between girls’ teams began at the secondary school level.

Her enthusiasm, her inimitable laugh, and her beautiful photographs will be greatly missed.

She is survived by her son, Emilio; two sisters, Olivia Kuser of San Francisco, CA, and Caryl Kuser of Princeton, NJ; and a brother-in-law, Alfred Bay of Palo Alto, CA. Linda Ryan, her first year roommate from Occidental College, took time away from her own family to drive up regularly from Manhattan Beach to help Eleanor.

Emilio is planning a memorial for his mother on the West Coast, possibly on Butterfly Beach in Montecito, her favorite place to watch the ocean and sunsets.

A lifelong moon-watcher, she always found a view of the full moon from a beach taking advantage of the coastal geography of Santa Barbara. She always began watching a few days in advance in case of inclement weather on the day of.

All love to you, sweet sister.

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Kathleen Macdonald Bingeman

Kathleen Macdonald Bingeman, age 100, passed away on June 14, 2024 at her home in Skillman, NJ. Kathleen was born in Antigonish, Nova Scotia, Canada on October 19, 1923. She was raised in Sherbrooke, Nova Scotia, and Ottawa, Ontario. After graduating from high school, Kathleen earned a BA from Queen’s University in Kingston, Ontario, and later earned a Master of Library Science at UCLA.

Kathleen was the older of two children born to John and Katherine Macdonald and was the beloved wife of the late Jonas Byron Bingeman for nearly 70 years. After meeting at Queen’s and marrying in 1948, Jonas and Kathleen enjoyed living in Minnesota, Louisiana, California, Virginia, and New Jersey while Jonas pursued his successful engineering career. During their years in Los Angeles, Kathleen worked for RCA Aerospace as a librarian and thoroughly enjoyed her professional career.

Kathleen was always very sociable and engaged in her communities. She particularly enjoyed volunteer activities that focused on her children, local libraries, and philanthropy. While living in Richmond, VA, she was a member of the Chesterfield County Library Board and a substitute teacher in the county schools. She also managed the Meadowbrook Country Club swim team for two years and traveled throughout the state for meets. While living in Convent Station, NJ, she volunteered at the Morristown Library and the Morris Museum. When the couple retired in Princeton, NJ, Kathleen was an active member and officer in several community organizations, including The Present Day Club, The Women’s College Club of Princeton, Nassau Presbyterian Church, and Springdale Golf Club.

In addition to her community activities, Kathleen enjoyed visiting family and friends, playing bridge and hearts, gardening, reading, and pursuing her passion for golf at 104 courses throughout the world.

Kathleen was a beloved mother and devoted to her children, the late Grant Bingeman (Ruthann), Leslie Sillinger (Glenn, late), John Bingeman, and Claire Hatten (Jimmie). She will forever be remembered by her treasured family, including grandchildren, Jeanette Ellefson (Eddie), Keith Bingeman, Jared Bingeman, Michael Sillinger, Chris Sillinger (Nancy), Angela Taylor, Michael Bingeman (Joyce), Courtney Weld (Thomas), James Hatten, and Ainsley Hatten, along with 25 great-grandchildren and countless other family and friends. Kathleen was predeceased by her husband, Jonas Byron Bingeman, and her brother, Ian Macdonald.

Kathleen donated her body to the Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, Rutgers University. A memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Barbara Johnson

Barbara Lamb Johnson, former Princeton resident and Town Topics Associate Editor, died peacefully on June 18, 2024 in Concord, Massachusetts, She was 92.

For Barbara, the features of a good life included a career as a newspaper reporter, a great love for the outdoors, rowing crew, leadership roles in community organizations, and importantly, raising her four boys.

Born March 8, 1932 in New York City to Horace Lamb and Beatrice Pitney Lamb, Barbara grew up in New Canaan, CT. At age 10, with asthma, she was sent to school in the dry climate of Arizona. Later she credited the years in Arizona, and time at Westover School, back East, with building self-reliance and discipline so important to her life.

In 1949 she enrolled in Vassar College. She married her first husband, Franklin Reeve, a year later, and soon they had two sons, Christopher in 1952 and Benjamin in 1953. The marriage ended in divorce. She moved to Princeton, NJ, to begin a new life and married Tristam Johnson in 1959, gaining four beloved stepchildren from Tristam’s first marriage. Two more boys, Jeffrey and Kevin, arrived in the early 1960s.

Barbara soon became actively engaged in the Princeton community. During her six decades there, she played important roles in many organizations, including Carnegie Lake Rowing Association, the Chapin School Parents Association, the Coalition for Nuclear Disarmament, Community without Walls, Friends of the Princeton Public Library, the Nassau Street School PTA, the Princeton Hospital Fete, Trinity Church of Princeton, and the Vassar Club of Central New Jersey.

In 1975, Barbara joined the reporting staff of Town Topics, a weekly paper in Princeton. She wrote and edited the music, theater, religion, and obituary sections, while also covering Township Committee, planning and zoning boards, and events at Princeton University. She particularly enjoyed the chance to write longer profiles of notable Princeton residents, including Svetlana Alliluyeva (Joseph Stalin’s daughter) and John McPhee.

She took pride in her accuracy in reporting. When she retired in 1997, the Township Committee and Planning Board both issued proclamations of appreciation for her work, and the Township Mayor held a retirement party in her honor.

At age 57, Barbara took up rowing on Princeton’s Carnegie Lake. She started in eights and progressed to single scull, winning the event for her age group at the Head of the Charles Regatta in Cambridge, MA, in 1999, as well as a fine collection of medals from other events. She was selected by Princeton residents to carry the Olympic torch on part of its journey past Princeton to the 1996 Atlanta Olympics.

In younger years, Barbara yearned “to hike every trail and read every book.” She embraced an active retirement in the same spirit, traveling on Elderhostel trips, sometimes including grandchildren. She visited her children in Vermont, Martha’s Vineyard, and more far-flung locales including West Africa, Jerusalem, and Bali. She also continued to write in retirement, taking on several book-length projects. In 2016, she moved to Newbury Court retirement community, in Concord, MA. She spent her last years there, close by her sons and many of her grandchildren.

Barbara was predeceased by her son Christopher Reeve and by daughter-in-law Dana Reeve. She is survived by three sons and their partners: Benjamin Reeve and Katharine Sterling, Jeffrey and Lynsie Johnson, and Kevin Johnson and Linda Lynch; by four stepchildren: Kate Johnson, Tristam Johnson Jr., Thomas Laabs-Johnson, and Elizabeth Johnson; by 10 grandchildren: Matthew, Alexandra, Will, Sebastian, Julia, Trista, Conner, Theo, Lucy, and Annie; and by six great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister Dorothy Lamb Crawford, niece Susan Crawford, and nephew Peter Crawford.

A celebration of her life will be held in Duvall Chapel at Newbury Court, Concord, Massachusetts, on Saturday, August 17, 2024, with a reception to follow at Newbury Court.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to either of two organizations important to her: Friends of the Princeton Public Library, 65 Witherspoon Street, Princeton, NJ 08542 or Carnegie Lake Rowing Association, PO Box 330, Princeton, NJ 08542-0330.

June 19, 2024

Janice Phillips Pell
March 22, 1931 – June 14, 2024

Janice Phillips Pell died just before midnight on Flag Day, June 14, following a day of heavy winds, a brilliant sunset, and a double rainbow. Jan was 93, a resident of Princeton and Pennington, and a member of Trinity Church for the last 45 years.

Raised in Short Hills, NJ, Jan attended the Kent Place School and Smith College before her family moved to NYC in 1951. There she met her husband John, a spirited and smart Princeton graduate Class of ’48. They were married in 1953 and lived the greatest love story for 59 years.

Jan had a short career in adverting at O.S. Tyson NY before the Pells moved to Short Hills, NJ, to raise their family. In 1968 John was offered the opportunity to move to London, England, a position he took as director of the Standard Bank responsible for 17 countries in Africa and the Middle East. Jan traveled below the Sahara and to the Middle East eight times in a liaison capacity with John on business. During this time, she wrote two long “impression” essays of West and South Africa for the International Department of Chase Bank.

At home in London, Jan shifted her focus to mission work and counseling. She served as the head of the American Church in London’s Mission Guild with interests in Africa, Asia, U.K., and the U.S., and served on the church vestry. She helped found the first Marriage Research Centre in England at the Central Middlesex Hospital, serving as one of the five trustees on the board for many years. In 1974 Jan undertook professional training as a psychotherapist for three years and proceeded to help clients through a wide range of challenges including trauma faced from concentration camp internment during World War II. In 1975 Jan chaired the British American Ball which funds the British American Associates’ lecture foundation, an organization that exchanges lecturers between the U.K. and U.S. Jan and John served on the board of directors of this foundation for 10 years.

1979 brought the Pells back to the U.S. They settled in Princeton to share their next chapter with Princeton alumni friends. Jan and John enjoyed the breadth of activities Princeton has to offer from University football games to the communities they joined at Trinity Church, the Nassau Club, and the Bedens Brook Club. Separately Jan was an active member of the Women’s Investment Group, Present Day Club, and the Stony Brook Garden Club.

As a one-year swan song to John’s banking career, the couple moved to Hong Kong, China, in 1992 where John was president of the Bank of Asia. During this time Jan served on the St. John’s Cathedral mission committee responsible for prisoners returning from China.

In life there are flowers, weeds, and gardeners and Jan Pell was most definitely a gardener. She grew and nurtured not only her family and wide group of friends, but built a vast garden at their home on Westcott Road. She enjoyed entertaining the Princeton Class of ’48 in the garden for reunions, counseling friends over a cup of tea on the back patio, and opening her garden for tours. Jan loved her time as a member of Stony Brook Garden Club tremendously and her friends of all generations that she made there.

When Jan wasn’t in her garden, she was often taking trips with clients to the Philadelphia Design Center. Jan Pell Interiors was launched in 1982 and she worked with clients on their interior design needs for the next 23 years.

Over the years, Jan served on the board of directors of Trinity Counseling Service and was an active volunteer at the YWCA extension program as a reader at the Riverside School. At Trinity Church, Jan helped build the Trinity Memorial Garden, donated her famous lemon whiskey cake each year to the Trinity St. Nicholas Bazaar, and was a member of the Altar Guild. Reflecting on the Altar Guild, Jan often told the story of being the last person to leave and lock up the church one Christmas Eve following the midnight service, walking peacefully home to Westcott Road in the falling snow.

Predeceased by her husband John, she is survived by her three children and six grandchildren: Richard and Lisa Pell, Rye, NY, and daughters Roxanna and Lila; Wil and Sandy de Groot, Frenchtown, NJ, and children Sam, Lucinda, and stepchildren Veronique, Eric, and Alex; Leslie Pell, Pennington, NJ, and children Kate and Gibson Linnehan. Also, her niece Sarah Phillips and husband Tom Hatch, Wilton, CT, and their son Nicholas; and her nephew James T. Phillips III, GA.

The family is eternally grateful to Dr Regan Tuder for watching over their mom, and to Lydia Konedu and Cecile Nonez for their nurturing care.

A memorial service will be held at Trinity Church, 33 Mercer Street, Princeton, on Tuesday, July 9 at 11a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to Center at 353 center353.org (formerly Trinity Counseling Service) or the Alzheimer’s Foundation.

Janet A. Westrick

Jan Westrick, founder of the Princeton Girlchoir and the inspiration for the Westrick Music Academy, passed away peacefully under the care of hospice in Santa Fe, New Mexico, on March 13, 2024.

Janet Ann Westrick was born in Hamilton, Ohio, on August 18, 1938 to Joseph Jerome Westrick and Anna Belle (Woodrey) Westrick. A lifelong musician, Jan learned to play the piano at age 9 and continued to hone her gift for music throughout her life.

Jan attended Hamilton High School where she served as the school accompanist. Jan went on to Capital University in Columbus, Ohio, where she sang in the Chapel Choir and studied Music Education, with a major in Piano and a minor in Voice. Upon graduation she began teaching music in the Whitehall, Ohio school system and working as musical director for a local church.

Jan married Tom Oesterling in 1960. They had their first child, Tom Jr., in 1962. In 1966, upon completion of Tom’s Ph.D., the family moved to Kalamazoo, Michigan, where they had two more children, Jennifer and Daniel. Tom took a job at Johnson and Johnson in 1976 and the family moved to Princeton, NJ.

The marriage broke up in 1980 and Jan raised her two youngest children independently. She taught piano lessons out of the home, and played for the Lutheran Church Prince of Peace, until the opportunity to teach at Princeton Day School was presented to her in 1983.

Jan joined Princeton Day School as music teacher for the Lower School in 1983. She went on to become the Choir Director of the Middle School and was also named Chair of the Music and Performing Arts Department. Jan also worked continuously as a church musician, playing piano and organ to accompany services as well as directing church choirs.

In 1989, when her son Dan was a senior at Princeton High School, Jan attended a performance by the American Boy Choir. She felt that she knew girls who could perform like this and she put an ad in the paper to see if local girls would be interested in joining a group to sing and perform under her choral direction. The response was immediate. Jan selected 27 girls after intensive auditions, and the Princeton Girlchoir was born. The Princeton Girlchoir grew into an organization of several performing and training choirs and they traveled and performed extensively throughout Europe, Canada, and the USA. The mission of the PGC is to provide excellence in choral education and performance opportunities, while inspiring confidence, character, and a lifelong love of making music together.

In 1990, Jan married her love, Fred Schott, who was working as a mental health therapist and clinical director at mental health facilities in central New Jersey. Jan continued to grow and inspire the Girlchoir until 2009, the 20th anniversary, when she retired and became Artistic Director Emerita.

In 2017, after the close of the American Boy Choir, the Princeton Girlchoir decided to include the boys who had been singing in the American Boy Choir. With the inclusion of the boys, the organization was renamed the Westrick Music Academy, after its founder, Jan Westrick.

In 2014, Jan and Fred moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico, to live near Dan, Jennifer, and granddaughter Evelyn. In Santa Fe, Jan sang with various choral groups and directed choirs at senior-living facilities until the early stages of Alzheimer’s interfered. She was diagnosed in 2018 and began a slow decline until her death on March 13, 2024.

Jan is survived by her husband, Fred Schott, of Santa Fe; her brother, Jim Westrick of Cincinnati, OH, and his wife Mary; her son, Tom Oesterling of Boston, MA; her daughter, Jennifer Oesterling of Albuquerque, NM; her son, Daniel Oesterling of Santa Fe, NM; her only granddaughter, Evelyn Oesterling Mobley of Albuquerque, NM; her son-in-law, John Myers of Albuquerque; and step daughters Lisa Schott of West Windsor, NJ, and Cheryl Schott Zielkowski and her husband Rob Zielkowski, their daughter Lena, of Howell MI, and her most dear college “sister” and friend, Joyce Melchert, as well as many, many dear friends, from Princeton and Santa Fe.

The family would like to acknowledge and thank the staff of Enchanted Sky Hospice, Scott’s House, and Nurses with Heart for their kind, compassionate, and expert care of Jan during the final months of her life. Tom, Jennifer, and Dan would also like to recognize Fred for his unwavering love, honor, and respectful care of our dear mother. Whenever we thanked him for doing so, his response was always, “It’s my privilege.”  Because of his dedicated care, Jan was able to reside at home with Fred until one week before her death, when she moved into Scott’s House.

Jan’s memorial service will be held on Sunday, June 30 at 4 p.m., at Prince of Peace Lutheran Church, 177 Princeton Hightstown Road, Princeton Junction, NJ 08550. All are welcome to attend.

For those who would like to memorialize Jan, the family suggests making donations to the Westrick Music Academy, 231 Clarksville Road, Suite 8, Princeton Junction, NJ 08550 (westrickmusic.org).

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MEMORIAL SERVICE

Judith McCartin Scheide

The family of Judith McCartin Scheide will hold a service to celebrate her life on June 24, 2024 at 1:30 p.m. in the Princeton University Chapel.

A reception will immediately follow at the Chancellor Green Pavilion, just steps from the Chapel.

June 12, 2024

Agnes Dunn Dalley

Agnes Dunn Dalley died June 1, 2024 at her home in Wilmington, NC. She was born in 1928 in Washington, DC, to Richard Price Dunn and Agnes Davis Jones. She married Lawrence Cutting Dalley Jr. in 1950 and together raised four children: Laura Dalley Tobin, Lawrence Cutting Dalley III (Kip), Richard Dunn Dalley, and Sarah Dalley Shannon. Following her husband’s death in 2007, she remarried to Philip Hyland Burch.

Agnes was raised in Washington, DC, and attended The Potomac School and Mt. Vernon Seminary and College before graduating from George Washington University. Following her marriage to Larry, the newlyweds enjoyed a honeymoon in Paris and Beirut, as they traveled to Calcutta, India, to live, while Larry served in the Foreign Service. Their return to Washington, DC, marked the start of their young family. While raising her children, Agnes began a career with J. F. Begg Realtors in the 1960s — her 45-year career was punctuated throughout with many awards from the Washington, DC Association of Realtors. She was active in many volunteer activities as a member of the Board of Trustees of The Potomac School, the Board of Lady Visitors Children’s Hospital, Vice President of the Junior League, Founder and twice President of The Acorn Garden Club, and President of The Antique Study Group. Agnes developed strong and loyal friendships, many of which lasted a lifetime. A highlight in any given year, was spending quality time with family, hosting lively gatherings especially at Thanksgiving and Christmas.

Her interests were many and included gardening, birding, antiquing, auctions, reading, and bridge — somehow all sandwiched between ferrying her children to and from swim meets, figure skating events, and ice hockey games. She was particularly fond of gardening and maintained beautiful gardens at her houses on Martha’s Vineyard and Maryland’s eastern shore — they were labors of love — digging, planting, and enjoying the seasons. Barely second to gardening, Agnes was a dedicated birder, an interest she shared with Larry, an interest that took them on memorable travels. As a fifth grader, she was invited to display her collection of bird nests complete with identifications and drawings of the many different inhabitants — a passion that lasted a lifetime. She enjoyed recounting how she would pay her sister, Adrian, a nickel to bring her a nest she didn’t have. Her youthful summers were spent on Nantucket Island before building a house on Martha’s Vineyard Island to escape the DC summer swelter.

Agnes and Larry moved to Princeton, NJ, in 2007 to be closer to their children as Larry declined from Lewy body disease and whom she lovingly care for at home. She lived and enjoyed her 15 years in Princeton which included her eight-year marriage to Philip Burch. Agnes then followed her children to Wilmington, NC, in 2022.

Her memberships included The Chevy Chase Club, The Sulgrave Club, The Vineyard Haven Yacht Club, The West Chop Club, The Junior League of Washington, The Nassau Club of Princeton, NJ, and The Present Day Club of Princeton, NJ.

She is survived by three children Kip Dalley (and wife Kim), Richard Dalley (and wife Alison), Sarah Shannon (and husband Mike); her son-in-law Jim Tobin; six grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her daughter Laura Tobin, her sister Adrian Dunn Bellinger, her half-brother Elliott Hunter Muse Jr., and her second husband Philip Burch.

Memorial contributions may be made to The American Brain Foundation, 201 Chicago Avenue, Minneapolis, MN 55415-1126, or go to  americanbrainfoundation.org, in an effort to support finding a cure for brain diseases such as Lewy body dementia and multiple sclerosis.

The family will be celebrating Agnes’ life privately.

Condolences may be expressed online at quinnmcgowen.com.

Harrison James Marks

Harrison James Marks, 26, tragically passed away on June 7, 2024. He grew up and was raised in Princeton. He was the nicest person who had a big heart, and beautiful and gentle soul. He was caring, sweet, and generous to others. Harrison was beloved by all and was a loving son, brother, grandson, and friend. He adored animals.

He was an out-of-the-box thinker who was very creative and artistic. He enjoyed building cars and motorcycles, and working with technology. He was a hard worker who worked as a customer engineer with Vertiv Corporation.

He is survived by his parents Stephen and Linda Sweet Marks; brother Spencer “Ash” Marks; maternal grandmother Merriel Sweet; and aunt Marcelle Sweet and aunt Linda Marks.

Funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. on Thursday, June 13, 2024 at Star of David Memorial Chapel of Princeton, 40 Vandeventer Avenue, Princeton, NJ 08542. Burial will follow in Beth Israel Cemetery, 19 Ridgedale Avenue, Cedar Knolls, NJ 07927.

Patrick Joseph Keenan

Patrick Joseph Keenan died on May 30 in his home with his children beside him. He was 90 years old.

Patrick was raised in Jersey City, NJ, with his seven sisters: Kitty, Ellie, Pat, Peggy, Anna, Rose, and Mary. His father and mother, William John Keenan and Agnes Maguire Keenan, emigrated to the U.S. from Newry, Ireland, in 1920. Patrick described his childhood as full of fun and mischief. A Catholic nun at St. Michael’s grammar school, who saw potential in him for broader pursuits, warned him that he was “going nowhere fast.” She thus began a program of study to prepare him for the entrance exam to Saint Peter’s Prep, a Jesuit high school. He was admitted and later continued his education at Saint Peter’s College.

He left Jersey City to attend graduate school in Chemistry at the University of Pittsburgh. A shared ride back to Pittsburgh with Roseanne Reilly, a fellow Jersey City native, led to an introduction to Roseanne’s college roommate, Margaret McGurty. Patrick and Margaret married in 1959 and spent their first years together in Pittsburgh, where their sons, Patrick and Sean, were born. Although he lived most of his life in NJ, Patrick’s attachment to Pittsburgh and the friends he made there was steadfast, as were his allegiances to the Steelers and Pirates.

After receiving degrees in Chemistry from the University of Pittsburgh and Business Administration from Mellon Institute (now Carnegie Mellon University), Patrick accepted a position at Kerry Chemical. He travelled from Pittsburgh to NJ in search of a family home. He described driving west on Washington Road from Route 1 — a road lined with Dutch Elms that crossed Carnegie Lake, ran through the Princeton University campus, and ended at Nassau Street in the town of Princeton. He fell in love with the town. His daughters Kate and Elizabeth were born in Princeton, and 17 Random Road was the Keenan Family home for 45 years.

Intersecting expertise and interests in chemistry, energy, economics, and finance yielded diverse working environments and collaborations. Early in his career, Patrick served as a financial analyst focusing on the utility industry at Chase Manhattan Bank. He collaborated on the development of and patented the Dynaflux, an alternator capable of increasing the output power for a given shaft speed via the positioning of the rotor at an oblique angle. For five years, he wrote a monthly subscription newsletter, The Income Builder, within which his economic analysis on utility and other stocks was paired with his wry humor.

Patrick was remarkable for his ingenuity. He was an imaginative problem solver, especially when it came to extending the lives of dying family cars. His methods included supporting corroded exhaust pipes with orange juice cans and replacing missing knobs with Parcheesi pieces. He produced fantastic Halloween costumes for himself, often from discarded items in the basement, and wore them as he accompanied his children trick or treating, while on occasion requesting his own treat by extending an empty shot glass. For his grandchildren, grandnieces, and nephews, he fashioned secret decoder rings from milk carton tops, created treasure maps, and led treks though Herrontown Woods to spy on the witch’s house.

Patrick and Margaret were married for 60 years. Most days, perhaps each day, they shared laughter. Patrick was still making others laugh with his witty retorts the week before he died. Join us as we come together to celebrate Patrick and his mischief, creative ingenuity, warmth, and humor on Saturday June 29, 3-5 p.m., at The Dinky Bar & Kitchen, 94 University Place, Princeton, NJ.

June Crehore Gulick

June Crehore Gulick passed away peacefully on August 17, 2023, at the age of 94 in Charlottesville, VA.

June was born in New York, New York, on February 2, 1929, to Austen Ballard Crehore and Katherine Dennis Crehore. She grew up in Westfield, New Jersey, and attended Wellesley College where she graduated in 1950 with a degree in Economics.

June’s diverse and impressive career spanned over six decades. She worked as a bridal fashion buyer, and then as a Wall Street analyst and accountant in New York. Though she cherished finance and accounting, her most enduring legacy stems from her role as a devoted school teacher of various grades, first through high school. Throughout her teaching career, June educated students at Miss Mason’s School, Miss Fine’s School, Princeton Day School, and The Hun School. Her passion and dedication to building strong foundations in reading, writing, and mathematics left a positive and lasting impact on the many students who adored and appreciated her.

June was described as hardworking, good natured, and compassionate. She co-founded and ran the Wellesley Club of Central New Jersey Antique Show to fund scholarships at Wellesley College. Throughout her lifetime she provided assistance to numerous local businesses and organizations in managing their accounting and finances, a commitment that extended well into her 80s.

June is survived by her daughters, Katherine “Kobby” Hoffman and Anne MacCurdy (Doug) and her son, John “Jack” Gulick (Steve). June’s legacy extends to her granddaughters: Courtney Aquilla (Joseph), Austen Brown (Nathan), and Katherine MacCurdy. Additionally, she is survived by a great-grandchild, Hugh.

In accordance with June’s wishes, there will be no services held to commemorate her life. Instead, she requested that each person give two hours of your time and energy to someone needing assistance as a way to honor her memory.

June Gulick will be dearly missed by her family, friends, and all those whose lives she touched.

June 5, 2024

David Penman Jacobus, MD

David Penman Jacobus, MD, of Princeton, NJ, passed away on May 23, 2024, at the age of 97, following a brief hospital stay.  He is survived by three daughters and a son-in-law: Marget Jacobus, of Westfield, MA; Claire (Hughie) Jacobus and her husband Andrew Hildick-Smith, of Winchester, MA; and Laura Jacobus of Princeton, NJ. He is survived by four grandchildren and their respective partners: Gordon Hildick-Smith and his wife Alice Wisener of Boston, MA; Seth Hildick-Smith of Los Angeles, CA; Neil Hildick-Smith and his partner Alex Zivkovic of New York City; and Ellen Jacobus and her partner Justin Lim of Oakland, CA. He also leaves two great-grandchildren.  David was predeceased by Claire, his beloved wife of 67 years, who died six months ago; by his much loved brother, John, who died in 2018; and by three sons: David, who died in infancy, William, who died in 2019, and John, who died in 2021.

The eldest of two sons, David was born in Boston, MA, to Margaret Elizabeth (née Penman) Jacobus, known as Gar, and David Dinkel Jacobus, a professor at Stevens Institute of Technology and later a mechanical engineer who designed nuclear accelerators.

David Jacobus had fond memories of growing up on the Stevens campus in Hoboken, NJ. He graduated from the Philips Exeter Academy in 1945 and from Harvard University in 1949; he earned an MD in 1953 at the University of Pennsylvania, staying on at Penn to complete his internship and residency in internal medicine.  While in medical school, he went out on a blind date and met his future wife, Claire Robinson, whom he married in 1956. After completing his residency, he was drafted into the United States Army and served as a captain at Walter Reed Army Institute from 1957 to 1959, in the Department of Nuclear Medicine. After leaving the army, he continued as a civilian on the Walter Reed staff, serving as chief of the Radiobiology Division of Nuclear Medicine; in 1965, he became director of the Division of Medicinal Chemistry. His research interests included the effects of ionizing radiation and the development of antimalarial agents. In 1969, he received the Department of the Army’s Decorated Meritorious Civilian Service Award. Later that year, David took a job as vice president of basic research at Merck Sharp & Dohme Research Laboratories.  Rather than move his wife and five children from Washington, DC, to New Jersey in the middle of the school year, David opted to commute to Rahway, NJ, for nine months, returning to Washington on weekends. In August 1970, the family moved to Princeton, NJ, settling into a house and a community that would be their home for the next 54 years. In 1977, David left Merck and started the Jacobus Pharmaceutical Company, initially synthesizing dapsone, an antileprosy drug, and then developing PASER, a drug for the treatment of tuberculosis.

David’s professional distinctions included awards, affiliations, and numerous publications; his last publication appeared when he was 93. His interests were both broad and deep, and he was guided by an insatiable, lifelong curiosity; he loved to learn. Sheer force of personality was evident in all he did; armed with a laserlike focus and unflagging determination, he never questioned his capacity to solve critical issues of global significance. Throughout his life, David formed lasting friendships. Isle au Haut, ME, held a special place in his heart from his first visit to the island as a teenager; he helped his dad build a family home in Moores Harbor, and he later spent time there with his own children and grandchildren. When on vacation on Isle au Haut, David loved to fish; he went fishing in an open Newfoundland dory with his 4-year-old daughter Marget and an island fisherman and friend, Phil Alley. That trip turned into an epic fishing adventure; David caught a large halibut during a hurricane and, more important, his friend Phil kept him and Marget safe during the storm, teaching him to remove water by tipping the boat from side to side and showing them how to tie themselves into the boat in case they got swept out.

David and Claire loved to entertain and had many close friends in the Princeton community. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Princeton First Aid and Rescue Squad (pfars.org); to the Isle Au Haut School (a check may be sent directly to the school; make checks out to The Isle Au Haut School, c/o Lisa Turner, PO Box 56, Isle au Haut, ME 04645); or to the Outer Islands Teaching and Learning Collaborative (islandinstitute.org).

A private graveside memorial service will be held at a later date.

May 29, 2024

Charles Edward Bush Sr., Ph.D.

Dr. Charles Edward Bush Sr., 85, formerly of Loomis Court in Princeton, died on April 21, 2024, in Glendale, California. He was a longtime resident of Princeton before moving to California in 2017.

Dr. Bush was born on August 21, 1938, in Miami, Florida, to the late Charles and Izetta Bush. He was the fourth of eight children, all of whom were first-generation college graduates.

He earned four higher-education degrees: Bachelor of Science degrees in mathematics and engineering from Knoxville College (Tennessee) and Lafayette University (Pennsylvania), and Masters and Doctorate degrees in nuclear engineering and nuclear physics from the University of Wisconsin, Madison. He was a veteran who served two years in the U.S. Army.

His talents in math and science sparked a lifelong passion for pursuing the most difficult scientific challenges of humanity, particularly, safe, clean, and renewable energy. He had a 35-year career as an experimental physicist in nuclear fusion energy and plasma physics research at the Princeton Plasma Physics Laboratory and the Oak Ridge National Laboratory (ORNL) in Tennessee. He was a pioneer in the study of Tokamaks, H-mode (high confinement) plasmas, toroidal plasmas, and novel applications of lasers. He authored and co-authored many scientific papers, conference papers, and presentation reports, some of which have been cited by other authors in his field.

Dr. Bush relished opportunities to share ideas with peers in his field as the pursuit of nuclear fusion became a global effort. He participated in conferences and visited laboratories and universities throughout North America, Europe, Africa, and Asia.

The pinnacle of his career was a three-year assignment at CEA Cadarache Technological Research and Development Center for Energy in the South of France, near Aix-en-Provence. During his tenure at Cadarache, he collaborated with scientists from around the world during the design phase of the International Thermonuclear Experimental Reactor (ITER). He and his wife, Alyce, lived in Venelles, a village outside of Aix-en-Provence. They made friends among the locals and immersed themselves in French culture and cuisine. They traveled throughout France and Italy and considered it to be one of the best times of their lives. Every day was an adventure for them.

Dr. Bush was a member and elder of Witherspoon Street Presbyterian Church in Princeton, a staunch supporter of the Democratic Party, and a member of Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity. He belonged to several professional societies: the American Physical Society, Sigma Xi, the University of Wisconsin Alumni Association, the American Nuclear Society, the American Association for the Advancement of Science, the National Society of Black Physicists, and the review panel for the Department of Energy’s Historically Black Colleges and Universities Nuclear Energy Training Program.

He loved computers (especially Macs), photography, basketball, football, track and field, the music of Nat King Cole, Johnny Mathis, Motown, and Mozart, Westerns, science fiction, and his Loomis Court neighborhood.

He was a beloved and devoted husband, father, and grandfather, and is survived by his wife of 58 years, Alyce (Walker) Bush; daughter, Lisa C. Bush; son, Charles Edward Bush Jr.; daughter-in-law, Kate Eberle; two grandsons; two sisters, Gertrude (Bush) Thomas and Vanessa (Bush) Gibson; and several nephews and nieces.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Dr. Bush’s memory to Witherspoon Street Presbyterian Church, 112 Witherspoon Street, Princeton, NJ 08540 (witherspoonchurch.org/give), or to The Paul Robeson House and Museum of Princeton, 112 Witherspoon Street, Princeton, NJ 08542 (give-usa.keela.co/Donate2023).

Irene M. Amarel

Irene M. Amarel died quietly in her home in Princeton, NJ, on May 22, 2024. She was 89 and had been battling glioblastoma for a year and a half.

Irene was born on October 20, 1934 in Newark NJ. Her father, Jacob Kaplan, had emigrated to the U.S. as a young boy and had attained a law degree and later became a Rabbi. Jacob died when Irene was 13 and her mother Sade, supported the family which included her beloved brother Daniel and older sister, Helen.

Irene attended Weequahic High School and graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Douglass College as an English major. After college, she taught high school English at Verona High School. She loved poetry and literature, captivating her students with her enthusiasm and passion.

In 1957 she married Dr. Stanley Rosenberg. They had two children, James and Drew Ann.

Although Irene and Stan divorced in 1971, they later became close friends along with their partners, Dave and Betsy. This was a great blessing for their kids and grandkids.

In 1972, Irene attended Rutgers Law School and earned a law degree. Irene was a trailblazer and one of the leading female matrimonial lawyers in N.J. at a time when they were scarce. She was one of the first female members of the AAML, New Jersey chapter. This is an organization whose members take tests and must show high qualifications and are considered to be the crème de la crème from each state. She started her career working for the renowned firm of Skoloff and Wolfe and then practiced family law with the firm of Ulrichsen, Amarel & Freed. When that firm ended, Irene established a mediation practice. As an attorney, Irene was beloved by her clients, adversaries, and coworkers alike. She was a respected adversary, always vigorously promoting her clients’ interests, while maintaining the civility and graciousness that were her trademark. In 2002 she received the award from the Mercer County bar association for professional lawyer of the year.

Irene loved to sing and had a beautiful voice. She sang throughout high school and college and often sang show tunes with her children, loving to harmonize with them. She often took her kids to musical theater in NYC. Irene was an actress as well, attending classes in NYC, and was cast in starring roles in many plays in the Princeton community.

Irene married Saul David Amarel in October of 1990 and spent many happy years with him until he died in 2002. Irene loved to travel and took many trips with Saul all over the world. She collected beautiful pieces from her trips abroad and antique stores, decorating their home with style and elegance.

Later, when she retired, she studied and became a docent at the Princeton University Art Museum, allowing her passion for beautiful works to become a vehicle to educate others. One of her favorite programs as a docent was leading tours for children from underprivileged neighborhoods. Schools would bus the kids to the museum and Irene was given the opportunity to excite them with the art from ancient civilizations. They would create their own drawings as well, which was especially fun.

Irene was a huge dog lover and although she never had dogs as a child, was never without one or two as an adult. They attended all of her mediations!

Irene also volunteered in many community organizations. She was secretary of the Evergreen Society and active in the Glenn Neighborhood. She joined a book club and was a member of an acting troupe called the Senior Players, and Nia, a dance group. An accomplished cook and hostess, Irene hosted many memorable dinner parties at her Princeton home.

Irene met her partner, Dave Miller, in 2012. Dave is a musician and he and Irene loved to play and sing together and they loved to dance! One of their favorite times was the yearly Princeton Festival, where they got to dress up in formal attire and cut the rug. Dave co-owned a property with his siblings in Glen Lake, Michigan, and Irene joined forces with them and together they built a beautiful vacation home where they spent many happy summers, along with Dave’s kids and grandkids who often came to visit.

Irene’s incredible style and elegance was always a topic for her many admirers. When she walked in a room, she captivated everyone with her beauty, sophistication, and charm. People felt honored to have her as a friend. When she was in her 80s, younger women were blown away by her youthfulness and vitality. One woman asked her how she managed to look so young. She replied simply, “Good posture.” Irene’s kindness, warmth, intelligence, and wit will be remembered by many people whose lives she touched.

She is survived by her partner, Dave Miller; her son, James Allen Rosenberg; daughter, Drew Ann Rosenberg; daughter-in-law Giovanna Holden; son-in-law, John Anderson; and grandsons, Jeff, Dan Rosenberg, Sam Anderson and granddaughter-in-law, Kristin Mason.

She will be very much missed by all of her friends and family.

There will be a Celebration of Life Service on June 8 at 5 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Princeton, 50 Cherry Hill Road, Princeton. All are welcome.

Donations in honor of Irene can be made to Sciencementors.org.

Janet Marino Hautau

Janet Marino Hautau, one of the earliest women art directors in the field of advertising, died on March 8, in Princeton, NJ. She was 92.

Featured on the cover of Madison Avenue magazine in 1963 as the lone female Art Director in the all-male world of New York advertising, Janet stood out – and alongside – other female advertising trailblazers of the time such as Mary Wells Lawrence and Shirley Polykoff.

An alumna of Pratt Institute, Janet’s first job was with a one-man agency which proved to be more workout than work, as she spent her days being chased around the desk by her boss. Not one to be discouraged, nor chased, she quickly landed a job as a renderer at Ellington & Company in Manhattan, where she worked for advertising legend Julian Koenig, and counted Fred Papert, George Lois, Helmut Krone and Harold Kreiger, among other industry notables, as her close friends. After a decade at Ellington, she moved on to the Young & Rubicam (Y&R) agency.

Janet met her husband Fred Hautau in the revolving door at Y&R and legend has it that when Janet told her then boyfriend Alan that she would be marrying Fred, Alan fainted on the kitchen floor of her parent’s house. Janet had that effect on people.

Some of her award-winning ad campaigns necessitated working with an elephant, drawing bubble baths at a suite in the Plaza, and being kissed on both cheeks by Laurel & Hardy (impersonators).

Janet Ann Marino was born in 1932 in Tenafly, NJ. Her father, Mike Marino, was a stockbroker until the 1929 market crash, and then a men’s clothing salesman at Sears & Roebuck. Her mother Jean (Fasano) Marino was a homemaker who raised four children, of which Janet was the oldest.

Janet was a preternaturally gifted artist though she never envisioned working as one. It was her Uncle Larry and high school principal Miss Preston who insisted that Janet apply to Pratt, a school she had never heard of though it was less than 24 miles from her home.

A striking, auburn-haired Italian beauty with an aquiline nose, Janet set her own agenda from an early age and was fond of saying, “Agree with what they ask you to do, but do what you want anyway.”

Though Janet stopped commuting to Manhattan in the ’70s, she never stopped working nor creating art. Janet operated her Princeton-based design studio while pursuing her lifelong interest in fine art as an illustrator, watercolorist, photographer, and printmaker. Her more recent work emphasized monoprints derived from her distinctive photographs.

She exhibited her work throughout the tri-state area, and taught at the Princeton Adult School and Rider University.

Janet is survived by her daughter Michelle Hautau Klein; two grandchildren, Josie and Sam Klein; her brother Michael Marino; her partner David McClure; and a loving extended family. She is preceded in death by her sisters Lois Marino and Caryl Marino Alers.

Janet was known for her ability to create exquisite beauty from the everyday, to make new acquaintances feel like old friends, her playful humor, and unsolicited candor. She shared life learnings freely: “Always wear great shoes — people look at your shoes first” and “Old age is for the birds.”

A private gathering has been held and the family requests that donations be sent to a charity of the donor’s choice in memory of Janet.