By Stuart Mitchner
Writing about Brian Wilson (1942-2025) on Father’s Day is a complicated proposition. In Catch A Wave: The Rise, Fall & Redemption of the Beach Boys’ Brian Wilson (Rodale 2006), Peter Ames Carlin ponders the possibility that Brian blames his father Murry Wilson (1917-1973) for delivering the blow “that destroyed almost all of the hearing in his right ear.” The tangled back story of the “crushing blow” to a musician “who would spend his life manipulating sound textures but could never hear music in stereo” takes a more suggestive turn when Brian admits “I was so afraid of my dad and the way he talked to me that something got inside of me and I just started making great records.”
Still leaving a lot unsaid, Wilson offers a cautiously worded account of his father’s treatment of him and his Beach Boy brothers Dennis and Carl in a 2004 interview: “He was the one who got us going. He didn’t make us better artists or musicians, but he gave us ambition. I’m pleased he pushed us, because it was such a relief to know there was someone as strong as my dad to keep things going. He used to spank us, and it hurt too, but I loved him because he was a great musician.” more